Udupi: Elderly mother seeks help after children deceive her of property


Daijiworld Media Network - Udupi (MS/HB)

Udupi, Mar 29: Montin D'Silva (85), a resident of Kallamandkoor village of Niddodi, is left alone to fend for herself by her five children after grabbing her share of the property. Now the elderly woman has approached the Human Rights Foundation of Udupi urging for justice.

Ravindranath Shanbhogue, president of the foundation, said that though there is order that the children have to pay monthly for maintenance, they are not giving the same to their mother. Now the mother says that she does not mind her children not paying her monthly maintenance amount but wants her 2.25 acre of share of the land to be returned to her.

Giving details of the whole episode in the press conference that was held at Vaikunta Baliga Law College in the city on Monday, March 29, Ravindranath said, "Baptist D'Silva, who died in 2006 had left 6.25 acres of land for his family members. Five children were pestering Montin D'Silva for their share of the property. Finally, she consented to give their share. In 2018 itself, she had given a complaint to the senior citizens justice tribunal in this regard.

"Montin’s children were not satisfied with their share of the property. They got the share of their mother transferred to their joint names (partition deeds). The senior citizens' justice board which investigated the matter, ordered all the five children to give Rs 2,000 per month to Montin as monthly maintenance. Though it is two years, none of the children gave the ordered amount to their mother. Three of Montin’s five children of Montinamma have written a letter to the assistant commissioner, who is the president of the justice board and have expressed their inability to pay monthly maintenance to their mother.

"When one of the daughters, who promised to look after Montin did not even give money for medicines, Montin decided that she would sell her share of the property and live. But she was shocked to know that there is no property in her name. Even Montin does not know how her children got her signature. She says that her children have looted the property documents from her. Montin has four daughters and one son (currently having some psychological disorder). The son and one of the daughters is helping Montin to a certain extent.

"At the age of 85, Montin cannot run from pillar to post to get her property back from her children, who have cheated her. If Montin is able to take back the partition deeds from her children, she can get her property back. The foundation has legally helped Montin to submit an appeal to the deputy commissioner of Dakshina Kannada seeking justice. The foundation is dedicated to cooperate with Montin till she gets final justice,” he said.

Montin submitted an appeal to the helpline center of senior citizens at Mangaluru to get her property back as she does not have any other savings or income. She also filed a complaint at the police station in this regard. Children of Montin confessed to all their wrongdoings in the meeting that was held by the police personnel of Pandeshwar police station and officials of senior citizens' helpline on March 31, 2018. They also agreed in writing to return the property belonging to their mother within six months and make RTC.

Helpless and elderly Montin says that she only needs her share of 2.25 acres of land to be given back to her.

 

 

 

 

 

  

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  • ROHAN CRASTO, Agrar, Bantwal

    Tue, Mar 30 2021

    Hats off to you Mr. Ravindranath Shanbhogue Sir for all that you have been doing for the Society. Pls see that those five useless children of Monthibai be accountable and give back her share of property and also monthly maintenance. Dear Monthibai pls do not trust your children in future also and keep them away for the rest of your life.

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  • Raj, Mangalore

    Tue, Mar 30 2021

    "How sharper than a serpent's tooth it is to have a thankless child" King Lear

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  • Gabriel Lewis, Brahmavar

    Tue, Mar 30 2021

    Mr.Shanbhog maam is our hero in Udupi.

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  • Gibbs, Udupi/Kuwait

    Tue, Mar 30 2021

    JUSTICE to be given to the poor old lady by handing her land by DC. Those who cheated her must be punished as per law to set an EXAMPLE for others. She must be taken care by one of her daughters and those who look after her should get their fair share.

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  • Harold Dcunha, Mangalore, India.

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Instead of writing 'Shame to children ' which has no impact, better get up from the comfort zone and try to give a helping hand. At the same time, there is a saying, thou you sow, thou you reap. When she was young mother, what are the values, she has inculcated in the minds of her children. I might be harsh here. But in true sense, if all children are followed the same path of selfishness by grabing the share of their property of their father and discarding their own mother, something drastically wrong here. Hope, she will get a helping hand and also her 1/3rd of the share of property back of her deceased husband.

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  • Gurka, mangaluru

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Shame on you guys ! this will return back to you by your own children !! you people dont think you are immortal ! one day everyone has to go back to the dust and you are not exceptional !!

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  • G Fernandes, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Poor elderly Monthi D'Silva's story is ended-up like KING LEAR's story one of the W Shakespeare's play! This is the wake-up call for every senior parents! What is the point in educating the children??? Even Hon'ble court has given justice to her (Monthie D'silva) then why it is hesitate to take appropriate steps on rule of law offenders?(her children)!

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  • H. Almeida., Bendur/Andheri.

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Truly shocking that children deceive their own parents, in Dakshin Kannada district.. The greed for easy money, is the prime reason for these unforgivable crimes... These distressing scenario is extremely common in my city of Mumbai, across communities Prime immovable properties, jewelry, shares and deposits, are misappropriated and then their aged parents are dumped in various homes for the aged !!!!!

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  • Subhash Chandra, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Good old GOLDEN RULE - Never transfer your will to kids as long as you are alive, it shall be transferred only after death. i feel pity for this poor woman who took care of her children all these years and now they deserted her. if the kids are reading this news remember you won't take wealth with you when you expire you gonna leave everything behind.

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  • Sachidanand Shetty, Mundkur/Dubai

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Having Five children.... forget about looking after their beloved Mother.... can't even give her Rs 2,000 p.m. that also with court order??? Dear Grandma.... you got everything in your life..... Children, Land, Partition & lastly court order too!!! We can't believe that such people also staying in our coastal area!!! Even if you get back your land.... sure they will come back and trouble you till your death I am not your relative nor your Son.... but I can show you alternative way.... Just ask Jesus silently, do I deserve this kind of treatment? and same time also pray with Jesus to keep your all five children "Healthy, Wealthy with good Wisdom" too so that they will realize that their Mother never curse them till the end too

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  • Joshua, Mangalore/Ireland

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Yes grandma Shetty is right Now some of your children will come as a fox in sheep clothing. Don't believe.chase them so that they never dare to come to you. My best idea for you grandma Sell your property and there is a home in kalyanpura namely goretti There there is hospital also care home also. You spend your rest of the days there.

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  • John, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Bible verse for it!... 2 Timothy 3:1-5 “But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people.”

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  • Sahil, Mangaluru

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Third class children just imagine how many times she fed food her Children by golden hands.

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  • Manohar, Udupi

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Very unfortunate. Elderly people have to be made aware of these frauds by anybody through church prorammes.

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  • Joseph, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    I remember about my mother who passed away 2 years ago. She was also looked after well before. As soon as the property devided she was herrassed and tortured and looked like a broken furniture in the house. Warning to all parents Do not trust your children. Sell all your property and stay in a luxurious old age home. Don't believe any children. They are all good until you make the property in their name. May be your children have little mercy but those who come from outside your daughter in law and son in law are very crux. They teach all bad info Excuse me. This is not all there are also good daughter in law and son in law.but very rare. There are many Monthin Bai around but some don't know to approach human rights and some are bedridden

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  • John, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Very true Joseph Give proper education to your children and chase them from home Tell them now go and earn yourself and build house for yourself

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Tue, Mar 30 2021

    Good comments by Mr joseph and Mr. John. After this much happening, on the death of their parents(who mostly die out of tension, hunger without medical care etc) these are the same children who cry loudly, sob, hit their head and sit front keeping hands on the dead body...and show fake love. Children those who look after their parents well, they too cry thats different issue. Whatever, people gather there know what is what...So, as these gentlemen said, whatever income you have, spend on you and live a happy golden life till your death. Mr. John and joseph your comments in this regard is excellent. Parish priest could have taken up the matter to solve this issue instead causing her to run here and there for her survival...

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  • Ganesh, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    We sacrifice everything for our children thinking that their happiness is our happiness. I just wonder now as to how to make our sacrifice known to them. So that they don't take things for granted. I wish to get some tips on this.

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  • Monty Dotor, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Immovable and movable property should pass on to children only after the death of parents through a will.This way children will take good care of their aged parents, may be they will compete with each other to take good care of parents...

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  • francis lobo, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    The best thing for Montibai is to write the property to a builder in Mangalore or Udipi and collect the money from him. Our builders are so expert that they not only take the 2.5 acre land of hers but also the 6-acre land from her children also. No need to go to court or fight

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  • Rita, Germany

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    What a shame.Children forgot their mother either to support or didnt even look back her property too take self.Always it is better parents should divide the property before their end ,or leave back a last will suppose one dies before the other ,to support the living person.So when one dies the other dont suffer.Somehow it shows with all shares of land and money many try to gain the parents wish and promise to look after as here and once the land is in their hand ,promises remain promises,put out the mother or father .They forget they too will come to this stage to depend on children.Thank God here this lady is looked after by two and she will get back her promised land.May God bless the person who helped her

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Put all her 5 Children in Jail for 1 Year ...

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  • Elwyn Goveas, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    When the children were kids gave them the best of best in life.Gave them good education,spiritual knowledge and comfortable life and now this is the way to treat a 85 year old mother.Heart goes out looking at the pictures now look helpless.

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  • Jerry, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    We preach love but what we practice is this. Let us correct our society and then.......

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  • Manohar, Udupi

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    It depends how people perceive love. Greed is also a type of love.

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  • Mera Desh, Bharat

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Taking a good lessons from this and many earlier also.....parents must keep 70% of their property in their name....until last their breath.....after that they must write the Will to give that property to Orphanage. Nowadays children are also not trusted. This dying world is only Materialistic only.

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  • KA DSilva, Dubai

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    Dear Mr. Ravindranath Shanbhogue Sir, you are doing a great work for our society you will get many many blessing of elders Long Live Shanbhogue Mam.

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  • Lawrence, Mangalore

    Mon, Mar 29 2021

    I think the church connected to her area must intervene and get the matter settled amicably till she gets justice.........

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  • Naveen, mangalore

    Tue, Mar 30 2021

    Church is busy colleting donation not bother about poor and needy people.

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