Mangalore: 'Duped' NRI's Wife Refutes Charges, says he Tortured her


Mangalore: 'Duped' NRI's Wife Refutes Charges, says he Tortured her

Pics: Dayanand Kukkaje
Daijiworld Media Network - Mangalore (VM)

Mangalore, Jul 24: A woman who was accused by her NRI husband of cheating on him and misusing Rs 70 lac over a number of years, came before the media on Monday July 23 and levelled counter-allegations against him.

Last week, Gantalkatte, Moodbidri resident Aboobakker, who now stays in Saudi Arabia, had alleged that his wife Sameera (26) had cheated on him and wasted Rs 70 lac on 'boyfriends', besides pocketing gold worth over a crore from neighbours.

Rubbishing the allegations, Sameera told reporters that her husband had physically abused her for many months and even threatened to kill her. She claimed that all his allegations were false, aimed at tarnishing her image.

She also alleged that Aboobakker had married another woman six months ago without her consent and without obtaining talak (divorce) from her. "He spread rumours against me and filed a false complaint that I had misused his money. He has threatened to throw acid on me," she claimed.

Sameera denied allegations of misusing her husband's money and said that a sum of Rs 5,80,000 which was spent from bank account had gone on house repairs and on purchasing household items. She questioned as to how a man earning only Rs 12,000 could send Rs 70 lac.

On certain pictures released by her husband accusing her of extra-marital affairs, she said that she had been on an outing to Bangalore with her family of 13, with the permission of her husband. She alleged that Aboobakker had misused a few of the photos and videos taken on that trip to blackmail her.

She even accused him of mentally torturing her and of plotting to kill her. She said that he would lock her in a room every day and thrash her with eight canes, and when her parents and brother came to protect her, he locked them too.

She further levelled grave allegations that her husband had been conspiring to release a blue film of her, and tried to force her into prostitution in Saudi, but she refused and was sent back to India. When her mother threatened him on learning of the incident, he is said to have asked for forgiveness.

Sameera said that he had harassed her for dowry and demanded money whenever he came back from Saudi. She claimed that she was made to sign on blank cheques twice, and had to take a loan of Rs 6 lac to meet his demands, and that to pay back the loan she had to sell her mother's property.

Sameera has filed a complaint with the Moodbidri police against her husband, and named four others - Kabir, Latif, Hasan Monu and Ahmed Bava of conspiring with him.

Requesting the police through the media to protect her and her family from Aboobakker, she lamented that police had not taken any action against him on an earlier complaint filed by her in January this year.

Sameera's mother Naseema was present at the press meet.

Much to the curiosity of the media persons, a police car followed the two women as they left the press club in another car. There was also a Maruti Ritz parked at some distance, possibly belonging to Aboobakker's family.

 

  

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  • Gopalbandhu Mohapatra, Haleangady/Cuttack

    Thu, Jul 26 2012

    Mr.sharif, Al-Jubail KSA

    If nine year's back in Navami Plaza scandal..what's her age than..hardly seventeen..???

    Ms.Sarita D'Souza, Valencia/Kuwait

    yahan par ek ghar thaba ho rahi hai..tujhe kahani mein twist nazar aa rahi hai...Just go and pray to Lord..to bring them together..or last solution..Hum bada 'Kameena' hai magar aapse jyada nahin..!!!

    Bekkage Aata...Mota Eeleege Pranasankata..

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Thu, Jul 26 2012

    hey, Sunil, mangalore,

    WHAT IS WRONG IN MY COMMENTS.

    CAN YOU GIVE MEANINGFUL COMMENTS.

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Thu, Jul 26 2012

    hey, Sunil, mangalore,

    WHAT IS WRONG IN MY COMMENTS.

    CAN YOU GIVE MEANINGFUL COMMENTS.

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  • Wiils, Bangalore/Mangalore

    Thu, Jul 26 2012

    I totally agree with Nagesh, has he said HUSBAND & WIFE QUARREL are common in every house. Why do u have to go to media and make a big issue out of it. Its such a shame to see husband and wife fighting on TV9 and making a fool out of themselves. If this is the case all the families who have issues should go to media and create scenes, Its not reallity show like BIG BOSS to get every things on Tv or media.

    Ladies brains are not on shoulders its on theirs knees. Being a women im shamed to say this.

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  • Clara Fenandes, Mangalore

    Thu, Jul 26 2012

    Glen, we, Mangaloreans just need a topic to rape someone's dignity without verifying the facts. It is just mouth to mouth....where? when? why? how? People just read for the sake of commenting without understanding what is being read.

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  • Gerald, modankap-bantval

    Thu, Jul 26 2012

    THIS IS NOTHING BUT BLACKMAIL "BEING A FAMINE GENDER " - NRI Husbands love your wife but not at the cost of 70 Lacs - Jai HOooo

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  • shan, Dubai

    Thu, Jul 26 2012

    Woman looks very cunning created nice story against her husband.I saw the TV debate in that when the guy talking she is still keeps on talking,but guy not talks when she talks.she looks like happy not feel like tensnd & tourchered.Why the neighbours not coming front & telling about thier gold? I think girl came to media to get publicity & money from her husband.i feel bringing family matters in front of all people surelyly shameless girl Nature.they have to go to court or consult some lawyers.Meida have to ask neighbours & with Kabir.may b both did some fault.Truth in family drama is not clearly visible.

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  • Sattar Bahrain, Mangalore...

    Thu, Jul 26 2012

    Gud commentz.....

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  • Aboobakar Ismail, B.C Road,Parliya

    Thu, Jul 26 2012

    Good comments from Nagesh Mamu.He is not baied on this issue.
    Keep it up and do required more such a valid comments.

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/USA.

    Thu, Jul 26 2012

    People,

    Looks like she is next Corporator from Haleyangadi,,, and potential mayor of Mangalore....

    Women are really equal to men in India now,,, in evrything....


    Jai Hoooooo anti-dowry law and whoever who drafted it,,, and all the members of parliment who are responsible for passing it....and President for signing it as law....

    Jai Hooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

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  • Lancy D souza, Neermarga/ Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    I feel this matter is silly,could have solved by mediation from Muslim leaders or adult.believe it or not these days looks like almost every marriage ends within year!Most of the cases its the girl who misuses the liberty and hard earned money from husband.I know a case few years back A christian Man married to a girl from Koppa-Chicmangalore who was from very poor background.They got separated and she even left her only child in the custody of her Husband!Why Women run after Materiel life and Money?is it life?
    I hope married people settle their issues within family rather than coming to the law.

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  • Cristi, Urwa

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    there is RSS hand behind this....

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  • Edwin Nazareth., Shankerpura. Udipi

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    if your husband tortured you, why dint you complaint to the police, surely they would have taken action, vedio clips which shown in TV9, it is lies?

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  • Harold D'cunha, Mangalore, India

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Dear Sunil, mangalore. In the below write up of Nagesh, whom u think,should consult a doctor? Is it Nagesh Nayak or yourself.
    Pelase read his comments once again and this time, till now, 3 readers already approved his comments. Even I liked it. Very practical observation.

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  • Abdulla Amin, Udupi / Dubai

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Good for a bad job.

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  • Sunil, mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012


    Useless comments from Nagesh nayak. No meaning. He need to consult doctor.

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  • Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Sometime we say your face and your body language explains everything of your qualities to an extent .A good political scope of the future anyway?.

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  • Jerry, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Congrats Nagesh Mamu. By reading your comments, I feel you are alright now. By the way which doctor you approached?

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  • DS, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    strange sameeraji's statement about her husband earning Rs. 12,000/-) why will anyone go abroad to earn just Rs. 12,000/-, he could have earned that here itself and her husband accusing her of spending Rs. 70 lacs, something is fishy here :P

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  • sunil, mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    police protection ge.... hehehehe mala katrina kaif

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  • Glenn, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    I was just going thru the comments of readers and one thing struck me was the amount of criticism and allegations on the woman by readers calling her cunning and cheat just by the looks.Some people say noway by her looks does she look like tortured. So all you readers want to see the marks on the face to believe she was tortured? Everyone just need to understand she is not staying with her husband to have tortured marks. Secondly I was amazed to see the amount of dislikes on the comments which are supporting the woman where as they have just raised concern on her being mistreated. Just shows the society which we live in. Mangalore that we call and Mangalore that we are proud of. This is the apathy we have towards women where she is raped, tortured and teased, blamed for everything, deprived of her rights. Just imagine yor own mother or sister in her place and being mistreated by someone and name being spoilt. Here no one is sure as to who is at fault. so without knowing the reasons and truth do not make anyone the culprit.
    On the 70 Lakhs in 5 years story is a little difficult to savor and me being a highly paid qualified professional i know how difficult it is to even save 25% of what is being mentioned here and am sure most of the people working in the gulf would agree with me. Cost of living in the gulf is very high. Its not like money giving tree as many people back home think. People are exploited day in and day out.And with Rs 12000 salary sending 70 Lakhs? Strange. I do not agree with her statments of prostitution,though it is prevalent in large scale in the gulf inspite of having strict laws.but the human trafficking is happening.
    Just a humble request to be a little more compassionate towards fellow human beings. We speak we mangaloreans are united breaking all caste community barriers and we are proud about it. Then why there is a bias in our comments towards a gender? This includes people who are regularly commenting on daiji. Please lead by example.

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  • JP, Karkala

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    she looks like our Mayour!:)

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  • Clement Dmello, Udupi/UAE

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Nagesh rocks this time with his well researched comments. Good one.

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  • Deepak, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Well said Nagesh mamu.Your stetement is realy a GEM.

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  • sharif, Al-Jubail KSA

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    This same lady is prime accused 9 years back sex scandle at moodbidri Navami plaza.....

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  • Judith, Dubai

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Very well said. Everyone thinks that women can be suppressed. So much so they aren't given the same advantages as their brothers.. I commend Sameera for openly exposing her husbands trickery. It is not an easy task moving against the flow. Way to go she should try to be independent financially and know that all is not over just because her husband has lost interest in her and is seeking a divorce

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  • Shaz Ahmed, Mangalore/Qatar

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Completely agree with Mr. nagesh nayak, bangalore. BOTH SHOULD FIRST COUNSULT SENIORS/ELDERS/RELATIVES / RELIGIOUS HEAD TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM and HUSBAND & WIFE SHOULD NOT GIVE IMPORTANCE FOR RUMOURS SPREAD BY SOME FRIENDS/NEIGHBOURS/RELATIVES WHOSE MAIN INTENTION IS TO SPOIL THE RELATION.



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  • stevi, Sharjah

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    All the truth comes out during this Holy month of Ramadan. Who is what? If these are really muslims and fasting they would have forgiven each other specially wife.

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    THIS IS PURELY PERSONAL MATTER OF ABOOBAKKAR & SAMEERA.

    HUSBAND & WIFE QUARREL SHOULD BE LIMITED TO BOUNDARY OF FOUR WALLS OF THEIR HOUSE.

    BUT SAMEERA & ABOOBAKKAR ISSUE HAS BEEN BLOWN OUT THRU ELECTRONIC MEDIA THRUOUT THE WORLD.

    NOWADAYS RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN HUSBAND & WIFE HAS BECOME VERY SENSITIVE & DELICATE.

    MAIN REASONS ARE :

    1. HUSBAND & WIFE ARE STAYING APART FOR LONG DURATON.( IN THIS EPISODE ABOOBAKKAR STAYING SAUDI & SAMEERA IN INDIA)

    2. AVAILABILITY OF FINANCE MORE THAN WHAT THEY DESRVE.

    3. FALSE PRESTIGE LIKE DESIRE TO HAVE COSTLY CARS, BUNGALOW/HOUSE,MAID,DRIVER ETC....

    4. AGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HUSBAND & WIFE SHOULD BE MINIMUM OF 3 YEARS & MAXIMUM OF 5 YEARS.

    5.BOTH HUSBAND & WIFE SHOULD SHED EGO .

    6. BOTH SHOULD FIRST COUNSULT SENIORS/ELDERS/RELATIVES / RELIGIOUS HEAD TO SOLVE THE PROBLEMS.

    7. HUSBAND & WIFE SHOULD NOT GIVE IMPORTANCE FOR RUMOURS SPREAD BY SOME FRIENDS/NEIGHBOURS/RELATIVES WHOSE MAIN INTENTION IS TO SPOIL THE RELATION.


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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    THIS IS PURELY PERSONAL MATTER OF ABOOBAKKAR & SAMEERA.

    HUSBAND & WIFE QUARREL SHOULD BE LIMITED TO BOUNDARY OF FOUR WALLS OF THEIR HOUSE.

    BUT SAMEERA & ABOOBAKKAR ISSUE HAS BEEN BLOWN OUT THRU ELECTRONIC MEDIA THRUOUT THE WORLD.

    NOWADAYS RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN HUSBAND & WIFE HAS BECOME VERY SENSITIVE & DELICATE.

    MAIN REASONS ARE :

    1. HUSBAND & WIFE ARE STAYING APART FOR LONG DURATON.( IN THIS EPISODE ABOOBAKKAR STAYING SAUDI & SAMEERA IN INDIA)

    2. AVAILABILITY OF FINANCE MORE THAN WHAT THEY DESRVE.

    3. FALSE PRESTIGE LIKE DESIRE TO HAVE COSTLY CARS, BUNGALOW/HOUSE,MAID,DRIVER ETC....

    4. AGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HUSBAND & WIFE SHOULD BE MINIMUM OF 3 YEARS & MAXIMUM OF 5 YEARS.

    5.BOTH HUSBAND & WIFE SHOULD SHED EGO .

    6. BOTH SHOULD FIRST COUNSULT SENIORS/ELDERS/RELATIVES / RELIGIOUS HEAD TO SOLVE THE PROBLEMS.

    7. HUSBAND & WIFE SHOULD NOT GIVE IMPORTANCE FOR RUMOURS SPREAD BY SOME FRIENDS/NEIGHBOURS/RELATIVES WHOSE MAIN INTENTION IS TO SPOIL THE RELATION.


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  • oliver, Mangalore/Germany

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Fight between Husband and Wife is common and nothing new. It happens very often between two lovers and gives a chance to refresh their love. Instead of solving the misunderstandings themselves and forgiving each other, they are carrying their defamatory statements to the Media making it public. Nobody Winn this battle. Both are looser. Shame on you.

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  • Ashfaq Hussain, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Sameera you have good future in Polics, please choose your party soon! You are a future Mayor candidate. Do not waste your time.

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  • abdul sathar habiballah, belapu/Jeddah K.S.A

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Dear Sameera u dont know how a man earning in Gulf country under the hottest and cooolest weather , according to your statement his salary is Rs. 12000 how he shows 70 lac, even he shows 7 lac it is hardly earned money because this range of salary person not a Engineer or doctor . So without showing your enemy between husband and wife to media and to people want to make film call your any one muslim committee like KFD and settle the matter with love and effectionately each other, so that other culprit like Rakesh cannot show a finger on you both. I also advise your husband to take the matter easily and join with you in the month of Holy Ramadan because islam not teaching to take any revenge with any one brother and sister. So it is my humbly request with all muslim brother and sisters not to take any revenge upon one's beacause it is not a part of Islam.

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  • Sarita D'Souza, Valencia/Kuwait

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Kahani mein twist. Climax aur ending kya hoga ?????

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  • M H Rashid, Udupi, KSA

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    To obtain family visa a person's salary should be SR 3500 or above which is equilant to INR 50,000/= I dont think a person earning less than that amount can manage family here in KSA.

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  • Roshan Braganza, Udyavar / Mumbai

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Hard work , hard work and hardwork , then save money , take care of the family , sacrifice yourself . These are levied upon men since ages . Despite being cry on equality , issues relating men are always cornered . They have to listen and sit quiet or else face music , the handicap india law which favours only women . Take an example , upon divorce husband has to give monthly ailment to wives but why not vice versa as girls are equally capable of earning ! , what about house work she used before separation . Isn't it justified for a husband expect same thing from wife after separation. He has to give maintenance , why not expect 'duties of house wife' . I have seen familys who stay o n rented slums , running family with lumpsome budget of two to three thousand per month . That to pretty fair wife , taking care of all houssework. Some women are bestowed with good earning husband , so they stay at home , eating becoming fat and ugly . They whatsh television all the time , gossiping and sometimes eloping woth strangers and even neighbours. Their boyfriends suck all the money and enjoy. I have seen some of cases , they gift their bf with precious valuable too. I think the basket is full of oranges , apples and even garbage. Its left to guy to pick the right one. So beware. Beware of this notorious women .j

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  • RV, Mangalore / Bahrain

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    You have a good opportunity for Mayor......

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  • john, mysore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    IT IS JUST LIKE CHAIN LINK OF CHEAT
    I MEAN TIT FOR TAT. HUSBAND MAY BE MISUSED HER FOR 7000000/- IN GULF SO SHE CONTINUED THIS IN HER OWN LAND.

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  • Ivan PINTO, Belthangady- KSA

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Hi Samera, donot waste your time in Moodbidre, you have bright future in politics, go to Bangalore and join politics, daily you can play new drama and give media interviews..

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  • Syed, Udupi

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Hello Lady: which lawyer suggested you these allegations to speak in press conference!. Shame on these lawyers who are spoiling the image of Satyamev Jayate by suggesting false information to counterattack. This is my India

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  • jeevan, mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    SHE IS IN BURQA AND NEVER LIE. WHERE IS KFD NOW ?

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  • Ivan PINTO, Belthangady- KSA

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Friends, do not give any importance to this issu. at the end both are at folt. THEY ARE MADE FOR EACH OTHER..

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  • Gopalbandhu Mohapatra, Haleangady/Cuttack

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Walla to me it looks like 'Sameera' is small child - brain yet to develop to face situation - of which Abu Backer taken advantage to marry second time. Unknowingly she might have taken 'Jewellery' from her neighbours for some purpose. It looks like Abu Bhacker involved in some illegal business in Saudi Arabia even though his salary barely approx. Rs.12000/- month.

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Mr.Aboobaker sent Rs.70 lakhs to Sameera ? He can't send so much big amount unless he is a owner of the company.He may be cheating his company and in retun Sameera cheated him..CHAIN CONNECTION..

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  • divakar, mangalore/dubai

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Very well said Rakesh shetty.

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  • Gopalbandhu Mohapatra, Haleangady/Cuttack

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    How Abobackar claim 'Sameera' is having two boy friends carrying weight of ninety as like Dada Monoi's(Ashok Kumar) daughter Preeti Ganguly. While looking photograph anybody can believe she venture out to Five Star Hotel..??..All are fake.

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  • paddu, mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    I think she is behind the Burka issue in ramakunja college.

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  • Rakesh shetty, mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012


    I THINK SHE IS HAVING GOOD FUTURE IN JDS PARTY. HER BEHAVIOUR PERFECTLY SUITES FOR JDS REQUIREMENTS.

    KUMARANNA ALWAYS CALL MEDIA WITH SHOWING SOME PAPER DOCUMENTS AS A PROOF. SHE ALSO DOING SAME HERE.

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  • Rezy, Mangalore/Muscat

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Dear NRI's from Saudi!

    Is it possible to keep a family and leave with them with 12,000 indian rupees salary?

    This sounds difficult and imposible in todays world.

    what say?

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  • Mahesh Shetty, Puttur/Dubai

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    huband and Wife problems are everywhere mis understandings and mistakes do happen almost in every ones life. Ask for forgiveness do not repeat and live life, husband and wife are the best partners so trust in yourself dont go to public even your own relatives.Abubaker to be equally blamed if he lost his money for not keeping a track of it. He can point finger at other if he never made any mistake.

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  • Clarence, Manglore/KSA

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    "Burkha ke andher chupaa rustham"..... Ram gopal verma ki next movie title.

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  • Robert George, Dubai

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Shameera’s efforts are commendable, because she has shown courage and grit to seek justice in the face of adversity and opposition. Often, Muslim women are suppressed by men in the name of religion to support their promiscuity. Initially, these unscrupulous men by the support of false leaders appeal to the religious fervor of unsuspecting women, subduing their minds, and eventually suppressing them entirely.

    If her husband's salary is meagre, as she says, then his claims to having sent her Rs 70 lakh seem to be far-fetched. The case needs to be investigated properly and impartially.

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  • STEVE, MANGALORE

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    MADAM THERE IS GOOD CHANCE FOR YOU TO STAND FOR THE PANCHAYAT ELECTIONS NEXT TIME.YOU KNOW HOW TO FACE THE MEDIA (THERE ARE FEW PANCHAYAT MEMBERS, THEY COME FOR THE MEETING AND OPEN MOUTH ONLY TO HAVE BREAKFAST IF IT IS AVAILABLE.KEEP GOING....

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  • murthy, mangalore/duabi

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Aboobakar doesnt look like fraud. And defenitely his wife cheated him. Video proves everything.
    IPC 498a is extensively misused. There should be some solution.
    Now a days no people like Aboobakar will treat his wife like waht she says, because he has the pride of working in the gulf. and definitely doesnt want to be inferior before his family.

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  • tauseef, mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    No doubt the female is a big fraud.If at all she had so many problems she would have left him and stayed with her mother.The other day tv 9 was showing the videos of this females handy cam which doesnt really show that it is a family outing.Hard earned money gone totally waste...Mehnat kare murga anda khaye fakir!!!

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  • Naveen Shetty, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    THERE ARE MANY UNANSWERED QUESTIONS.
    1.WHY SHE DID NOT REPORT THE VIOLENCE TO THE POLICE?
    2. IF SHE WAS ABUSED IN SAUDI AND HUSBAND WAS FORCING HER INTO PROSTITUTION, WHY DID NOT SHE REPORT IT TO THE AUTHORITIES?
    3. IF HE WAS PLANNING TO RELEASE THE BLUE FILM OF HER WHY SHE DID NOT COMPLAINT WITH POLICE IN INDIA OR WHY SHE DID NOT SEEK DIVORCE?
    4. DOES SHE HAVE ANY RECORDS TO SHOW HER HUSBAND IS MARRIED?

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  • Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    A story itself a twist,the matter should be sorted out with in the family itself.Husband and wife with in a early solution, a better life to both ,a life they have to live further.

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  • Ashok, Udupi/Dubai

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Ganda hendira jagala undu malaguva thanaka... is NOT true..

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  • Kishore, Udupi/Dubai

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Ramadan Mubarak!!

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  • Ashok, Udupi/Dubai

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Lady in Burqa ,26 years old, facing Media just imagine. Shameless people.

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  • shahnawaz kukkikatte, dubai/udupi

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Its a marital discord and mishappening....media or members of public should not intervene.. There are family counselling centers and family courts to solve the issue. Husband and wife and their immediate family members must sit and talk and sort out the issue.. Throwing mud at each other will only aggrevate the issue.. So dont make it a big issue... Ganda hendira jagala undu malaguva thanaka... is true..

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  • Xavier Pinto, Mangalore/Dubai

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Best thing both husband and wife should sit and solve this matter, and settle it. Mistakes do happen in life but should not repeat forgive and carry on.. it may be not easy but bringing matter into public will not solve the problem. It will ruine self life and children life.

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  • Kumar, Kinnigoli

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Lawyers are behind these type of stories. That is their profession.

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  • sunil, mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    LADKI 420.... HAI....BICHARA HUSBND...

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mangalore/Mapusa/Mumbai

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Another soap opera. Ekta Kapoor may be interested..........

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  • Anand P Valal, Mangalore,Dubai

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Ganda Hendira Jagala...Namage beda swamyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

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  • Max, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    BOTH PARTIES ARE SMART COOKIES. ONE CANT CREATE A HYPE BETTER THAN THIS, OUT OF SUCH ISSUES OR RATHER CALL FAMILY MATTERS. WHO KNOWS........ THEY MIGHT TO COMPROMISE AND ALL WOULD BE THINKING WORST HAS HAPPENED

    BEST WAY TO UTILIZE THE MEDIA.....

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  • Rakesh shetty, mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012


    @ Damodar Bhat, Udupi.

    WHY YOU WORRYING. COOL DOWN. OUR POLICE TEAM IS VERY STRONG. THEY WILL GIVE GOOD TREATMENTS FOR THESE CRIMINALS.

    I FEEL ABOOBAKKER IS RIGHT. HIS WIFE CHEATED HIM.

    SHE IS TALKING TO MEDIA MEANS, IT IS CLEAR SHE IS A BIG FRAUD.

    I AM SURE TRUTH WILL COME OUT WITHIN FEW DAYS.

    SOMEBODY MUST TEACH TO ABOBAKER. HOW TO UTILZIE MONEY AND HOW TO MAKE SECURE RELATIONSHIP. HE IS FAILED TO PROVE IN THIS. VERY BAD ABOBAKER.

    ABOBAKER,I AM SORRY YOU GOT BAKRA IN THIS. PLEASE COME TO INDIA AND SORT OUT THIS PROBLEM. OTHERWISE THIS WILL SPREAD TO DELHI AND WORLDWIDE. FINALLY RAMGOPAL VERMA WILL RELEASE ONE FILM BEFORE YOU COME.

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  • J Dal, BVR

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    From the photology she does'nt looks like she was being harassed!!!!...
    Her expression show that she also may be a cunning woman
    She must be having strong support either by the police or someone else were she got the guts come before the media.
    Waitng to know who is right and who is wrong

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  • Roland Raj, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Should keep a No-Bars match between these two. I think that is why he is afraid of her. Look at Her!!!

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  • anil, mlore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Chalu ladki.

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  • Sayyed, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Abbobacker z unped n uneducated

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  • shamsheer, riyadh

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Namage ondu artga agtha illa,endathige maduve aguvaga 18 years and husband ge 42 year, thats why

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  • ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE-YANBU/KSA

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Charles D.Mello Pangala.

    Yes he married due to tug of war between them.allegations counter allegations complaints and counter complaints lodged against each other.Importantly, Aboobecker was fixed with Dowry allegation case. (this case is not new and it is there for time.

    Immediate neighbor of her informed about the issue(gold)Do you know the case is not filed against her?Do you gone in to deep of the issue I did but I will not see any necessity to share here.

    In a press meet she questions, in twelve thousand rupees how he can send 70LAKH RUPEES!!!Good law point D Mello!!How can in 12000Rupees Aboobecker led life in SAUDI ARABIA with family?Is it possible to lead family life mere twelve thousand Rupees in KSA? So again I am saying there are missing points between the lines.

    At no point I did tell A or B is right.Read my comments once more and raise your doubts.If Moodbidri police did not take cognizance of petition, there may be valid reasons for which they are answerable.About seventy lakh rupees I am the first person who questioned the amount in my earlier comments when Aboobcker resorted to media support.

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  • syed bashir, sharjah

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    is this lady looks like she is tortured by her husband or she got any mental stress? see her built,she might be eating dozens of eggs & drinking gallons of milk daily by her husband's hard earned money.cheap publicity by tv channel

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  • antony arun d'souza, dubai

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    IF POLICE IS INVESTIGATING SUCH SILLY CASES INDIA WILL BECOME A PAUPER.

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  • Charles D'Mello, Pangala

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    Why police are mum on this issue..??? If she has filed a complaint in January...why police has not taken any inquiry..???? This clearly shows that there is something wrong in this issue and had come to public notice a false allegation....I kept quiet on this issue as it is a family issue and it is their internal issue could be solved amicably...as both are dirty linen in public, there is no harm in commenting as we like as the damage is already beyond repair or patch up..!!!???? I strongly feel that the Girl has been wrongly framed and people of the society are trying to dominate on her....!!!????

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  • N. Frank, India/Ksa

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE-YANBU/KSA
    As per sameera's allegation that Aboobaker has married without her permission are to be true, then in my opinion, Sameera is not wrong for what ever she is accused of.

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  • Charles D'Mello, Pangala

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE-YANBU/KSA....Do not try to twist the words now. Both may be at fault, as it is a family issue...Do not try to tell the world prostitution is not there in Saudi Arabia...Yes one who indulge in the prostitution and Alcohol may be killed or deported...But fact is , it is happening in Saudi Arabia...!!!???? Since you have claimed that your base is in Gantalkatte and you know the case...expose these three questions of mine....1) Has he married another woman six months back...2)Why the people who has given her gold and lost have not come forward to give a police complaint..???..3) How he can prove that he has sent 70 lacs in seven years, and do nottry to tell me to through the HUNDI channel..???

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  • Reshmi Salian, Mangalore

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    I cannot comment anything as I cannot make out who is saying truth and who is telling lies. I just wish that everything will be alright and they will live happily together.

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  • Charles D'Mello, Pangala

    Wed, Jul 25 2012

    I feel this may be right in saying so. There was a allegation on her (as per last news) that she used to borrow gold from neighbors and never returned...If that was true, they could have come forward and might have approached the police station. As nothing of that sort has happened so far, more details will come in the future regarding this case.....!!!???

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  • Joseph F. Gonslaves, Bannur, Puttur / Mangalore

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    WASHING DIRTY LINEN IN THE PUBLIC BY BOTH THE HUSBAND AND WIFE WITHOUT FINDING AMICIABLE SOULTION THROUGH ELDERS OR THROUGH COUNSELLING.

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  • Leena, Dubai

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    Hats off to this brave lady. If she is not guilty, she will not come in front of the camera to show her face. We should give justice to her and punish her husband.

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  • HITMAN, Kuwait/Mangalore

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    Comeon guys this is their Internal matter, we dont need their internal matter, we have our own problems in our life.. why we must bother about others...

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  • Samad, Udupi

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    Its seems like both are well prepared with so many allegations against one another. Picture would not been so dirty if they have settled the issues withing the 4 walls.

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  • ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE-YANBU/KSA

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    Yes Mr Langoocharya both are @ near truth.I think Aboobecker forced to take the help of media because DOWRY case filed against him by his wife.After all money matters.My understanding is that she also borrowed golden ornaments from neighbors and did not return!!?This case now did not remain between husband wife instead it crossed the limit.As some readers opined to settle it amicably through community leaders.

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  • Solomon Rego, Jeppu/Ireland

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    Todays world some time some misunderstandings or some mistakes may occur in couples life, best thing dont believe any others because you both lived so many years together, sit across the table sort out ask for forgiveness and never do the mistake again and carry on with life, yes its hard but this will save the relation, kids life will not be spoiled, happiness will come back and third party will not intervene with their cheap advises which is free no matter they may be our own family members. Forgive and Forget and dont repeat mistake again, when we show one finger to others all other finger point at us. Throw a stone only if you never sinned.
    Solomon

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  • M.SHAMEEM ANSARI, BANGALORE/ BAHRAIN

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    police takes on impartial investigation both the sides.police will understand on invistigation that aboobakker was scapegoat for his wife's conspiracy! because i knew both familys very well.

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  • M.SHAMEEM ANSARI, BANGALORE/ BAHRAIN

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    police takes on impartial investigation both the sides.police will understand on invistigation that aboobakker was scapegoat for his wife's conspiracy! because i knew both familys very well.

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  • Ronald D, Udupi

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    Cheap family internal politics washed in public!

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  • Dr S Kamath, Mumbai

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    Very sad state of affairs .a dispute between husband and wife with Children hasbeen dragged to police station and Courts .I have seen the debate in TV also .Aboobakker says that he had sent lakhs of Rupees of money through Hundi and then Sameera says it is black money where is the proof etc .As per Criminal justice system even a small piece of paper can also serve as evidence . Even if it is black money if he has proof of sending money he can prove the same.But best option will be a mediation and settlement through eminent citizens of the Community .

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  • Vittal Acharya, Udupi/Katapadi

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    Both are liers.. for now the real story only knows fatima and aboobaker...

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  • Damodar Bhat, Udupi

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    The Police should take action.This is nonsense in a civilized society.Mr.Seemanth Kumar , Commissioner of Police , as a Citizen, I request you to immediately look into this matter on a personal request.I request Mr. Abhayachandra Jain , MLA to also look into this matter personally and get justice to Sameera & her mother / family.

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  • KRPrabhu, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    Please do not allow Mangalore Press Club to air these type of family matters and "dirty pictures"

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/USA.

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    People,

    There is always two sides for these type of stories...mean average of both sides is likely to be "near truth".

    If one says its North and other says its East,,, most likely truth is "North-East"....

    I regret my decision of not being a Divorce Lawyer in Mangalore...

    What say you Mr Pernije???

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  • JerryMoras.com, jerani@hotmail.com

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    This is internall and domestic matter. I don't think whole world wants to know thier sexual relationship and household management. There are differences in the family and it is usual fights between wife and husband. This needs to be revolved amicalbly. No one is perfect - neither man or women. Misunderstanding between husband going to another woman when he is not happy is usual and at same time vice versa - woman would do the same. Forgive one another and start fresh instead of presenting your personl problem to public.

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  • sathish JM,, Mangalore, Dubai

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    I appreciate Sameera's brave act of coming in front of media and reveal story of her side. It is clear that police inaction on her earlier complaint made Aboobaker to go to this extent.

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  • Alwyn, Mangalore

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    Terrible case !! i think investigation will start about Mr.Abubakkars education, job status and salary and bank details first.

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  • HOFZ, MANGALORE

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    If police department takes right measures to prosecute sameera than the hidden truth will come out from her mouth only.!

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  • Roshan Braganza, Udyavar / Mumbai

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    Allegations and counter allegation. This woman looks very cunning and went onto frame nice detail story against her husband. Most of allegations made by her are vagues , since polygamy is allowed in islam and is legal. One need not to give tripple talaq or divorce to first wife , even without her consent he can have relationships. And as far as allegation of murder and harrasement goes , looks like she wants make use of anti men 'dowry harrasement' code in india to nail her husband . Recent central govt issued dictat to make this ipc section neutral both parties , after much out cry. The woman looks puffed up , after eaing all hard money from husband . A lesson for every one.

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  • ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE-YANBU/KSA

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    In between the lines there is a missing link.Both are @ faults and this story is not new as I said earlier.Some are how, Husband of her can't force her to prostitution in Saudi Arabia as the rules are very tight and consequence may severe and my question to her is why she was mum@ that action in KSA as Aboobcker's wife is that innocent!!?.

    This mudslinging is not a new and will continue util the issue comes to the logical end.Wife and Husband's story now fodder to media and public which may further enhance the enmity between the couples.As per my information from Gantalkatte -Moodbidri, Aboobecker is still in India.My understanding is that both are @ wrong in going for a press meet as it could be sorted it out either amicably or through court.

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  • John Dsouza, USA/MUMBAI

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    Everybody knows that she can demand money now by filing a false case against him called Dowry 498. where the entire Male family can be put behind the bar without proper investigation as per our useless Indian Law. why i am telling this because i have gone allthrough this and came out of this by fulfilling the greedy girls and family demand including her lawyer demands in Lakhs in-spite of being no fault of me and my family.

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  • abdul samad, mangalore

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    im realy confuised whom tortured ..? her or him...? b,coz i dont think so aboobker tortured her..this lady acting so nicely...all men be care full before u go gulf country..

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  • John Dsouza, USA/MUMBAI

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    The same old story. Now both wil counter attack on each other and the case will go on and on. Till final settlement is done out of Court. And even in this case the Police and Lawyer will get their Commission.
    This same thing happen to me where my Ex-wife had filed a false case against me and my Family and then demanded alimony in Lakhs and after that we had to bow down to her demand and pay her in lakhs and also lawyer as bribe to take the false complaint back. As we could not fight the case as we all were working in States. This is so called our Indian one sided Useless law, and in Modern day there is no Value for Marriage .it is a quick money resource for some greedy Girls and their family.

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  • Societal Web, Dubai

    Tue, Jul 24 2012

    Typical problem on a micro level with this category.

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