Beg to Differ, they are Not Different !

Sep 13, 2010

“Haadonda haada beku...adu bahu kaala baala beku…” (sing a song that lives for long) someone was singing in a shrill voice. I turned and saw a small girl of may be about four or five years old, dressed shabbily, with a torn bag on her shoulder. She was standing next to me with her arms open, pleading for some money. Soon she heard the honk of a bus and rushed out.

This happened when I was seven years old. It was my first and most unforgettable encounter with a beggar. She taught me a valuable lesson through those meaningful words.

Who are these beggars?

There are people whose profession is to beg. There are people who, due to circumstances, lose all they have and become people of the street. Begging becomes the only way of procuring their daily bread. There are also people who are forced into begging by selfish, powerful hands.

Quite often, we find them in public places, shabbily dressed, with vulgar language and a pleading face. They are an integral part of today’s society.


Psychology of Beggars

A large number of beggars often suffer from several psychological problems, suggest the studies at Beggars Colony, Bangalore. Naturally, they’ll have to show themselves as abnormal people to get their fill. Thus a beggar tends to harm himself physically, which in turn harms his/her psyche. They lack basic psychological support system. Their need for intimacy, relationships and for human touch is hardly met. Thus they lose control over their own selves, for reasons they can least help.


Physical Condition of Beggars

Beggars suffer from various illnesses due to the unhygienic conditions around them. We can very often see them around public garbages, near crematoriums and near public places of celebrations waiting to take leftovers.
Their food lacks necessary nutrients, as they can’t really plan it. Since their entire focus is on begging, they can hardly focus on their physique. Thus beggars are known to be 'nasty' or 'stinking' people. A great number of beggars breathe their last due to various health reasons.

Humanitarian Level

As a student, I learnt in school that food, shelter and clothing are the three basic needs of a human. Beggars are not secured of all the three. These are people who, unsure of their tomorrow, live for the present.

When a child is born in a family, the first thing the parents think of is the education of that child and how to mould him/her into a successful person. But what happens when a child is born in a family of beggars? They can only think of how to use their child in begging and turn it into another beggar. Is this their fault? In my opinion, the fault lies in the structure of the society. Beggars will never be able to look beyond these structural barriers.

Recently the issue of deaths in Bangalore's Beggars' Colony brought many things to light. ‘They are unjustly treated’ - these words would summarize the whole scenario. But will a beggar ever be able to raise his voice against this injustice? Can he afford a lawyer and fight his battle in the court of law?

These are truly voiceless lives. These are the people who cannot speak for themselves. Even if they do speak, there are no ears patient enough to listen to them.


Do they have Dreams?

“Dream dreams
Dreams turn into thoughts
Thoughts transform into actions”

- said the great Dr APJ Abdul Kalam. May be a beggar can desire to have something but he can never afford to dream to be somebody in today’s society. Dreams are beyond their reach. Their lives are lived for the moment; dreams have no place in such lives. And even if they have dreams, they can hardly hope to fulfil them. Don’t you think such life is hopeless?


Need of the Hour

There is a great difference between giving five rupees to a beggar and treating him on equal terms. What the beggar needs today is a humane treatment from the society - from you and me. A smile, a kind gesture, a loving word above all. Treating him as a human being would do him a world of good.

What we need today is an attitudinal change within ourselves towards these hopeless lives. A societal and communitarian movement would further help in improving their present state. But will it ever be possible in this corrupt, class-minded, highly politicized society of ours?

by Rayan Joel Lobo SJ
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Comment on this article

  • Francis Sunil Lobo, Belman

    Sat, Sep 18 2010

    Dear Rayan Thanks for bringing this realization. Let our good God pour out HIS grace upon your missionery Journey. God bless you and love you, let His face shine upon you and give you peace.

  • john stephen lobo, belman/dubai

    Sat, Sep 18 2010

    Hey brother,nice article...don't stop writing.
    god bless you,i wish you all the best.
    john stephen lobo
    belman/dubai

  • Bulsam, Mangalore

    Fri, Sep 17 2010

    As you said that there are different types of beggars, some genuine one but some are fake. Some beg because they make more money by begging then otherwise. Some beg because they are lazy to work for living. Some beg in style with vehicle, mobile, flat etc and they have ed and rich clientiles. Some beg by exploiting god, again in style. Some are forced to beg by the underworld gang for a meagre salary. Some beg during the situation like festivals, weddings, weekly religious congregation etc. Only few beg with utter necessity to avoid starvation.
    I have a feeling that we should discourage giving alms in public places as that will attract more in such places. Social workers and NGOs should give them an opportunity to make a decent earning by arranging jobs for them. The diseased should be treated, the physically challenge and aged one should be sent to the destitute homes. But keep in mind not to ill-treat them as they are fellow human being.

  • LancyM F SJ, Jeppu

    Fri, Sep 17 2010

    Gud topic chosen to awaken the less awake ones.

  • Judith L, Mumbai

    Thu, Sep 16 2010

    Dear Lydia,
    It is good thought that you want to save the children from begging. The best way is to stop giving money to children and babies so that less will fall a prey to this social crime finally the antisocial elements will stop bringing children into begging when they come to know nobody is giving money. We have to educate every about this duty.

  • Nelson Dsouza, Karkala/Riyadh

    Wed, Sep 15 2010

    Hi Rayan, Good Job sir,you have opened up many sleepy minds..Yes most of the time human mind is so busy & occupied that they rarely think about others.It is a nice gesture from yourself and Madam Lydia that you are going to help the needy..God bless you both and give success in your plan.I wonder if I can be of any help to you in your efforts.contact:nel_son32@hotmail.com

  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Mon, Sep 13 2010

    Sincere apologies Mr. Bhat, for addressing you(r first name) wrongly. Ashok Bhat is how I have stored your contact number.

    Regards.

  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Mon, Sep 13 2010

    Abhishek Bhat,

    Its overwhelming to realize that there someone else too, who feels the way I do. I did mean what I said, I just wish I could envelop all those innocent children within a home and assure them that they don't have to beg anymore nor be afraid of anybody. Well, there is a lot of convincing to do, a lot of priorities and relevant preparations.

    You will surely receive a call from me because I will definitely need help to help.

  • Ashok Bhat, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 13 2010

    Thanks Rayan/Daiji for nice article. Thanks to madam Lydia Lobo for the concern expressed. In last sentence you have mentioned that you want adopt some children only after winning the battle with the kingpins. In this regard, I would like to join with you and will you please provide me such opportunity. My contact no.9845700815 and I am waiting for your call.

  • Anand, Karkala/Dubai

    Mon, Sep 13 2010

    Nice way of presentation by young Rayan and everything is true in its place. There are people who will go wealthless if beggars turned into common persons. I personally have seen one of the well educated ping in the early morning and fixing some places for beggars in the busy streets. In the evening again he picks them up and taking them to their shelter by grabbing all the days earnings and spending that money in gambling and alcohol.
    There was one case I read it some days back, the baggar who had a bank balance of Rs. 13 lacs and something around Rs. 80000/- cash in hand, and his son was doing his Engineering in a reputed college.


  • Judith L, Mumbai

    Mon, Sep 13 2010

    Thanks Rayan for posting this article which is in reality a cause of concern. Child Labour, child begging should also be abolished.There should be a ban on CHILD BEGGING, WHICH IS CRUDEST FORM OF CHILD LABOUR, IN WHICH THE POLICEMEN ALSO GET HAFTAS, where infants and children are either given birth or kidnapped and misused (even maimed) by cruel and heartless people. stop giving money to babies and children. T

    HEY ARE MADE TO BEG IN THE SCORCHING SUN, COLD AND RAINS and THE MONEY COLLECTED BY THEM IS USED BY THE SCOUNDRELS AND IF THEY ARE NOT ABLE TO COLLECT ENOUGH MONEY THEY ARE DONE AWAY WITH. Even, if these children survive somehow the girls go in the flesh trade and boys become thieves or some anti social elements. Only give food, clothing and shelter. better still you may give the money to NGOs, who will rehabilitate the innocent babies and children and finally THE SCOUNDRELS WILL STOP MISUSING INNOCENT CHILDREN FOR THEIR SELFISH GAINS. REMEMBER ALL CHILDREN ARE INNOCENT AND VULNERABLE AND CANNOT FIGHT THE CRUEL WORLD ON THEIR OWN. PLEASE STOP GIVING ALMS TO BABIES AND CHILDREN AND ALSO, TELL YOUR FRIENDS AND RELATIVES WHO IN TURN SHOULD SPREAD THE NEWS. THIS IS THE ONLY WAY WE CAN SAVE OUR INNOCENT CHILDREN. NA RAHENGI BAS NA BAJEGI BASOORI.

  • Jossie D'Mello SJ, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 13 2010

    Thanks Rayan for the thought-provoking, precise article on beggars. It is true that the beggars require food, shelter and clothing. But above all they should be treated as “persons” and not as beggars. Our smile, kind gesture, loving words will reflect that they are accepted and loved. What matters is “HOW” you give rather than “WHAT” you give them. I think Blessed Mother Teresa rightly said: “Being unwanted, unloved, uncared for, forgotten by everybody, I think that is a much greater hunger, a much greater poverty than the person who has nothing to eat”.

  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Mon, Sep 13 2010

    Nice article Rayan, we rarely pause a minute to give a heed to things that happen around us which make no difference to our living. Beggars are one such lot thanks for bringing the matter to the fore.

    There was a time when a child is born in an agricultural household, they rejoiced because the birth brought an additional member to labour in the fields. Education, employment was not at all in the horizon. Time is changed, people do not go for a third child now and each child's future is planned in advance.

    Similarly, will the beggars' society change over the years ? I doubt it because the beggars exist not because they want to but certain kingpins make them as beggars. Most of the begging children are run-away kids, adopted by beggar groups. The govt spends huge amounts to rehabilitate them but the success is minimum. I did try to put wisdom in one/two women about schooling their children the reply is what will the child get in return ? Here at-lest they earn enough for one meal. I may have to adopt all those children only after winning the battle with the kingpins who are otherwise deadly thugs.


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