A Tribute of Love to Felix Frank D’Silva

  •   Mon, Feb 09 2026
  •   By Melvyn Rodrigues

February 9, 2026

Some people live loudly; others live deeply.

Felix Frank D’Silva belonged unmistakably to the second kind.

For those of us who were blessed to know him over decades, Felix was not merely a friend, colleague, or relative—he was a presence. A steady, reassuring presence that made life feel a little more ordered, a little more humane, and a great deal more hopeful.

Felix, who passed away peacefully on Friday, February 6, 2026, at the age of 80, leaves behind a rich legacy of love and service. He was the devoted husband of Philomena Felcy D’Silva; a loving father to Prashanth and Roopali, Prima and Clinton, and Pramod and Shanon; and a doting grandfather to Michael, Aryan, Emma, Crystal, Mayur, and Ira. He was a cherished brother, brother-in-law, uncle, and—most tellingly—a brother in spirit to many who were not related by blood but bound by affection.

A Man with a Giving Heart

Generosity came naturally to Felix. He never announced it, never dramatized it, and never expected recognition for it. Whether it was helping the less fortunate, quietly supporting someone in distress, or offering assistance ‘in whatever capacity he could’, Felix believed that compassion was not an obligation—it was a way of life.

As an active member of the St Vincent de Paul Society, his concern for the poor was practical and sincere. His words were simple, his actions sincere, and his dealings always affectionate. In an age of noise and display, Felix practiced goodness with humility.

Many people came to see him as a father figure—someone to turn to when life felt uncertain. His advice was never hurried, never superficial. It was thoughtful, grounded, and deeply humane. At family functions and gatherings, he was often requested to say a few words, because everyone knew that when Felix spoke, there would be ‘Dhon uthram’—words of weight, clarity, and substance.

A Joyful Soul at Home

Within the family, Felix was warmth itself. His grandchildren remember him not just as a grandfather, but as their very own Santa Claus, the one who delighted in their happiness and would lovingly ask them to pick anything they wished when they came home for vacation. Those moments of innocent joy, laughter, and generosity will remain treasured memories for a lifetime.

So genuine was his affection that many in-laws considered Felix their own brother—a rare tribute to the breadth of his heart and the sincerity of his relationships.

A Quiet Innovator and Professional Par Excellence

Felix’s professional life reflected the same integrity and intelligence that marked his personal life. An alumnus of St Joseph Primary School, Kankanady, and St Aloysius College, Mangalore—where he completed his PUC and BCom between 1962 and 1966—Felix was a commerce graduate who believed deeply in learning through discipline and self-effort.

He worked with Abu Dhabi Oil Company Ltd (Japan) and retired as Senior Accounts Officer, earning respect for his precision, reliability, and ethical standards.

Remarkably, at a time when information technology was still in its infancy—nearly 40 years ago—Felix independently developed an accounting software-like application for his company, purely by studying books and applying logic. He did this without formal training in IT, and without expectation of reward. The system he created continued to be used even after his retirement—a testament to its robustness and his foresight.

Service Beyond Profession: Flexy Free

Felix’s most enduring contribution may well be his service to the Church through Flexy Free, a church data and accounting application he developed and offered entirely free of cost. The name itself—Flexy—beautifully combines Felix and Felcy, reflecting a partnership rooted in love and shared values.

Today, Flexy Free is used in over 100 churches, of both Mangalore and Udupi Dioceses and few other churches of India, quietly supporting administration and transparency. This was Felix’s way—serving faith not with grand declarations, but with thoughtful solutions.

He also remained actively involved in the Konkani Cultural Organisation, Abu Dhabi, serving as its Treasurer and contributing to the community he deeply loved.

Equally close to his heart was his alma mater. Felix was a Treasurer and active member of SACAA – St Aloysius College Alumni Association, remaining connected to the institution that shaped him and serving it with the same sincerity and responsibility that defined all his roles.

A Life Well Lived

Felix married Philomena Felcy D’Silva on April 24, 1974 at Milagres Church, Mangalore, with the reception held at the Catholic Club, Hampankatta. Their marriage stood as a partnership of mutual respect, faith, and shared purpose.

Simple in words, dignified in conduct, affectionate in relationships, and compassionate in service—Felix Frank D’Silva showed us that greatness does not need applause. It only needs consistency, conscience, and care.

May he live on in the lives he touched, the systems he built, the advice he gave, and the love he shared so freely.

May his soul rest in eternal peace—and may his example continue to guide us.

 

 

 
By Melvyn Rodrigues
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