Initiative with Interest

September 26, 2011

For an IT professional, the time of appraisal is a very crucial period. It’s the time when there is a subtle competition in the air. There is a constant curiosity on everyone’s mind to know from every other person he runs about his appraisal and how well or bad it turned out. It’s a time when everyone in the office, and in particular the appraiser and the appraisee are trying hard to prove their mettle in their respective roles.

During these times, most often than not, it’s the appraisee who is at the receiver's end. He has to listen to incessant advice from the appraiser. He is often asked to do this and do that to increase his competency level and leap forward in his career path. I don’t have anything against the system of appraisal or the whole lot of appraisers. I totally agree that these processes are healthy ways to harness employee and company growth. These advices are good for all employees to grow too. But, sometimes I wonder, how good it is to do so just for the sake of a healthy appraisal?

We have often noticed that compulsion does not always yield the best results. Even children often detest everything that is compulsory in the school. So, if those employees follow their appraiser’s advice and start conducting some training sessions, then my question is, will the trainees take the training seriously? If not, then how much will it help them? And what does the trainer gain from all this? It will be just a waste of time for everyone.

So my thought is very simple. Whatever we do, it should be useful and mutually beneficial to all. This is especially true when we talk about training people in something. Our initiatives should be fuelled by genuine mutual interest and not by compulsion. 

This reminds me of something that my father did thirty years ago. My father being an artist took an initiative to train me in art of Visualizing, Sketching and Paintings when he saw my interest in it. As a result of that small initiative, I’m what I’m today – an artist and a graphic designer. When I was a little kid, dad held my hand and taught me to draw. Later, he guided me, thought me on colors, strokes and medium and corrected my mistakes. Even today, he is my biggest critic.

Now, I too am a father and my 18 months old son, Panshul loves to scribble. The walls of our home are his canvases. There are colorful lines and circles all over the house. Even the refrigerator, window panes and the TV has not escaped his creative pursuit! Seeing his interest, I suddenly found myself in this ‘initiative process’ all over again. But this time, it was my son who was taking the initiative with interest. It was Re-initiation for me!! Below is the proof of it.

I use to create lot of graphics/paintings. But the below graphic that I have created is a very special for me. This graphic is very simple. It involved no great efforts. Yet, it is a very special picture for me because the inspiration for this picture came from one of Panshul’s drawings. He took the initiative to draw (scribble or doodle is a better word to describe it) and then urged me to do something about it.

Check the images of his drawing/creativity below. This is his maiden drawing so I liked it a lot.

Getting inspiration from his sketch I started working on it. Why?? I’ll tell you later.

Step 1: Outlines. I drew some lines over his drawing as I associated his drawing with a landscape.

 

Step 2: Simple colored cartoon-like treatment for the children of his age. We usually see these kinds of colors on cartoon movies and cartoon channels.

 
Step 3: Some improvements 

 
Step 4: Added some realistic touch. 

 
Step 5: As an artist I always like to play with colours. So here is that same layout with different mood. May be kids of Panshul’s age may not like this kind of treatment!

 
Now, some explanations. The reason I worked around Panshul’s drawing is because, who knows, one fine day this effort by me may become an inspiration to him! Does this seem like a deliberate, very early effort on the part of a father to make his son follow his path? Well, let me make it clear, it’s not that.

Panshul might not become an artist at all, and I’m perfectly fine with it. When I say initiating and re-initiating, what I mean is that as parents we should always recognize our children’s capacities and potentials and mainly their interests, however small they may be and highlight them. We must make the child aware of it and celebrate their abilities and achievements. If not at least we should not discourage them. It is these little gestures from us that will help a great deal in fuelling their ambition as they grow up.

My dad did just that to me. He didn’t dismiss or ignore my doodles as mere child’s play (even when I painted one of the walls in our house with enamel paint which we usually don’t use for wall paintings). Instead, he took the initiative to show what my capacities are, what I’m made of. My son, Panshul didn’t wait for me though. He started scribbling and made me realize that it’s time for me to do what my Dad did to me. So, re-works on Panshul’s drawings are just a result of that. It is special to me because we both took ‘initiative with the an interest’.

So, you see my friends, your professional life or personal life, every initiative to train someone in something should stem out a thoroughly genuine interest and never be borne out of compulsion.

By Pavan Kumar Attavar
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Comment on this article

  • Ramjee, Bangalore

    Mon, Jul 15 2013

    Nice article Pavan. Inspiring.

  • RANGANATHA RAO BEKAL, BANGALORE

    Fri, Mar 08 2013

    Amazing.Let me confess I am not an artist.And the article from Sri.Pavan Kumar is inspirational.

    I just couldn't first understand the scribbling by the child.Even steps 1 & 2 didn't enlighten me.However, when I saw the step 3,I could catch the point. Everything became very clear when I glanced from step 3 to 2 & then to step1 travelling backwards.And now I could nod my head in high appreciation of the art by the little Panshul & his proud father Sri.Pavan Kumar. Of course the steps 4&5 further brightened the art.Wishing bright future to Father,son duo.

  • purushotham, mangalore

    Mon, Oct 03 2011

    Nice Article. Very Impressive.

  • WOW!!!!!, THRUPTHI R SHETTY

    Sat, Oct 01 2011

    proud that ur a manglorean,so many talent aronud us better late then never,happy and thanks to daijiworld for introducing the talent...

  • Sarfaraz Dudhani, Pune

    Thu, Sep 29 2011

    Pavan, I am not surprised with your creativity of using the initial doodle made by your son. This is just the Pavan I know, always creative :)

    But the message you gave through your article is something very special. Very well written.

  • sunil, hejamadi

    Wed, Sep 28 2011

    Well written and thought provoking for both parents and aspiring IT employees

  • Payel Mukherjee, Pune

    Tue, Sep 27 2011

    This is an unbelievable piece of work Pavan! Seriously! The article in itself is captivating and the best part is that you have used your own life’s experiences to write this. Also, the way you have improvised upon Panshul’s imagination with your creativity is praiseworthy. :) Way to go!!

  • meenakshi, Pune

    Tue, Sep 27 2011

    Nice initiative and brilliant piece of work from the scribbles!

  • karishma, pune

    Tue, Sep 27 2011

    very nicely written and love the thoughts behind it

  • Neelam, Pune

    Tue, Sep 27 2011

    Very well written!

    The graduation from a scribble to a beautiful painting is awesome.

  • Sandeep Gore, Pune

    Tue, Sep 27 2011

    Simple and most important thing for every parent…thanks Pavan to this article.

  • Mousumi, Pune

    Tue, Sep 27 2011

    This is wonderful article. Initially the doodle didn't make much sense. But you have taken the doodle forward very creatively. Good job!

  • Juliana, Bangalore

    Tue, Sep 27 2011

    Very impressive, you should actually start your own blog with this!! BTW working with your kids always boosts your creativity, so go for it!

  • Sailaja, Pune

    Tue, Sep 27 2011

    Such a heart-warming post! And a powerful message for today's parents. Keep writing!

  • Vipin Gopan, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 27 2011

    The author of this article is my senior in our office. now I understand what are the differences genetic, inbuilt and attained qualities. really weldone Mr Pavan, and it is really encouraging writting by you.

  • Sajna Aravind, Pune

    Tue, Sep 27 2011

    Wow Pavan! Thoroughly enjoyed reading your article. It was great reading about your wonderful journey as an artist and the journey that Panshul is yet to set on. Artist, engineer, designer, whatever he chooses to become, I’m sure he’ll draw inspiration from his father. Kudos to the dashing father n son duo!

  • Hrishikesh, Pune

    Tue, Sep 27 2011

    Excellent...
    The illustrations specially are too good and I am sure Panshul will get some inspiration from it some day :)
    God Bless!

  • val, mangalore

    Tue, Sep 27 2011

    Good thought-good words-good deeds.
    Catch them young- bring out the latent hidden talent and skills out of children from the early ages.Train -hone and bring it out as a profession.with inspiration -motivation and giuidance.
    It could be genetic or not we could get them to do it if interested.
    Mr. Pavan-good job and well written in simple words.
    keep it up and train more youngsters.
    like arts we could workin various other areas like Ex:floriculture- agriculture- nursery- pisciculture -turn the hobbies into profession.
    Singing-dancing - choreography- writing scripts- computer animation-handi carfts- cookery- bakery-fashion designing- embroidery- etc.
    etc.
    these are all in demand now.

  • Poornima,

    Tue, Sep 27 2011

    Nice article! Well articulated, and frankly i feel most appraisal comments are simply said for the sake of saying something and not grounded in facts. There are very few appraisers who genuinely take an interest in the appraisal cycle and say something that benefits the appraisee and the organization.

    The painting from you son's scribble is awesome! I am sure he will cherish it when he grows up! :)

  • Varunraj R, Bangalore

    Mon, Sep 26 2011

    You have linked initiatives and interest in professional and personal life very well. I feel every individual needs a mentor/guide to understand and help them in moving up in life. For a child a parent/teacher can be his mentor whereas for an employee it could be his manager/surpervisor. As you being a father have taken initiative to develop Panshul's interest, company's too need to take initiative to identify talent among employees and mould them through training and coaching. Of course, all this surely does take time and investment. However, this helps employee look beyond appraisal and hikes and plays a crusial role developing a long term relation with his company.

  • Charles D'Mello, Pangala

    Mon, Sep 26 2011

    This is a request to the Parents..dont try to influence your child at the time of descision making time comes...!!!??? If you want your son/daughter to be someone please try to put in their mind at the young age only....if for your badlike they do not like your thinking.....then.........there is a famous syaing tulu (which I like most)......"daeri lakka poijida....poi lakka derod"....it means.."if the cattle does not follow your instruction....then follow them.."""...I think this is good lesson.

  • Pramod gawade, pune

    Mon, Sep 26 2011

    Hey!! Very useful and interesting article! nice artwork:)

  • Rose, Dubai

    Mon, Sep 26 2011

    I appreciate what the father has to say about his son and himself but drawing on the walls in the house is not the right way to mould the child to good manners. I recently went with a friend in her car and found the car seats scribbled with crayons on the back seat, one socks and one shoe was also in the car. Children should be taught to use the things appropriately.

  • Sameer Shroff, Pune

    Mon, Sep 26 2011

    Hey!! Very useful and interesting article! nice artwork:)

  • Swapnil, pune

    Mon, Sep 26 2011

    Impressed, well written:)

  • Joyer Noronha, Kinnigoli

    Sun, Sep 25 2011

    fabulous!!!


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