Byndoor: Groom goes missing just before own wedding - Marriage put off

Pic: Silvester D'Souza

Daijiworld Media Network - Byndoor (SP)

Byndoor, Nov 30: A marriage was scheduled to be performed at Yadthare near here on Friday November 29. However, the marriage did not happen as the groom chose to remain absent at the last minute.

Praveen Kumar, son of Ramachandra Sheregar from Balkur Nadumane, strangely decided against participating in the marriage function organized for him.

Praveen's marriage was supposed to take place near Byndoor on Friday. Praveen has been working for a private concern at Bengaluru since the last ten years. He had informed his family that he would be reaching home on November 26 for the marriage. But he did not come home. When the family members tried to contact him, they found that his mobile phone was switched off. On the basis of a complaint made by his father, a missing case was registered in Kundapur rural police station.

Praveen Kumar

The police who tried to locate him got information that he was at Bengaluru. There are rumours about him having married a girl at Bengaluru already. The police said that this information has not been verified.

The girl's family said that they feel cheated with the cancellation of wedding at the last minute. They demanded refund of expenses they have incurred in fixing marriage hall, catering, and other arrangements, from the groom's side. They have said that they would file complaint if this money is not paid to them.


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  • KS Mayya, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Sun, Dec 1 2019

    Historically marriage is a political or economic affair.
    In Mahabharatha and subsequently also, it is normal to have marriage as a political arrangement.
    Matrimony between Shishupala's daughter to Dharmaraya
    Matrimony of Pandya Raja's daughter from south to Arjuna as a better start.
    There is no room or scope for knowing each other before marriage.
    I side with the groom that he chose to not ruin the life of a female by marrying and instead chose to marry someone he wanted to live. One time financial and related distress is alright (although groom should reimburse this as a cost for keeping his parents in dark and putting them into awkward situation) rather than go through a lengthy divorce afterwards.

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    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    Though its personal issue since its come to the public ! this kind of act to be condemn by the HINDU outfits and pay the damages made by him ! its cruel inhuman act in the civilized society !

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  • H. Almeida., Bendur/Andheri

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    This youngman has brought shame, disgrace to his family, pain, suffering, humiliation to the girl and her entire family... huge losses financially !!!!! This man must publicly, apologize and compensate for the carnage, he caused for this fiasco !!!!!!! The silver line to this drama, is that he has wisely not gone in for a second marriage... It is illegal to have multiple wives.... Likewise divorce, is also frowned and condemned in our society !!!!!!!!!

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  • John, Mangalore/London

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    Please don’t force your children to get married
    They are wise enough than you
    Only give suggestion to them!
    Here groom has done bed thing
    If he is not interested after marriage then he is ok
    But he had to inform well in advance if he is not ok with this!
    Now a days nobody is interested in marriage!!
    In olden days there was curiosity for wedding day
    Boys and girls waiting for that day and to share happy moments
    But now what they do in marriage they do it during their college days
    Therefore people think why to put up us in unavoidable consequences
    It is better to remain single and enjoy life

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  • Kiran Dsouza, Mangalore

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    Always share marriage expenses 50:50
    Give good education to your child. Make him or her independent, not dependent.
    Never ever give or take dowry, straight away reject proposals who demand dowry.
    Now it's modern world, no need to get married & suffer.
    Enjoy your life as you wish, make yourself safe & live a decent independent life.
    Marry only if you feel that the proposal is safe to you throughout your life.
    Select partner very carefully. Delayed marriage is safe, marriage in a hurry is always dangerous.

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  • Haneef, Mangalore

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    Why 50_50, man should behave like gentleman, he should bare all the expenses towards marriage. Girl sacrifices her family for his pleasure and future. Those who spend on in laws money should join LGBT community.

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  • AJ, Mangalore

    Sat, Nov 30 2019


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  • Dsouza, Mudarangadi /Udupi

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    Because of your kind of thought, most christian boys wont get girl to marry, many choose north karnataka, because of pride brides endup life as single, finally run behind some one. ..

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  • Dsouza, Mudarangadi /Udupi

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    What a crazy groom....... Spoiled his family's reputation infront of soceity. What is he gained from giving troubles to girl and her ffamily !!

    He might have got kidnapped from his girl friend! Or bf of that bride......

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  • Gabriel Lewis, Brahmavar

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    Such cases of fekugiri has been increased since 2014.

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  • Sangram Sangam, Kundapur

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    But Gulamgiri ended in 2014

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  • Deshbhakht, Mangalore

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    Gulamgiri example is stay with family even after widowhood for the sake of children.

    Fakugiri example is abandon spouse unconditionally !

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  • Elwyn Goveas, Valencia

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    Thats why there is a proverb or saying.And it is proved right.
    Marriages are made in heaven.

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  • I wish I was There, Bahrain

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    Elwyn Goveas, Valencia
    If marriages are said to be made in heaven then why did they search this Grooms from hell.

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  • Dan M, Dubai / Mangalore

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    That's why God stopped! Would have taken the bride to hell may be ?

    Jeremiah 29:11-13 New International Version (NIV)

    11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12 Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.

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  • Ayub malpe, Bahrain

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    Marriage s made in Heaven..
    You can abandon your wife in this World...!!
    At least he did not abandoned after the marriage.

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    I too don't believe in this proverb.. . Tell me, then why there are so many divorces/break ups/seperation/murders ? If they are made in heaven god wants such things? Actually, after marriage it's the duty of couple to make their house and life like heaven by cooperation, understanding, adjustments, love, patience etc etc...

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  • Kiran Dsouza, Mangalore

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    He will suffer in his life for creating unneccessary problems & expenses to Brides family. People who arrived for the marriage will certainly curse him & he will have to pay for it throughout his life if he has really cheated the bride & her family.
    It always better to have a simple marriage at government marriage registrar office, not the private marriage registrars who mint money in thousands for the simple procedure.

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  • Deshbhakht, Mangalore

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    The girl's party deserves full refund of their expenses as well as compensation for their defamation. The groom's side otherwise enjoys entire marriage at the expense of bride. This is not fair.

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    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    Playing. Let God Almighty punish him bitterly for this deed.

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  • k b r, Mangala Uru

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    similar to missing MLAs... someone done Operation Kamala?

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  • D'Souza, Mangalore

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    Here it is not Kamala who is missing. It is Basava

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Sat, Nov 30 2019

    One more FEKU marriage promise....!!!
    FEKUISM virus is troubling everyone...., time to purge it on urgent basis...!!!!

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