Madikeri: Harassment by former lover - Young married woman kills self


Daijiworld Media Network - Madikeri (MS)

Madikeri, Jun 25: In a tragic incident reported from the city, a young woman committed suicide due to the continuous harassment of her former lover, even after her marriage.

Divyajyoti (19) is the victim who killed herself in the incident. She is a resident of Madikeri Dairy Farm and had married Brijesh without the knowledge of her parents.

Before getting secretly married to Brijesh, Divyajyoti in love with a guy called Pawan. As her parents were against her having an affair with Pawan, she had broken up with him. After her breakup with Pawan, she had married Brijesh without informing her parents.


Divyajyoti (left) and Pawan

Pawan, who came to know about the secret registered marriage of Divyajyoti, started to harass her. It is alleged that Pawan said to Divyajyoti, "I will not allow you to marry Brijesh. I will see how you are going to live with him after marriage."

Divyajyoti, who could not bear the repeated harassment of Pawan, wrote in the death note that Pawan is torturing her and hung herself.

A case in this regard is registered at the city police station. Both Brijesh and Pawan have been taken into custody.

  

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  • Rita, Germany

    Wed, Jun 26 2019

    Here the girl herself is responsible for her misery.First she started a love affair ,and then overnight married a different man without parents knowledge.Naturally lover is hurt by her adventures.He must have really loved her.Atleast she could go to police as soon as he started stalking and troubling instead of killing herself.Now parents lost their child .they can atleast now file a complaint against him,because of driving her to suecide.she was too young for a early death.Heartfelt sympathy to her family.

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  • Kusuma Kumari Gunji, Nellore

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Love is something that only a person who was in LOVE will understand

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  • Shankar, Mangaluru

    Wed, Jun 26 2019

    What about lust? this is a pure case of lust.
    In love and fun with one person, then marrying another, that too secretly..

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  • Sainik, Mangalore

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Girls should stop dumping guys for a financially strong man.
    If they still do then result is in front of you.
    This time she was not murdered.
    Boys are not at fault always.
    I have seen rich man marrying a maid but never heard of a rich girl marrying poor man.

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  • Lancy, Bantwal

    Wed, Jun 26 2019

    It is true....

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mumbai

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    The way youngsters are indulging in multiple intimate relationships casually, even sometimes continuing affairs with exes after marriage will kill the institution of marriage as has happened in advanced countries!

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mumbai

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Nowadays young guys and gals have absolutely no conscience so they do not feel guilty while changing partners at the drop of a hat, no commitment but for list & temporary enjoyment!

    But, those who are serious and committed to relationship will not tolerate and forget such ditching & can go to any extent to give vent to their but heart!

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  • Shashi Shetty, Santhoor

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Mindless support from the Govt. giving right for the girl or boy to choose their partner at 18 is creating problem. In the most of the family parents are losing control of their children at very young age. especially girls fall prey to some random boys only for sake of a bike ride or a good outing (as their parents have not taken care of them) . This has lead to a too many houses getting destroyed.

    Govt. must bring in a law where parents consent is a must for a Girl or Boy to get married before 25years of age. after 25years any human being is matured enough to guage the risk.

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  • Abdul Jabbar, Mangalore

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Mindless support from the govt ? What is the connection ?

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  • Shashi Shetty, Santhoor

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    if a girl runs away with a wrong man the parents have no say? the govt. has given full freedom for the girl or boy after 18 to decide what they want. I was never able to take a decesion at 18 such as which girl to marry. Cant there be any middle way so that, parents also can decide what their children wants?

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  • readerwriter007, pune

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    tough to write... but looks smart girl... in love with some one.. then ditch him and then fall in love with another... keep everything secret from her parents. secretly marrying him also... then fall in to the trap... it clearly looks like a movie where you are bound to fall in to trouble. Do you think life is so simple you do all these and escape easily... no. jaise karni vaise bharni. now parents lost a daughter... both the guys will forget her and get in to some other girl. That's why we always say , please be careful... don't fall in to any traps ... when it's told youth feel what non-sense... but end up with such tragedies... any ways, we can just say RIP.

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  • Prakash, Mangalore

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    A broken affair and a secret marriage at the age of 19 ? that too without family support ?
    She must be emotionally vulnerable when her ex boyfriend confronted her with some straight questions..

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  • Evans C. Sumitra, Udupi/ New York, USA.

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Prakash. Mangalore,
    Your comments makes some sense.

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  • Evans C. Sumitra, Udupi/ New York, USA.

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    This is not called love but an idiotic love affair. That woman who killed herself did the most stupid thing in her life. This is a lesson for other lovers.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    What is all this?
    That too in a pleasant place like Madikeri??
    It's very strange to comprehend sometimes.... Boys many a times act like there are no other Girls..except the one they love... and Girls many a times have 'multiple choices'...which they choose from alternately... as it suits them....
    It becomes that much complicated then to 'pin' the blame .....
    My advice....
    When 'in love' give it everything... Don't cheat...Don't ditch under any circumstances. Well if your partner does and gives 'Kai' don't brood.
    Be 'in love' again...Don't fall...
    Life is all about Love. Love is everything that is true.
    Never give up on life....

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Biggest problem with present day educated girls is, they think they are able, independent and keep parents away from anything happening. If she had the parents' support, this thing could have been solved easily. If she had brothers, she could have confided with them, some brothers have given their life to save sisters from trouble. Never keep your family away from these things.
    The best feeling in the world is to know that your parents are smiling because of you.

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman / Washington, DC.

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Santan,

    You can take horse to Water...but you cannot force it to drink water...

    RIP Divyajyoti,....

    ...Tak...Takk...

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Langool Saab... Yes..what you said is right..Even Santhan sir commented well specially last line.

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  • Vinod raj, Mangalore

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    ಏನಿದ್ದರೂ ನೀನು ಆತ್ಮಹತ್ಯೆ ಮಾಡಲು ತೀರ್ಮಾನ ಮಾಡಿದ್ದೇ ಆದರೆ ಮೊದಲು ಆ ದುಷ್ಟನಿಗೆ ಒಂದು ಗತಿ ಕಾಣಿಸಿ ಮತ್ತೆ ಏನಾದರೂ ಮಾಡಬೇಕಿತ್ತು

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Though waiting for statement by honorable MP of Udupi..., Is there a possibility of protest by any self proclaimed nationalist organizations..., like.....,

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Reminds me of a 1969 Hindi Movie - Ek Phool Do Mali ...

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  • J P James, Bajpe / Puchall

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Are you born at that time , Please don't comment unwanted thing , pray for her soul , May her soul rest in peace, candle burnt down but memories stay forever,

    J P James
    Bajpe/ Puchall

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    J P James, Bajpe / Puchall
    I was born in 1958 & 'Ek Phool Do Mali' was a big hit with Sanjay Khan & Sadhana ...

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  • J P James, Bajpe / Puchall

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Good , Then you senior citizen , Count your days , May god protect you and keep you in good health ,

    J P James
    Bajpe / Puchall

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    James, please dont comment this way..everyone has to become senior citizen dear.. today he, tomorrow we....Lets be polite in criticizing....we don't have elders in our houses?

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  • Jimmy, Nagapatnam

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    You mean same bangalore based sanjay khan women beater..zeenat aman after in love. Latter on he sustained injuries during shooting of tippu sultan. Whose daughter married to Hrithik Roshan and now abandoned him after having two childrens. Woh purdah hatao...mukadh deekhavo....hum pyaar karne wale hai..koi gyaar nahin..woh majnoon ke naana mere peeche na aana...

    .

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  • Ayub malpe, Bahrain

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    What is wrong in Mr.Jossy s comment. Those not thinking about their parents at once ..! We should pray for parents..@

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  • Jennifer, Mangalore

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    No need to worry Cynthia. I am sure this JP James is proxy !

    Pray to god whoever commented to count the days !!!

    Only god has got authority on mankind
    Man is the creature of god

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Yes Jenn... Very true

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  • saleem, moodbidri/Dubai

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    J P James, Bajpe / Puchall,

    Mr. Jossey Saldanha, says he recap the movie story of 1969, even you can see the movie of 1947 now? Please read his comment properly.

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  • Elsie Saldanha, Kudripadavu/Canada

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    What is wrong in Senior Citizen James?? One day you will be too.

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  • SAMAD, MANGALORE

    Wed, Jun 26 2019

    Lord have mercy on James

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  • Pedro Sam, Mulky

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    How on earth you can be insensitive...born in 1958 and commenting like a ten year old. Please be sensible. Do not post trash.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Pedro Sam, Mulky
    Tell me what was wrong with my Comment ...

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  • Jossey Dsouza, Bajpe / Dubai

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    I don't understand what is the difference in Love and Lover all are same , very bad , one innocent life is gone , I think we must educate all the young couples , In life only one love and that's it, no other internal relationship ,I know people with different name and cheating young girls and run away from the spot and wont come back for some time till that get settle ,we really need educate otherwise we going somewhere, then there is problem like us honest and innocent people wont get any proposal , hope people will understand and stop doing such things for god sack,

    Jossey Dsouza
    Bajpe, Dubai

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  • Nikhil, Mangalore

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Its very confusing, the girl dumped her Ex because of her parents and married another lover secretly. She could have simply married the first lover if her plan was to elope anyways. The girl is mentally not stable. The guy should not be punished severely as girl itself has got him to that place..

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  • RkR, Mangalore/ Dubai

    Tue, Jun 25 2019

    Too much z too more to digest!!

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