Mangalore University Prof refutes rape charges, woman protests


Daijiworld Media Network—Mangalore (CLP)

Mangalore, Oct 29: A lone woman is seen protesting in front of the Mangalore University presently demanding justice on the rape charges issue.

It is a silent protest with the placard 'Dr. Vedava, You have cheated me. You have done injustice to me. I want justice from you.'

The woman studying Kodava language under the university’s Kannada Development Project, had complained to the Vice-Chancellor, K Byrappa,that the an associate professor in the department of commerce Prof Vedava P, first sexually assaulted her at her house at Kaikunje in Bantwal taluk on June 2, 2013, and later raped her over the last one year on the “false promise of marriage”. She also made a complaint to the police.


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The accused in the rape charges case, Prof Vedava from Mangalore university has given his statement on the issue.

Speaking to Daijiworld, Prof Vedava has said that " All the allegations levelled against me are false, I have a very good family background. I did not rape her. I am honest and ready for any inquiry."

After the silent protest started, the vice-Chancellor has promised to initiate an inquiry.

Woman alleges rape by Mangalore University professor

 

Mangalore, Oct 29 (DHNS): A woman has complained to the Mangalore University Vice-Chancellor, K Byrappa, that an associate professor in the department of commerce raped her over the last one year on the “false promise of marriage”. She also made a complaint to the police.

The woman, who was studying Kodava language under the university’s Kannada Development Project, said that the professor, Vedava P, first sexually assaulted her at her house at Kaikunje in Bantwal taluk on June 2, 2013, when no one was around. When she protested, he threatened her of dire consequences. Later, he promised to marry her and took her to various hotels, beaches and parks where he raped her, the woman said in her complaint to the vice-chancellor.

“He used to visit my house frequently. I had trusted him but he breached my trust,” she said in the complaint. Mangalore University Registrar P S Yadapadithaya confirmed that the woman had submitted the complaint to the VC.

“The university has sought explanation from Prof Vedava. The explanation copy has not reached the university. Depending on his explanation, the university will take action,” he said. Mangalore Police Commissioner R Hithendra said the woman had lodged a complaint at the Konaje police station. As her house falls under the jurisdiction of Bantwal rural police, the case has been transferred to them. The woman declared she would stage a silent protest on the Mangalore University campus on October 29.

“I will keep protesting until I get justice,” the victim said. But the registrar asserted that the university had not given any permission for protest on its campus. “We have appealed to the Konaje police to maintain law and order,” he said.

  

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  • swathi, mumbai

    Sun, Jan 25 2015

    Yes mr avinash, y didn't come at least her family to support her? y they don't have empathy at her like you? because clearly its a drama man... to earn money!!!

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  • Albert, Delhi

    Sat, Dec 20 2014

    India must be the only country where men and women can have consensual physical relation any number of times. But it can be termed as rape by woman, whenever she want's to make money or harass the man. While even if she cheats the man, he does not have any option to get justice. India is highly feminist country that does not care about men at all.

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  • Swathi, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 04 2014

    Mr. Avinash, if he was having illegal affair with her, then she had legal affair with him so far???!!! if yes, then why she need justice???

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  • Dontwanttotellname, Mangalagangotri

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    I tell u the truth. The rape case is just creation by a social activist who is of relative of that lady. The fact is a year back Vedava got a marriage proposal from this girl's side. He went to her home to see the girl and the family members are pleased by seeing him. However, Vedava neither accepted nor rejected the proposal. He was taking time to judge. Meanwhile, both of them exchanged the numbers and chatting started. She misunderstood that he accepted the proposal and started loving him. He repeatedly said that he is not judged about this proposal.

    A year later (recently) another proposal came to him. First lady came to know abt the second proposal and started feeling that he will leave her. So she started forcing him to get marry. But he kept on rejecting. She forced in such a way that she went to his residence and sat there demanding to get marry. Vedava got irritated from this and he filed a complaint with local police station. Then she came university and sat in Vedava's Cabin putting same demand. He did not agree to marry.Finally these drama happened. In this story both of them committed mistakes. Vedava could have tell firm decision about the proposal. This girl shouldn't have moved further until engagement or marriage. Now thing went worse. Both of them spoiled their names. The girl was working in Kannada dept where she filed a harassment case against a professor (I heard). I heard also that she filed harassment case against the Principal of one of the colleges at Puttur.

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  • essell, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    Mr Avinash, i wish more men n women show empathy to the suffering sisters. May God Bless you.

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  • mm, mlore

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    iam no advocate, but then its common sense. If someone gives "it" away in exchange of something else (be it money, promise of money, marriage, car, flat etc)then that someone is at fault per the laws of India (prostitution I believe is not legal in India yet)

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  • Harold D'cunha, Mangalore, India

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    In this situation, I think this woman is fighting for her rights and promises given by Prof Vedava.

    A woman will not go so low, unless she has been used, abused by the male professor. Prof Vedava might be well behaving with other women students. One should not read the book by its cover but here if Prof. Vedava had sexual relationship with this woman, on the promise of marriage, definitely he is guilty. Usually male by nature exploit the women by their weakness specially with their emotions as girls are more emotional and easily carried always by the sweet talk of male counter part.

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  • JNB, Bejai

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    Love/Sex after Marriage is always better.
    Before Marriage it is always Bitter.
    Unless you prepared for......Driving without License,
    At-least learning license ....

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  • essell, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    Mr Mascarenhas,
    It is sad very few people comment empathetically. She realised that it was rape only when that man's promise was false! Do you have better word to name "it"

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  • essell, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    Student of Vedava, you will experience that people live in mukhavadas(Masks)........!.....? now you are busy in your student life. not experienced enough just to comment!? not your fault

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    I am waiting for the news that this man with 'Very good family background' has submitted defamation case !

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/Washington,DC.

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    He(Prof.Vedeva) is waiting for Gadkari and RSRB's prior permission to apply defamation case...

    Kari kari Kotu...Gari gari Notu.....


    ...JH...

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  • Peter lewis, kalmady/k s a

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    I appreciate her courage. hope she will get justice.

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Thu, Oct 30 2014


    What do you mean by supporting that lady? To ensure that the Professor settles down by getting married to her. If it is possible, well & good.

    First both of them sit in the jail for some time and learn the hard lesson of life.

    Let the court decide what they have to do. Of course if the man has taken advantage deliberately, then he has to fulfill his commitment.

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  • CYRIL MASCARENHAS, KIREM/MIRA ROAD/DUBAI

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    WHY SHE ALLOWED TO RAPE HER ONE YEAR IS THE BIG QUESTION..?

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  • Avinash, Mangaluru/Mumbai

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    She allowed him to rape her for one year thinking that he will look after her for the rest of her life.......!

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  • Af, mangalore

    Fri, Oct 31 2014

    who's culture is this? in one hand you can not clap.

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  • matash, udupi

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    Which JIHAD sir?

    "LOVE JIHAD or LOVE KESARI JIHAD" or any other new JIHAD?

    All these words are crap there is no such things exists in this world,

    This words are used only to fool the innocent citizens of India and its really unfortunate to say that already the indian politicians succeeded by using the word "LOVE JIHAD" its a propaganda earn the vote banks only.

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  • essell, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    Madam you fail to understand here that the man has cheated her with false promise. I agree that the girl has committed the mistake (sin!?) (like most girls blindly believe) is she believed the man's promise.....

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  • Avinash, Mangaluru/Mumbai

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    Shahabbas...Essel......!

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  • peter, Brahmhavar

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    If the doctor marry her it is not rape. Doctor refuse to marry then it is rape. Everything for her convenient. Willingly she offered sex to him for the intention to get marry him and she may not be have the desire to have the sex. Rape charges are false. Both are equal in committing adultery.

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  • matash, udupi

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    Where is Pramod Mutalik?

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  • Proud Hindustani, Hindustan

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    This is not rape case case,, with her wish how can he rape her for one year?..why she was silent for one year?.

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/Washington,DC.

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    People,

    Bhandumaam has Japnese made "Pendulum Detection" machine...use this here to prove guilt or innocence of the Professor...

    Doodh ka doodh...Pani ka Pani hone do...

    ...JH...

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  • Shivappa, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    Langoolacharya.,

    Bhandumaam' Japnese made "Pendulum Detection" machine...detects only beer ka beer or whisky ka whisky

    Doodh ka doodh...Pani ka Pani are hystory now

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  • mousin sharief, kodagu

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    OMG.... that girl I have seen live with ma eyes... one thing ill say that girl is taking too much advantage.. prof vedava sir is so innocent.. calm. and I like sir very much I cried when I heard this news one thing I'll say judge the person correctly before doing anything...that girl is surely misusing her power ...

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  • veera pinto, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Indan Mangalore...... u feel disgusting now...after one year of enjoyment. U think ur Indian girl not accepted anything for the whole year. Common Indian dont just act like typical Disgusting Indian. .

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  • Avinash, Mangaluru/Mumbai

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    Forget about enjoying....! What you think others are not enjoying...for years...? That so called innocent faced professor also enjoyed more than her..She must have enjoyed thinking about the future together with this guy..We are talking about injustice... breaking the promises.....and she is alone and I will support her...She is a human just like me. I will go and ask her problems...
    You people happy just throwing stones at her....

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  • avinash, Mangaluru/Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Thum buzdhillog peeche se kyo patthar penk rahe ho...? Ho tho Himmathwaali hai. She has that courage to say it openly and put the injustice on the table to every one to see..Let me see how many of you have her courage...do everything in hiding and saamne se saadhu santh...,,chuudiyan pehenke comment maaro thum log...dar puk

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  • A.M Shaikh, Dubai, Belapu, Kaup

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Und Love tha pudar yenchina anna
    JIHADA BETHE DALA PUDAR UNDA

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  • clifford, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    I fully agree with the lady and admire at her courage. This Mr.Vedava cheated her otherwise she will not go like this public.

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  • Indian, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Being a girl shame on you Veera. Disgusting.

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  • jesse, mangalore/dubai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    I have gone through this episode carefully, lady telling that she visited many hotels and resorts with him. and with mutual understanding they had physical contact also.
    This physical contact cannot be a RAPE!!!
    Rape is a phenominon in which a male forcibly do sex without her permission.
    and in another case, any woman before the wedlock allows a man for physical contact, she commits adultery and violates one of the ten commandments of GOD.She tells that he promised her that he will marry. How she could believe a stranger? First she must have married and then allowed him to do whatever it may be.
    Now protesting, crying no use. this lady herself not only wasting her time but also tarnished her image.
    My advise to this lady is whatever has happened is happened. think about your future. study well, complete your degree or diploma, find a suitable job and forget about the past try to find a boy of good charecter and settle down in life. LIFE IS BEUTIFUL!!!!

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  • avinash, Mangaluru/Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    In your Ten commandments, here only woman committed adultery and that man is free...? Come on..be frank...Here the guy is also equally guilty in the sight of God. I also happened to read the Ten Commandments...they are good if we follow..Being a woman its strange that you condemn the woman...I wanted you to be near to Jesus when he was writing something in the sand when your people were trying to condemn the prostitute.....Grow up.

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  • avinash, Mangaluru/Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Ten commandments only for woman....not to the man...because you are in the middle east.......!

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  • Avinash, Mangaluru/Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Very strange comment is: If you want to marry a girl you will not have sex with her.....!
    And you can go out and have sex means you will not marry her.....!
    That means with would-be wife you will not have sex...but for sex you will find a good decent or good family girls and you deceive her and enjoy and leave her....!
    My God in which world I am living in...!
    Dont degrade the sisters to that extent...Paap lagega thum logon ko...

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  • Avinash, Mangaluru/Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Dont think that Dr.Vedava is a family man and gentleman...Proper enquiry will find out what he is up to...That lady is single and all alone....please help her atleast moral support..yaar. Who doesn't make mistakes.. All are not saints here in this forum...Dont give negative comments against a lone lady...She must have a valid reason to do that we don't know.

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  • Suleman Beary, Udupi

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    @ Avinash...
    I agree with you. No one is in support of poor girl.

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  • Mahendra Shetty, Mumbai Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    BAARI BANGHA NANA.....

    ROMANCE LOVE RAPE GE KAARANA.....

    YENCHI SAAVYA.......

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  • jesse, mangalore/dubai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    bhanga daala ijji radd jankkla thindd charbi

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  • veera pinto, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Student of Veda: modest man also have sex!
    This whole episode is made up! beyond any doubts. Why this girl has been enjoying the whole year and now talking about justice. No justice in sex, just enjoy and forget. Don't expect marriage with the same person if you have sex before marriage with him unless there is signed document.

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/Washington,DC.

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Bhandumaam,

    Could we prepare a marriage document and take thumb impression of this moron professor???

    ...JH...

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  • avinash, Mangaluru/Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    I am surprised to see so many likes to your comment...!Sorry to say your comment is one of disgusting...

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  • Avinash, Mangaluru/Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Please....that lady needs moral help...or counseling and that guy is sorry to say..shameless guy. What ever may be the reason,it looks she is been pushed to the corner..! Help needed before its too late. Humans bound to make mistakes. Please help our sister..

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  • masif, Manglore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    ನಮ್ಮದಲ್ಲದ ಹೆಣ್ಣು ಮಣ್ಣು ಹೊನ್ನು ಯಿಂದ ದೂರ ಇರಿರಯ್ಯ ಇಲ್ಲದಿದ್ದರೆ ಅವರು ಮರ್ಯಾದೆಯನ್ನು ಮೊರು ಕಾಸು ಮಾಡುತಾರೆ ಡಾ. ವೇದಾವರಿಗೆ ಮಾಡಿದಂತೆ

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  • Rita, Germany

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    @Roshan D Mello Mangalore,you say there is no true love.Then you have not experienced it.For you everything is/was only a pure attraction or enjoyment.A true love makes one to love that Person without boundrys,ready to make sacrifice,without seeing anothers wealth ,it is there to be loved and cared.True love lasts Long even the other rejects you.Never Forgets.Also pains you when one remembers.That is called true love.When you love a persons Body it is pure lust or sex.In a true love , can enjoy sex in a different angle than as sex act.That will last as you said for the time being.In this case difficult to say who is right and wrong.It is unfortunately not written on their forehead.we can say she or he.But what she did is also not right.coming out after a year and protesting in front of ollege,giving out Details about their affair,wants jutice,will not be accepted by anyone.Here she will be certainly a loser.why did she allow if at all true,to get physical relationship for a year.?With all his promises she should have been alerted,to think,here is stop,not any more .first inform parents about it.does she have no parents?did they not ask her about it.He can be a Professor ,well eduated doesnt mean he will not take Advantage of her.If she doesnt protest, no man will be against a offer.Hope we will know more soon.and without fire no smoke.

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  • Stan, Udupi/ Dubai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    He is right when he says he has not raped her. He never denied of having consensual sex with her. Let us not judge the individuals by taking sides. Let the court decide who is guilty and who is not.

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  • ex student,

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    vedav sir is humble gentleman . surely he will prove himself

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  • Sundari Ashoknagar, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Onji baaale ittini aanda DNA/fraternity test malpere sulabha aathu. Itthe daane malpuni akka?

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  • Well wisher, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Sundari Akka,

    Fraternity ath ye. Paternity aww.

    Yenchina onji maternity mentality nakulu barper marayare mool...

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  • Student of Dr Vedava, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Dr Vedava is a very modest n decorous person. He's a man with complete respect for the girls. I'm damn sure the girl his taking advantage of his qualification, position n his innocence. Such a cold blooded should be given death sentence. How could she afford to spoil the reputation of such a decent respectable Professor. Damn it!!! Just can't believe that this has happened to Dr Vedava.May God help him get justice for the kind of person he is.

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  • Antony Fernandes, Mangalore/USA

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Student of Dr Vedava, Mangalore

    If for any reason your favorite professor had sexual relation with this woman then he is at fault. Can he prove that he was not in any sexual relationship with this woman, if he can not prove it then whatever the woman says is right and you are supporting rape!

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  • Lester D'souza, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    We'll are you student of dr vedava or Vedanta himself?

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  • avinash, Mangaluru/Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Dear student your sir is not a good man.. He was having illegal affair with a woman for years and did not tell anybody and at the end cheated her after promising to marry her. That lady is brave and she had the courage of coming out in the open against the injustice of your sir. Please request your sir to marry her instead of dishonoring his promises... Thanks. Study well and do what sir taught you but don't do as he did....Amma dhevere...!

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  • Swathi, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 04 2014

    Mr.Avinash tel to that girl to get ready for DNA test bcz professor said knw he is ready for any enquiry.. wil she ready??? after proper enquiry only true wil come out until then don't judge..

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  • mann, bangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Those ladies who were going with males should in the very first instance of molesting her\raping her should go then there to the police to complain when the evidence still on\in her.
    It will be easy for the concerned authorities to solve the case without much delay on arresting the male accused.
    If these women after a year or even after a month of repeatedly enjoying with the male and then complaining that the person raped her or gone back on his promise to marry her is absurd and should not be entertained by authorities at all. it clearly shows such women wanted and enjoy sexual activity which is like rape.
    Recently these type of complaints have increased saying "He repeatedly raped me over a period of time when I went to his house!!!"

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  • Flavian, Mangaloare/Kuwait

    Wed, Oct 29 2014


    @ af, Mangalore

    Be careful.

    There should not be any evidence.

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Bhandarkar maam,

    Your summarized face reading points are really interesting & enlightening (... humour apart).

    After giving a face reading try -
    - I also see a sense of pain & agony deep inside the victim (I may be wrong)
    Dr Vedava being a GURU, i don't venture to read his face & express my views.

    But i don't want to pre-judge the matter.

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  • JR,

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    UNLESS OTHERWISE THE RAPE ACT IS HAPPENED INSIDE UNIVERSITY CAMPUS IT IS IN NO WAY CONNECTED TO UNIVERSITY AND EVEN IF STUDENT PROFESSOR RELATIONSHIP IS HAPPENED IT COMES UNDER POLICE JURISDICTION

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  • Af, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    OMG, if this is called rape then millions of cases will come out tomorrow.

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  • Rangoli , Bajagoli

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    parnd churida mitt burad, churi parnd da mitt burad, nuksana parndge atte.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    EErna 'Parnda' Bethe Mahrayaa..
    Nette parndag 'Gamath' Athaand!
    EEr 'Rangoli' Malperene Fit!

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Eencheena Rangoli, Bajagolide Tikkodu Mahraayre!

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  • Rangoli, Bajagoli

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Bete bele ijja. Pura janatha madhyag popa, Disagree tula, au janakalena kopa.

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Mulu maatherla parndugu nuksan ath, laabha aand panondulleru.

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  • dsc, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    @ Rangoli, Unden er andala RAPE malpera marrayere...

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  • Suleman Beary, Udupi

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Picture reveals prof. as "Khadheema"...girl as "Used".
    As she might be a MPhil research student and Prof. took the advantage of it and girl might had thought" Kuch paa ne ke liye...kuch khona padtaa hai'.
    However it is true prof.... you have cheated her.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    See. I am also a 'Face Reader' .
    Why? can't be one aa?
    Looking at the face only, i will tell you what happened.
    1. The Girl at the initial stage was very innocent.
    2.She was really studying Kodava Language.
    3. Why hurry? I will tell...
    4. The Dr.Something, showed her something.
    5. Then he lead her up the garden path.
    6. This girl believed all 'white was milk' and followed him. her sight was blinded.
    7. Then slowly but surely the Dr.something changed gears.
    8. This girl though innocent pleaded, pleaded, pleaded but to no avail.
    9. This protesting is not her idea.
    She is not cut out for it.
    10. then what you ask? she has been prompted to do it.
    11. The girl in any case has lost anything. she is just giving it a try.
    12. How point no 11 you ask? Look at her placard. How can the Dr. something give her 'justice'in the true sense? Got it? she does not know what to ask poor girl?.
    She has been badly used by the Dr.Something.
    Her supporters also cannot advise her properly as to how to go about it.
    Yes or No??

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  • ER, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Mr.Bandarkarmam you can beat Sherlock holmes in solving mystery

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Err..This is no mystery.
    An'Open and Open' case..I call it.
    In these matters and all even Sherlock or any other Lock must agree that I am the best...Is it not?

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  • ER, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    waimam i agree with you

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  • Student, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    No comments on the case.But, I being his student have witnessed Dr. Vedava as a faculty and he has always been true to his profession. Moreover the lady is not his student but, the student of Kannada Department. So, commenting on the grounds of " Student professor relationship" absolutely does not make sense. ..

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  • Koti, Kundapura

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    I feel the professor need the justice. Professor should file a suit against her for defaming him. This girl trapped him and blackmailed him to marry her. If raped she should have reported immediately not after 1 year. If she is so sober why she compromised with her character before marriage. If she would have said NO the truth of marriage would have come out YES/NO.

    Either she is fool or ignorant, both cases this is the result.

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  • R.Fernandes, Dubai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    This is the case of "Raat Gayi Baat gayi"

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Wed, Oct 29 2014



    Who says there is no respect for women? That’s all depends on type or nature of a woman.

    Here this woman was leading immoral way of life and that cost her dearly. She is the one who is lost for morals, self-respect and finally lost the person whom she considered as a lover. How come her brain started working when it was too late?

    She acted on her own wish & will and now let her face the consequence of her deliberate action.

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  • Rajesh Dsouza, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Even I had a love with one girl 7 years and consensual 5 years but she left me without saying any one word.I begged her, sent lot of sms to her because I was loving her too much but no reply.No idea why she left but we boys cant call these kind of incident as a rape because in India rape word applies only to girls.

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  • Sanghi, Kudla

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Ambo khaloi nayve.

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  • KRPrabhu, Bangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Sanghimam,Ambo khaloi Nayve monch boreb dishana saiba.....
    Bodlaak...Mango kholi nayve molar amka kalta saibano......kaale muntai?

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  • Sanghi, Kudla

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Prabhu mam ambo khalo, paar urli.

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  • essell, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    It is high time our girls to be educated with such happening from teenage.

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    This case looks like "Mutual Rape"..Beechige,cinimakke,Hotelige hoguvaga ee hennige "Sheelave Sarvaswa" emba veda vaakya maretu hoyta ?

    Please put these two,Professor and Student behind bars for one month so that next time no girl will say my boy friend raped me for one year or 2years ..Even boy friend thinks twice before going for sexual pleasure before marriage..

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  • MYB, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    ABVP seems doesn't pay any attention bcoz the episode turning KHOTA SIKKA for them.

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  • Clifford Fernandes, Toronto

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    In every problem you see, women have one track mind and the track to the Altar.

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  • Af, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Dont worry amma, you are already ed for next season on BIG BOSS.

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  • Af, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    read as ed

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    O.K. we will read as ed....
    Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
    Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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  • KUMAR, KUDLA

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    PLEASE STOP ENCOURAGING THIS KIND OF STORIES.

    EVERYDAY TV9/ OTHER CHANNALS ARE COMING OUT WITH THESE KIND OF STORIES.

    BOTH ARE EDUCATED,MATURE ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND THE FACTS & CONSEQUENCES - LET THEM SORT IT OUT IN A LEGAL / EMOTIONAL WAY.

    IF ANYONE ( MAY BE MY DAUGHTER/WIFE/MOTHER!!!) TELLS THAT SOMEONE RAPED ME FOR ONE YEAR/ OR SOMEONE RAPED ME 4 YEARS AGO / OR SOMEONE RAPED ME REPEATEDLY AT DIFFERENT PLACES... PLEASE ARREST THE PERSON WHO IS COMPLAINING OF RAPE & PUT IN JAIL.

    RAPE HAS BECOME THE MOST MISUSED WORD IN 21ST CENTURY INDIA.

    BY THIS THE REAL VICTIMS OF RAPE MAY NOT GET JUSTICE.

    AND UNIVERSITY IS NOT THE PLACE FOR DOING THIS KIND OF AGITATION.

    IF SHE FEELS THAT SHE WAS CHEATED WITH FALSE PROMISE OF MARRIAGE, LET HER COMPLAIN FOR THAT REASON TO POLICE, BUT DONT USE THE WORD"RAPE".

    AND DONT BRING THIS ISSUE TO UNIVERSITY, BUT LET HER COMPLAIN TO POLICE /COURT.

    and media... please have some sympathy for male also.

    give enough time for male to give his version.

    dont spoil the image / reputation of male, just because some female has complained.

    and if the male is not interested to marry a particular female ( or vice a verse!!) will they live with happiness????

    how can you force someone to marry a given candidate?

    and with whose permission she went with him repeatedly for one year? police /parents/VC/TV9/Media/etc?

    she herself lived with him ( as per her version!!) & now tells the wrong word "rape".

    this lady, mythriya gowda, hemalatha diwakar,etc... why they did not inform appropriate people as soon as possible about any misconduct?

    please save Indian males.
    please save Indian males.
    please save Indian males.

    who knows tomorrow any female of any age can complain against "you" that you raped her!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    you may come out of it, but the agony/pain/insult/etc - oh god, save Indian men.

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  • AMKU, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Ketta Mele Budhhi ...

    Both are of same community so No BD,CD,ABVP,VHP :)

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  • Latif Mapal, Jeddah

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Allow sex first for one year then complaint false promises of marriage what nonsense to hear…

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  • Ahmed, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Face of professor resembles cyanide Mohan Kumar.

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  • RSRB, Kundapura / Singapore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Increased rape incidents shows Sidhdhu Government is not strict on rapists.......

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  • AMKU, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    don't call everything as Rape.

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  • Radhakrishna.khandige, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Please define the word "RAPE " as per law. Now there is no value for the ethics of olden days. Let everything go as per law,and let every acts be as per written agreement ! I think all these problems are due to the lac of knowledge about the definition of the word RAPE. Advocates, please help!

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  • Arjun, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Dear RSRB
    Now I understood why you dont disclose your identity.

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  • Ajith, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    People like you should educate themselves and also others. Why blame Sidhu government? You can give up your Chaddi spokesperson job and start social awareness.

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  • jacintha, middle east

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Based on the reader's comments :
    No wonder many of the present day girls want to push marriage as far back as possible. Times have changed, thinking has not. They have changed but surrounding has not. There is no appreciation and respect for woman even among the well read/travelled/modern generation.

    Why get into 'aa bail mujhe maar' scenario. I wish we tempered our thinking and voicing to accommodate the changing times. (and the reality).

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  • Rakesh Barboza, udupi

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    ABVP? BD? VHP?
    RSS chaddi?

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  • vellano1, Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    please stop using word RAPE for every damn case, we come across!! Rape is not cool and dont put all ur "consensual sex and cheating therafter or domestic violence" in such bracket, cos your doing great disservice to THE REAL VICTIMS who GOT RAPED!... thank you..

    You need justice, you want to marry him or punish him, jail him.. do it with all might! ...dont make absurd allegation of, I gave him sex for a year, thinking he will marry me! LOUSY.. have u told ur parents, that he has promised me marriage, so i will sleep around..did u tell ur friends, college VC, police, neighbours.. No right? ... ab bhugto..

    he is commerce teacher... he will use you for a year, shamelessly, and then produce a balance sheet, with zero loss at the end of it! Dont keep ur brains, somewhere, where it should not be kept!

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  • Shankar, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Vellano 1, Mumbai,
    I second your thoughts.
    If she terms the alleged sex with the professor as rape, then she should have complained immediately. Exchange of fluids in exchange of promised goodies is undoubtedly with consent and both the parties can be called as either beneficiaries or the victims. One alone can not be a victim.

    Finally, whoever says that a sexual encounter pursued by offering some promises is a RAPE, then they should term the conversions by groups like New Life as FORCED CONVERSIONs.

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  • Sachidanand Shetty, Mundkur/Dubai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Oh It’s happening in our Mangalore that also ruled by highly secular and intellectual people!!!! In deed image of Mangalore has been changed forever under present rule in Karnataka. I hope that few people will visit CM’s and Mangalore MLA’s Office to congratulate them

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  • Ayes P., Mangalore./KSA

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Why this woman protesting infront of university, let she protest infront of his home or police station or DC office. University is not a right place protest. This is issue between herself and professor .

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  • Sachidanand Shetty, Mundkur/Dubai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Dear Ayes….agreed that University is not the right place to protest but same time it’s not the right place to employ that Professor who has been accused in rape case now!!!!

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  • Rudolf, Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Rape by definition is 'done by use of force'!! In that context, how can a year long relationship had in various places be 'considered' as rape per se, it is clearly consensual and both are equally guilty, and who knows what was the 'understanding' between both the victim and accused!! It is a relationship gone sour for whatever reason!!

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  • BROAD MIND, VIJAYADKA/FUJAIRAH

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    The woman may wrong. But one professor keeping illegal relationship with student?. Bad professor and bad student.

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  • jeetendra hegde, mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Immoral policy of this girl have to be blamed....she wanted to marry and allow him to enjoy what society thinks sacred job like GURU ...

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  • JNB, Bejai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    from last one year !!!!
    if everything from last one year,
    what is pending for 'Honeymoon'?

    always what we must do before: do it before
    and what we must do after: must do it after
    if after goes before..
    everything will deferred ..
    always must do right thing at right time...

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  • Robin, Byndoor

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    University Website says "Accredited by NAAC as 'A' Grade. Like 'A' Grade Films... He... He...

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  • Roshan Braganza, Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    @ Mohammed Junaid. After 2013 delhi case propaganda , they amended certain clauses but failed to include marital rape clause. Its outright rejected by goverment. It was good decission by wise peaple , who knew hidden motives of some draconian women.

    @ flavian. Marital rape clause is a propaganda by feminists worldwide. After spoiling families in west and then they got booted out by most Islamic countries. Hopelessly now they r banking on India . Marriage is a sacred relationship , Real woman always consents to husband.

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  • jacintha, middle east

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Those who consent become the REAL women.

    Biology defines it much differently :)

    Woman before marriage is no REAL woman. Woman who doesn't marry also is no REAL woman. A case for NHRC to follow - slandering of women.

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  • Robin, Byndoor

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    I don't understand Daiji IDEA of masking her face when she herself daringly sit in front of the University Corridors ...@!!!!

    By looking at her also we can judge to some extent the portion of her involvement in the case...

    Unmask her... Let people see the Victim/Culprit in her.

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  • Shiva, Udupi / Qatar

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Can any one believe this is a rape case?? since one year both had physical relation with mutual consent, now she is claiming lodged rape case.. seems one more Bakra false case. Thorough investigation will reveal all.

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  • Professor, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    This is simply the case of blind love but true (real) sex.

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  • Krishna Kant, Mangalore/Moodbidri

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    ABVP where are you guys?

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  • Well Prakash, Bangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    If the professor was from other community ABVP would have protested and there would have been processions with placards in their hands.

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    On a lighter note, please read the following:
    A man who had excessive urge for sex, was always in problem, either girls used to become pregnant or accused him of something. To prevent this permanently, he underwent vasectomy. Later, one girl fell for him, but he said he was very fond of children and only if she became pregnant, he would marry her. She signed the contract. She slept with him so many months without result, but, after some time got pregnant and asked him to marry her, which naturally, he refused. She complained to her father, who looked like Mohammed Ali, who took him to the cemetery and showed him a grave on which was written on the tablet "here lies the man who refused to marry my daughter" and told him same would happen to him. Now getting real sense, the man showed him his vasectomy certificate. Father sensing injustice to the man, complained to the daughter, the reality. Daughter said " Dad, go by the contract and I am pregnant. How, I am pregnant is immaterial. I narrated my problem to my friends, and they helped me. Now tell this man to marry me."

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  • lancy, dxb

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    After reading lot of comments I thought SEX is a fundamental right for both male and female and if the urge is not met then the real want arise as a demand and supply where all parties are logically satisfies otherwise these type demand arises.Now why girls do the supply business because there is demand business whatever reasons or plans may be. In the end no Society is benefited and only hatred remains.

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  • SAJIDA, MANGALURU

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Maduvege modale laingika sambhanda honduvaga eekege swanta buddhi yelli hogittu... Anyaya aagirabahudu...!Aadare nyaya keloodaralliyoo arta irabeku..

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  • Nancy, Belman

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Now, how she wants Justice?

    1. Marrying her?-will they remain happy?
    2. By sending him to jail?-He will be out within few days..
    3. By way of compensation?? - Is this is the right way to earn money?

    Who is at Loss???

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Nancy,

    One phrase always disturbed me is 'fighting for justice'. If a family member is dead due to somebody else's crime, the family of the diseased fights for justice for the dead. Well, by what means ? Sending the culprit to jail ? How will the dead confirm that the justice is done ?

    What we can understand form this case is that the girl wants the professor to keep his promise and marry her - irrespective of the fact whether they will live happily or in discord thereafter.

    I don't think her motive is just to defame him. What will she get with it ? Instead she is defaming herself by declaring that she had been physical with a man outside marriage thus endangering any chances of finding a groom for herself.

    Nevertheless, what the professor must do now is to deny that he promised to marry her in which case he will be a defaulter any way because it confirms his being physical with her. The law may demand that he marries her - what else ?

    Jaimini P. B. is right - in love, there is no room for sex before marriage. Once sex takes place, there is no reason for marriage hence the love itself is a fraud. If one loves his/her partner truly, they will contain their urge till marriage at any cost and give a meaning to the institution of marriage. Who don't wait till marriage to have sex are considering marriage as just a farce - not a true commitment.

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  • Koti, Kundapura

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    @Lydia: you advocate as if you were the witness of their promise. First place does she has any evidence of promise?

    Other hand I see this episode in other angle, professor need the justice. This girl trapped him and blackmailed him to marry her. If raped she should have reported immediately not after 1 year. If she is so sober why she compromised with her character before marriage. If she would have said NO the truth of marriage would have come out YES/NO.

    Either she is fool or ignorant, both cases this is the result.

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  • Rudolf, Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    'Institution of marriage' in modern times!!!LOL!!!

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  • Af, mangalore

    Thu, Oct 30 2014

    Hello Nancy Belman
    Mana maryade bittavarige kaasu yelleinda bandre yenu?

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  • Roshan Braganza, Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    ' CRY RAPE ' is a feminist buzz word now a days and thanx to the third wave of FEMINISM across the world. The hyppocracy is that they cry they r powerful and empowered , but shameless in turning a consented relationship into rape , to satisfy their hidden agenda . Look at the above case , Justice Verma might b turning his side in grave after drafting crpc 2013 and amended indian evidence act.

    Herz how it works , First girl will try to entice with a man with consent looking at his potential , then pacify him for marriage by threatening to file the case. OR Ditch him if he is not rich and book stalking case if he is after . Both ways its a win win for girl. Thanx to one sided indian law.

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  • Mohammed Juned, Karkala/Abu Dhabi

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Dear all,

    So basically this is a case of a betrayed relationship. Both are right and wrong under different perspectives. our halli meshtru is wrong because he cheated, he is right because he is falsely being accused of rape while in reality it was sex with consent. Our lady gaga is right because she is a victim of a cheated relationship, she is wrong because she is accusing a person under false charges of rape, while it was a physical contact with mutual consent.

    Despite of all the blah blah blah that she should have known the person before getting physical, she shouldn't have travelled the journey of pleasure etc etc, she still has an upper hand in this case. A committee which was formed after the Delhi gangrape, has made few amendments keeping the cause of security for women in mind. It says any physical contact made with false implications of marriage is rape. It goes harsh to the extent of saying that even a married women could file a rape case if the sex is without her consent.

    Now it depends, how people use/misuse this law.

    Thanks
    June...

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  • KRPrabhu, Bangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    What vedava....
    Student Kodava....?
    Rape madiddu howdava..?
    Complaint yake istu latuva...?
    Vishaya gotuu illava...?
    Ondu varsha maja madaddva...?
    Matte heliddu rape vaa...?
    Heege yelladarooo untavaa...?
    Yake kai kottadduvaa....
    Eega police case baruttalva...
    Matte yenaadroo madabekallavaa....
    Noduvaaa...noduvaaa......

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  • Peter, Bangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Karthik Gowda in disguise.

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  • Yadav Suvarna, Mangalore/Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    "Raathri kanda baavige hagalalli beeluvudu" swalpa jaagratheyagi irabekamma....

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  • KRPrabhu, Bangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Guvel malla aanda boorande bethe saadi ijji!!!

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  • jacintha, middle east

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    When it comes to women issues, the divide is men/women, irrespective of caste/community/region, or else on all other topics, from the readers comments, we can always see a community/language/regional/political alignment.
    So women, you know you are on your own, your own also do not defend you. It is the fault of the girl - always, never of the persuading man, NEVER. Because they are biologically made so, god made them so blah....

    Coming to this case. I am sure there is "something" the professor promised and in return sought sex. Just as the woman should know that it is illegal/immoral, the PROFESSOR also should know. He should have dissuaded her from getting into a sexual relationship, after all he is a PROFESSOR, supposed to guide students. How did he go on assuming the girl lured him into it? Why did he visit her house, does he visit all student houses? What is the SOMETHING he promised?

    Sex is the insecurity in many men, they defend it at all cost.Their right to SEX at any time and their urge to sex with anyone is their FUNDAMENTAL right - so they think. The men charge to defend the rapist/sexual offender even if very little is known of the facts. The rapist can be anybody, first the woman is analysed, what was she wearing, what time was it, with whom was she, why did she go. It is like... MEN will do it, WOMAN you escape.

    If women are raped, it is because they are promiscuous, and scantily clad, not because the men are hormonal ill balanced, or have lost social balance.

    This discussion goes on. Majority rules!

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  • Kearon, Kudla

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Jessy bai yee samajod:
    Aaan(men) kesarithinall dankuve, neer ithinall dekkuve. Ayag sontada thirth buddi ijji.

    Ponnu husarippodamma. Ketta kala.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Jacintha-Madam...
    1.I understood everything what you wrote and the feelings also.
    2. See, If I have understood Lydia Bai's 'girls preparation for surrender on D'day'(I recd so many calls from girls that day..asking me about it! They were ('pissi pissi laughing)I can just about understand anything-Is it not?
    But tell me what do you mean by:
    "never of the persuading man, NEVER. Because they are biologically made so, god made them so blah...." Unquote:
    Is it that you have resorted to 'extreme polarization' only because of a pole??

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/Washington,DC.

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Bhandumaam,

    You need to make a new tulu movie "Ayag sontada thirth buddi ijji"....take this Prefessor as Villain and girl as heroine...

    If you need some help in writing script ask Bejaimai, Kadrimai and Middle East mai...your buddy is busy in NY dont disturb him....

    ...JH...

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Why 'Santoda Thirta buddhi ijji'?
    Alpa jaasthi Buddhi. Ancha Ayeenete EE Maatha Avantaraa!
    The Film should be titled..
    'Kaali Sontada Thita Buddhi' Is it not?
    Script ,I will write,no problem.
    Will you provide the 'green bucks'?

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Wed, Oct 29 2014



    @ Lydia

    You are right.

    Forced sex even in the married life is nothing less than rape.

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  • ali, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    ABVP should come forward to protect students from balatkaari professors.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Peter,

    I say this, keeping in mind that you are a married man. Please recall the days when the act happened with both the member's consent and the one when just one partner wanted it and the other didn't (in general - not gender specific). I am sure the partner who didn't want it, surely felt to be/being raped - ask yourself !

    As such, in marriage too rape takes place but the partner sustains it because she/he can't create a reason for the other partner to go out searching for a consenting partner. This is a main basis of an institution called 'Marriage'.

    I am here to listen to you, if it is otherwise.

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  • Bryan, Bahrain

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Why are you defending her, He never made a promissory note, by the age of four and five people should what is right and what is wrong, in every area of life. And once you learn the difference, you must always choose the right she made this wrong decision...

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Bryan,

    By disputing my supporting her, you are indirectly supporting him. Do you know what this means ?

    Thinking in similar lines, I will have no problems placing myself in her shoes and not brave enough to have raised a voice but do you understand how it defines you ?

    You are right - she should have known what is good and bad but we can't terminate her existence now that she has committed it - can we ?

    Now, the situation is, how do we go about with it ? Do we let him go ignorantly so that he goes on exploiting the next student ? All along, its the student's fault - the man has nothing to gain/lose ?

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  • Roshan P D'Mello, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Dont take it seriously!! Bade bade shehron mein aisi chhoti chhoti baatein hoti rehti hai.

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  • Bryan, Bahrain

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    I don't buy it, they both had majority share in this love business. LOVE...hurts everyone in the long run...

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  • Vijay, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    when everything looks good its love and when things get ugly,relationship breaks then its rape.

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  • Pandu Ranaga , Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    it is not a rape but you submitted to his will. when he was non-committed on marriage, same love making turned to rape. such case should be handled by hospital Psy. dept under the vigilance of police dept. as a deterrent.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Wa Re Wa...Pandu Ranaga!!!
    Where were you till now ..Yaa??
    Your comment also should be described in detail by some Hospital Pys. Department under vigilance ... under
    No deterrent using detergent..Vow!! Vow!!
    More complicated than the story we have here man, your comment! This is just an 'open and open case' you see.

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  • Bryan, Bahrain

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    One year and rape charges, no no no, This Professor must have thought to himself that this girl is not a good beginner and a good learner for the past one year, you know what I mean. Tell your mummy and daddy that this game is over. Learn from it and let go. People are constantly changing and growing...

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    I still don't understand the logic why do girls go for sexual pleasure if any male comes to girl and say "I will marry you,let us enjoy now"..

    True lover doesn't love(ask) her body..He loves(asks her heart..Thats what girls should understand before..

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  • Roshan P D'Mello, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    @ Jaimini, There is nothing called "TRUE LOVE", it is something that ENDs every night after making LOVE.

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Haaa..my friend you are wrong..Did you love someone ? Love comes straight from heart..It is automatic..If you are a true lover,then you love even in her absence..her face,hair style,smile,dress,kerchief,perfume smell..everything you feel..What ends every night is NOT love..it is called SEX..you can have with any girl if she is willing and you forget her once she leaves your room..!

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  • Koti, Kundapura

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Jaimini Anna, vodereg bari khushi apund. Anda ini kode au mata filmed. Some families love exists which is true and its a world of their own. Ready to die for each other.

    But this case its lust and not love.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Peter,

    Please refrain from using words like 'she enjoyed' - I am sure the man wasn't suffering/sustaining with great difficulty the relationship - do you want to say so ?

    A person (man or woman) must keep his/her promise - case of cheating is justifiable in cases where they don't.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Vedavaaaaaaaaa..aaaa.aaaaa
    Vedavaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa..aaaa
    Naanu Oduthide Kodavaa
    Vedavaa..Naanu Oduthide Kodavaaa
    Vedavaaaa....
    Ninnu Hellide Navu Mella 'Kuduvaa'!

    AAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaa...
    Vedavaa...
    Ninu EEga Jaarideyaa....
    Vedavaaaaaaaaaaa.....
    Bidisuve EEga Ninna Grahacharaaa..

    Station Ge Hogi
    Kathe Heli -Bikki...
    Nenedu Nenedu Novaagide aa aa aa
    Vedavaaaaaaaaaa..Pattinga Ninu Kalla Badava...........(Song Alpane sudden Bandh... Song there sudden end.)
    Yenchaa? Onji Maatha Picture Korpujaa?
    How? Full Picture-not giving aa? Song?

    Vode Ulleh 'Toss Vasanthe'?
    Where is that 'Toss Vasanth'??

    Song 'review' Malpaad Aaye!
    Let him review song.

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  • hakim, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Avaga "Vedavaa Vedavaaaa"
    Ivaga "Bedavaa Bedavvaaa"

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    He raped her in parks and beaches. Is our MORAL POLICE DEAD ...

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  • vinay, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    If there is Moral Policing, then also you have problem, if not, also have problem.

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  • jeetendra hegde, mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Who want moral police????.All people hate BD ,cd and CHADDI etc...,for this purpose and why you need them now?...

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  • Sandesh Shetty, Bangalore/Kudla

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai if you want moral police group to do everything then what your sleepy govt doing in the state. When BJP govt was there your secular party khangress was always protesting in front of DC office saying that state is not safe under BJP. Now what has happened to your govt.

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  • Ayes P., Mangalore./KSA

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    At present most of the women trapped in false promises and woman should not allow sex for promises (most of the promises are FALSE PROMISES). His intension was just LOVE SEX & DHOKA.

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  • Deepak, Bangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    She went on her own risk. She cannot blame on him..after hearing so much incident why she allowed him to take advantage. Now a days all women will think before marriage itself. They will not allow someone to take advantage before marriage and to take a risk.

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Shameless woman.

    At the most you should have believed only in "Love kiss" and no further. Grown up woman how you can trust on others if you do not trust yourself.

    You both need to undergo punishment. 

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  • RD, karkala

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    July me saawan jo barse
    Phir se mann ye lipatne ko tarse
    Aish poori August karenge
    Aisa kuchh bandobast karenge

    London le jaaunga, Paris ghumaaunga
    world tour karwaunga re

    Dhinka Chika Dhinka Chika
    Dhinka Chika Dhinka Chika
    Re ai ai...

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  • Farhan, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Can somebody explain this poor women meaning of Rape.... If she had a physical relation before marriage it was on her own risk. whts the role of University in this whole episode why she is dragging university in this...

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  • Shalini, Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    She is blaming the university because he is a professor there and actions needs to be taken, Simple as that. What do you think she should do, you want history to repeat with such professors and let him do the same with other girls too. Please try to weigh the pros and cons before commenting as there is always two sides of a coin, she too needs to be blamed for the mess and secondly action should be taken by the college on this so said professor wonder how he got a degree.

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  • readerwriter007, pune

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    hello. please read the subject. It says rape. Please check the definition of rape before commenting. We are working in several offices and tomorrow I get myself in to some trouble because of my own foolishness and negligence, I can't ask my management to take responsibility and get me justice. You may have to hire a lawyer and fight for justice at court. The subject will be cheating , not the RAPE. Please. It's not a joke to spend an year with someone enjoying the beach and hotel stays. she is responsible for her problem and now she is troubling the public by bringing it to university and media. University is not at all connected to this. Also public.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Farhan,

    First of all, this woman is brave enough to publicly that she had physical relationship with a certain man. Tell me, how many have the guts to say this despite knowing that it subjects them to public shame and degradation ? Please note, I am against such relationship before marriage but when some people indulge into it, we can't wipe them off the earth - can we ?

    Secondly, if you say agreeing for physical relationship before marriage is her fault, you must get the professor prove that he did not promise to marry her.

    What do you say for these two points ?

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  • Samson Rebello, Kallianpur/Dubai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    She is brave to have physical relation with only a promise of marriage, that too for one year. Lets talk sense here.

    Promise is a mere word now a days without any meaning. Even written promissory notes are not honored now a days. Instead of relying on the word promise, use common sense.

    Tali ek hath se nahi bajta.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Samson,

    I didn't say she is brave enough to have have physical relationship before marriage - I meant, she is brave to have admitted to have indulged in it.

    Again, my question remains valid - how many go out and have sex but admit to have done it ?

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  • John DSouza, Belman/Bejai/Qatar

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Tragedy of human life is that it has badly influenced by the dramatic change in the marketing style of goods, due to comparison and competition.
    From “let the buyer beware” to use first and then buy (if satisfied), test drive, free trial, special offer, clearance sale, buy one take one free, buy at big discount, return if defective, return and get cash back, free maintenance, limited time offer, after sales service, exchange mela, switch option etc.
    The true fact is that the mobile technology has high jacked the humans by making them blind, deaf and dumb where cut, copy and paste has become the practice by dumping the self common sense and efficiency.

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  • peter, Brhamavar

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Now she realized whatever she enjoyed for one year in hotels & lodges is rape. If it goes like this wives also come forward to register the cases that their husbands raping them for years after year.

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  • Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Here the rape word not suits to the situation as it raised here but it is a case of cheating between!!!

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  • Af, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    after 1 year she want justice as a what ? let she publish her demands and display at campus.

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  • Hubert D'souza, Mangalore Dubai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    FROM 1 YEAR SHE IS IN COMA.NOW SHE IS CAME OUT OF COMA!!!!!!!!

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Where is ABVP....?
    Your attention on this subject matter is highly appreciated.
    Many thanks in advance.

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  • Sandesh Shetty, Bangalore/Kudla

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb why do you want ABVP here. Incase if they intervens also you people will say who are they to take law into their hands. Good or bad atlast you people will blame only sangh parivar and its outfits.

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    I thought ABVP has a right thinking set of people fighting for justice irrespective of what the biased section of the society think about you.
    May be i am wrong in understanding ABVP's wisdom. Its OK no issue..., you can carry on..., don't feel bad.

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  • Jagdish, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Girish Sir its your govt in the state. When BJP govt was ruling congress members always used to protest saying that our state is not safe in the hands of BJP. Now what has happened. Has anyone stopped them from taking action.

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  • geoffrey, hat hill

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    It's time to redefine the term 'rape'. This reminds me of Boxing champ Mike Tyson being convicted for raping miss black America pageant Desiree Washington in HIS hotel room at 2 a.m.back in 1991. The question is what the heck she was doing in his hotel room at 2 a.m.?

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Eating 'Onion Pakoda' Geoffrey. Onion Pakoda...
    The only thing was Desiree was wearing a see thru' Lingerie and that's where the problems started....Onion Pakoda and See Thru' Lingerie...Irresistible Combination....Is it not?
    Got it now??

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Also,Desiree and see thru' Lingerie, Geoffrey, is fatal attraction!
    Is it not?

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, bahrain

    Wed, Oct 29 2014


    Having sexual relations with a woman on false promise of marriage amounts to rape, according to high court.

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  • Achhu, Mlore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    @ Henry.

    A simple say from girl is good enough to consider it as rape or any evidence required?

    Usually girls take U turn very easily.

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  • India First, India

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Vice-Chancellor should teach her the real difference between Rape & Consensual sex !!

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  • Achhu, Mlore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    When he teaching, there may be chances of again girl getting rape from VC.

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  • Arun CK, Mlore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Same Jr-DVS story once again. Its amazing that they realize they have been raped only after a year.

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  • Sanghi, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Undu Rape ath Cape.

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  • D.P.SHETTY, Bahrain

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    It looks very funny & woman took one year to comes to know some one is raping her. What a idea sir G ?

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Sir...
    Blame it on the Environment.
    You never seem to know what's happening around and to you.
    Women, of late, are more prone to it.
    Until one year the roar of the 'Animal in Man',subdues the woman, research has proved. After one year the man can only 'Mew' it seems!
    Then the women comes to know, something has gone wrong and she complains. Get the gist... All of you?

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  • Roshan P D'Mello, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    professor in the department of commerce raped her over the last one year on the “false promise of marriage”. - Is he supercharged to rape her through out the year.

    How can she call this as RAPE. Its a case of cheating.

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  • Stan, Udupi/ Dubai

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Its not rape but consensual sex. Both should be charged for immoral behavior. Why chaddis are not protesting?.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    “He used to visit my house frequently. I had trusted him but he breached my trust,” Unquote.
    Looks like there has been a breach on all fronts.
    Far reaching affects on the M'lore University itself. This is not for the first time, you see. Think there is a 'Sex Starved' department out there!
    I think a paper on 'Sex Starvation' would get a P.H.D. in no time at the University!
    Lawyers, Professors, Judges, Swamis, Fathers, Mullahas, Preists
    all attracted to the same thing.
    All things they do and then want only 'Pure Truth' to come out.
    Many are influenced by 'Nandini Pure Ghee' advertisement -you see.
    Like Dear Mariam, Kirem, said in many many cases, the 'Animal in Man' pops out as it is without any provocation! Still she wants restraint from him even when women are ..ked ! What to tell!!

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  • readerwriter007, pune

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    ha ha ha... just read one sentence over there..."he promised to marry her and took her to various hotels, beaches and parks where he raped her" ... did she took permission from University Vice-Chancellor ? It's her own risk and issue. Let's not debate it please. It's our own safety we should be and ensure we don't fall in to such traps. if you fall you will paid for it. not anybody else. In this case also, university or public will not be responsible.

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  • RJ roshan, mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    adyapakanige kamada huchu athi aithu...
    kalu muridu jailige thalli...

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  • Shivappa, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 29 2014

    Bhandarkar saab,
    one more 'fry' story

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