November 4, 2020
We all expect most of our life events to happen as per we expect. We dream, we plan and expect it to be successful after every effort has been made to make it successful. However life is not meant to be that way though it seems harder to accept it. Life has its own bends and curves and we have to drive along those . When you offer help to someone it is quite obvious to expect help in return at the time of distress. But, when u do not get help from that person as per your expectations you feel hopeless and tend to develop hatred towards him or her.
It is better not to expect anything at all. It is okay to seek help but not okay to be confident that you will receive what you asked for. Also do not expect the person whom you helped to remember you and to be grateful till the end of the life.
Life takes twist in unknown ways, the person whom you helped may not even talk properly to you later in life, it should not shatter you though. Remain strong and continue to progress, negativity and negative people should not occupy the important space in your life, no matter what.
Expectations hurt. Do not expect anything from anyone. You work hard and do good deeds; this should be your life’s satisfaction motto. For example: everyone has a mobile today, you message and call your loved ones or friends, but if you expect them to do the same there is no affection in relation or friendship. Live your life as you want embracing positivity and goodness. Do not live as per other expectations, you will end up living others life not your own.
We are not born to please others; we must live our life with what keeps us happy. Live your life’s every moment positively and take it day by day, do not think about the future too deeply. Build up the positive environment around you and do not look back into your past.
Remember that when you have everything, everyone stays with you but when you have nothing, you are rotten, and this is how the cruel world sees. Not everyone carries that attitude, goodness and good people still exist and persist in this world. We cannot change other’s thought and behaviour, we can change ours, and through this we may be able to see only the positive vibes of life.
Swim through the hardships of life with all the positivity and kindness you possess. Do not remain grudged and angry on those who have tried to destroy your image, just try to forgive and forget and keep moving in life.
WE ARE NOT PERMANENT ON THIS EARTH AND NOTHING REMAINS PERMANENT IN LIFE.