Love beyond boundaries: German girl, Udupi boy tie nuptial knot


Daijiworld Media Network-Udupi (RJP)

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Udupi, Jun 18: A German girl and a local boy got married on Sunday, June 18 as per Hindu traditional wedding rituals here.

Rebecca Maria Opitz from Frankfurt in Germany and Bharat Kumar Karkera from Hejamady, are the bride and the groom.

Bharat, son of Sharada and Karunakar Karkera, is working in Food & Beverage department of a German based shipping company for the past 4 years. Rebecca, a postgraduate, is also employed in the same company as art gallery executive for the past 3 years. Both fell in love two years back.

The wedding ceremony was held at Shamili hall in Udupi as per Hindu tradition. A reception will be held for the couple's German friends at Sultan Battery in Mangaluru where Rebecca will wear German attire.

Bharat and Rebecca informed their families about their willingness to get married. Both the families agreed willingly. The engagement was held on April 30.

Rebecca is already familiar with Indian traditions. She says she had a Tamil friend in college from whom she learned about India and its culture. She started liking India after that. “After falling in love with Bharat, I moved closer to India. I have decided to become an Indian and live like an Indian in India’” she says.

Rebecca has been learning Tulu also. He is accustomed to Indian food items like Masala Dosa, Kori Rotti and other coastal delicacies now.

“We will work in Germany for another four years and then we will come back to India for good," said Bharat and Rebecca.

Parents of Rebecca are no more. Eleven of her close relatives have come to India for the wedding.

Bharat's parents said that they are happy to receive Rebecca as their daughter-in-law, and as Bharat has liked her, they mutually agreed for the wedding. 

Rebecca said that she liked Bharat when she met him first time in an elevator two years back and fell in love with him. Bharat has already taught her many words of Tulu language while they sailed together in ship during their work.

Rebecca feels that she would have learned Tulu if it had a script. Nevertheless she is confident that she will learn it soon.

Rebecca is a fan of Shah Rukh Khan and has watched his film 'Kuch Kuch Hota Hai' several times, she says.

  

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  • Sunil, Karkala

    Mon, Jun 19 2017

    Happy Honeymoon to the couple!!!!! enjoy exploring the place.....;)

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  • Wilson K B, Kundpaura

    Mon, Jun 19 2017

    Wish them a happy married life for love has no boarders.

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  • Anthony Menezes, Belman/Mumbai

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    What a happy couples? so what? Made for each others, un-believable, I want to learn Whatsapp and Facebook

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  • valerian rodrigues, ujire

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    marriage life is not a game.everyone should marry under guidance parents.also own community is advisable.now young blood can acts however.in long time it is not easy to maintain .i saw many couples failed in life who married from different country's boy and girl.now such news comes in media.after that nobody goes to watch it.

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/Wash D.C.

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    No moral Police in Hejmady???...

    ...JH...

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  • Evans Christopher Sumitra, Udupi/ New York, USA.

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Wishing Bharat and Rebecca a happy married life. There should not be any barrier in marriage for religion, color, and caste. Life has to go on. God bless you in every way.

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  • Pratap Rao, Bangalore

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    A billava marrying a german. It is a marriage. Why call it Hindu, Christian and Muslim? Rites are all addressed to God who is one. Sad. How communal we are?

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  • G M Hegde, Udupi

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Yeregavuye Kirikiri, Undu Ragale Ijji..

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  • Anil D'Souza, Munich Germany

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Congratulations
    Rebecca & Bharat. Happy married life.
    Regards From Munich.

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  • ANIKETH, MUMBAI

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    its sad to read nonsense comments of few people ...hindu society doesnt need followers for their god.
    we beilieve in humanity..but unfortunately some people try to take advantage of our nobleness.

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  • vivek, hirebyle / Abu dhabi

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Bumper Lottery ye eirnaa....

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  • Kishore Kumar, Mangaluru/UAE

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Whether there would have been so much publicity if the girl is from african origin? Whether the parents would have approved the marriage if girl is african? What a racist we are...

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  • Thomas D Mello, Koteshwara

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Certainly we are racists. I am yet to find some marrying a African . Forget the publicity.

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  • Rathan, Mangalore

    Mon, Jun 19 2017

    This clearly shows Ur mentality and not of the newly married
    Racism is in Ur omments itself
    what do you mean "African "

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  • Azeez, Germany

    Mon, Jun 19 2017

    Why unnecessarily unhealthy comments? Just wish the couple....

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  • Care taker, Hejmady

    Tue, Jun 20 2017

    Dear kishor
    Even if the girl is from africa they would have accepted .

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  • shamon, cannanore

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    If the guy is chiristian or muslim and the girl is Hindu, we would have seen many hater mongers here calling it moge jihan / love jihad and much criticism. Many would have told that this was done forcibly. They are apprecatign now only because girl from another religion has married a Hindu boy. They consider it humanly if any girl from other religin marries a hindu boy and calls it forced marriage if Hindu girl marries boy from other religion. come one guys. Dont be inhuman / illogic.

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  • Rathan, Mangalore

    Mon, Jun 19 2017

    Don't bring Ur ugly lcommunal mind here
    It is a love marriage agreed by seniors of both the side.
    Ppl like you only disturb the society
    Grow up

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  • Rajesh, Mulki

    Mon, Jun 19 2017

    Don't feel bad. Shamon's comments just reflect the incidents carried by right wing organizations in the recent past and the silence of majority and support of law enforcement people to them....now the same people are delighted and coming with their blessings. We have to open up a lot and come out of getting political mileage out of people's relationship...

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  • Care taker, Hejmady

    Tue, Jun 20 2017

    Dear shamon
    1st of all who said you that she belongs to other religon . And can you explain me what does your religion say ? My religion is humanity . And I follow it . Before you comment somthing use ur brains and look whats happening around

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  • Daniel, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Is it a Kesari Jeh??? We wish her a happy life..

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  • harish, US

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    good job!!! God bless you both couples..now a days its better to marry other nationality girls than marrying our own religion or caste girls coz they knw the value of true love and values of relationships..GOD bless cheers!!!

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  • Peter, KSA

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Then who will put the sense in the senseless head of jobless goons who falsely claim love jihad and stop particular community girls mixing with other community boys ?

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  • Bryan, Bahrain

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Party time no steak please, I mean beef.....

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  • shailu, kolkatta

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Ghar Wapsi

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Congratulations! Love and live happily for ever. God bless this couple always.
    Question only about conversion of relious faith. Any objections?

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    When Rebecca herself has stated that she will be following Indian culture, why we have to be bothered? Let them live happily with or without being converted.
    Lets toast to the newly wed with Kudlada fenny and german schnapps!

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  • Ads, Canada

    Mon, Jun 19 2017

    Fenny without beef? German love beef

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  • Yesu, Bangalore

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    She wants to live as Indian in India where as her husband wants to live a western life. What an irony !

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  • Rita, Germany

    Mon, Jun 19 2017

    @Yesu,Bangalore,let us wait and drink tee .She was not long in India ,let her live in India for some years .India doesnt exist with only masala dosa ,Hard life she has to face ,and will talk later.Still wish them a happy married life.

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  • Muslim, Indian Muslim

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    tum kare to chamatkaar aur hum kare to !!! Hypocrites..!!!

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  • Charan, Mangaluru

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    love-jehad

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  • MC POKA, BAJPE

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Wishing you never ending love and the most happy life together Karunakar & Rebecca
    The warmest congratulations on your wedding

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  • C.T.Thomas, Nandalike

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Why couldnt she find a catholic guy in the whole Indian nation.

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  • SPN, Delhi

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Oh here comes the Messiah ! Instead of being happy for them , you want to spread the venom by bringing religion into it.. Get over it dude.

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  • C.T.Thomas, Nandalike

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Mr. SPN. German is catholic country,, hence I stated that a Roman Catholic would have been an ideal match.

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  • Mahesh, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    If germany is a catholic country according to you, what is India then? how come you guys are not marrying hindus?

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  • Mohammed, Riyadh/Managalore

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    C.T. Do you know who Indian Christians are?

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  • John Tauro, M'luru / Kwt

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    @ Mr. CT Thomas,

    Germany is a Christian country, majority being Protestant. But why do you want to bring in religion here when miya biwi are razi and happy. Let them follow their respective religions or convert later without any kind of compulsion.

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  • Jasun, Mumbai, UAE

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    It shows your Mentality.... Pure Love never bothers all these barriers.

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  • Peter, KSA

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    C.T., you better ask your doubt directly to the girl. Do you think Catholic guys have something different than other boys ? The proof of one God to all is that He created every human in His likeness. If at all there were different Gods for different people, there would have been a vast physical difference in every individual. Follow Christianity and its fundamental teachings in its real sense. Love all human which is His creation. Remember brother, Christianity is an unique religion and only religion which says 'love thy ENEMY'.

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  • Manoj, Sharjah

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    But unfortunately u r not following it

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  • makeMyDay, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    She might Have though that Guys like u represent the catholic community in India . Hence she made her choice...

    Keep religion out of this Sir...

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  • Daniel, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    All the best couple.
    This shows still Many Indians are more liberal yet few spoils the society by dividing and restricting on things!!!
    Need a society where all are free to choose to live with values and dignity.

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  • Jimmy Noronha, Lucknow

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    If you marry a girl from your own religion and culture, the marriage will be free from hassle to a large extent. You will practise your religion hassle free. Enjoy your own food that hassle free, and families from either side will come closer without hassle and on the whole the marriage is bound to last to the end.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    I refuse to say Conversion Conversion ...

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  • Peter, KSA

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    All the best young couple. Love each other. No Christian group will condemn you or attack you nor brand you as 'love jihad'. We are a peace loving community and always do good and wish good for others.

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  • Jhumta tha sawaan, Basalekatte/Tumkur

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Jossey..this time miss the target...turning bharat kumar into barrack kamron.
    Better luck next time.

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  • Mahathma, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    God bless you both. live long

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  • Sudhir, Kudla

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Is it Ghar Wapsi??? or Kesari Jihad???

    Congratulations to new couples.

    JH..

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  • Kumar, Kaikamba

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Realizing dream of Make in India...

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  • Jackson Coelho, Dubai

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Congratulations! Wishing both Happy Married Life. Good Luck...

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  • Roshan, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Why is this news?

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    After Modi became the PM, even Germans started liking Indians! (just kidding )

    Good luck guys.

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  • SHAHID, SHIRVA

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Mitrroooonnn Sudroooo...

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  • Peter, KSA

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Hope Bharat will live with Rebecca till the end of life, unlike some political leaders who desert their wife and live happy married bachelor life.

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  • vinayak prabhu, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Germans themselves consider them as a Aryans..They are searching their true culture

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  • Rajesh D., Manglore, Dubai

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Indian culture is fine everyone likes it. But there are more than 100,000 Indians live in Germany.

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  • Rajesh D, Manglore, Dubai

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Nice to see you smiling. Wish you all the best. God bless you.

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  • Max and Jessie Rasquinha, Mangalore, Houston/Dallas, texas

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    First and foremost, the willingness between the boy and the girl to be partners in life matters the most as far as a marriage between a German girl from Frankfurt, and an Indian boy from Udipi. When their parents give their consent and blessing is so much the better. Then comes their future married life by adjusting with each other and compromise in all their future togetherness in life.

    We wish them best of luck. It is a life filled with challenges that are one too many, but so long as they can adjust with each other and maintain a happy and peaceful life, everyone will be happy. We wish them best of luck.

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  • Desi Jawan, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    So what?

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  • jagdish, Mumbai, UAE

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Cute Couple. All the best....

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  • shan, dubai

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Love is blind, and a deaf-mute too..... but when open your eyes and start hearing, and talking.... than you will know the result.

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  • Peter, KSA

    Sun, Jun 18 2017

    Superb comments Shan !

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