Mangalore: An Aged Mother’s Saga of Caring for Mentally Challenged Offspring


Mangalore: An Aged Mother’s Saga of Caring for Mentally Challenged Offspring   
Daijiworld Media Network—Mangalore (RS/CN)

Mangalore, Nov 4:  It is perhaps the fate of an elderly mother to spend her life caring for four mentally challenged children. The 70-year-old woman refuses to lose faith and hopes that one day someone will help them all. 

Sarojini has spent over four decades looking after three of her children and a grandchild. A small house near Bolor Sulthan Battery is the only asset in her name and even that is being disputed by her own relatives and a court case is on in the matter.

Of her six children, four were born mentally challenged. Her eldest daughter Yogini passed away at the age of 48, while second daughter Yashoda (46), son Jagadeesha (43) and daughter Shobha (42), require her constant care.






 

Her youngest daughter Laxmi died at the age of 19. Her son Raghuveer’s child, who is 13 years of age, is also mentally challenged. 

Raghuveer works in a plywood factory and has to shoulder all the financial responsibilities of his family. Given his limited income, he has difficulty meeting even essential medical expenses. 

He has to resort to borrowing or just go without fulfilling the requirement. 

Sarojini lost her husband 35 years ago and since then she has single-handedly taken care of the whole family which lives in the ancestral house situated on four cents of land. She has spent a lot of money trying to get her children rehabilitated, but there has been no success.

As the years pass, old age is making it hard for her to take up any kind of work. She needs help from others. 

The newspaper ‘Jayakirana’ has contributed three years of rice for the family through its owner Prakash K Pandeswar.

Account details:

Sarojini,
Appi compound
Sulthan Battery Road,
Kallav, Mangalore.
 
Telephone: 0824-6558086
 
Account number- 01872030000964
 
 Ashok Nagar branch, Syndicate bank.  

  

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  • FRANCIS, DUBAI

    Thu, Jan 14 2010

    WE WILL HELP THEM. WE APPEAL TO HELP ALL TO HELP THEM. WE REQUEST DAIJI TO BRING OUT GENUINE CASES IN ORDER WE ALL HELP THEM

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  • Irshad, Mangalore /Doha /Qatar

    Mon, Nov 09 2009

    Dear Daijiworld team, Thanks to you good people for putting forward the needs of people in dire situations. Words of consolation can help only through monetary contribution to needy causes such as these. Let us all contribute we are humans first But it is disappointing & disgusting to see some of Reader's remarks. Again caste etc. Please dont pull religion here. Let us all help them. Dear Daijiworld give us proper bank details

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  • Nawaz/ Al-Qassim, Mangalore

    Sat, Nov 07 2009

    Anitha...... Keep it up........

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  • Dr.Nisar, Mangalore/ London

    Sat, Nov 07 2009

    Great woman! Deserves all help in any shape and form. I will for sure take initiative to do so.

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  • PETER.LIGOURY.SEQUIERA, BALEHONNUR/Kuwait

    Sat, Nov 07 2009

    MAY GOD BLESS YOU,YOUR A GREAT MOTHER,YOU SUFFERED THIS WORLD,BUT GOD GIVE YOU LIFE IN HEAVEN.KEEP IT UP,MRSSAROJINI AMMA

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  • khaleel, mangalore

    Sat, Nov 07 2009

    Great women, May Almighty bless this old woman.

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  • sandhya pravin, udupi

    Sat, Nov 07 2009

    Really she is a great mom like mine.may god give strength to her to look after those disabled children.

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  • Francis Rego, Siddakatte

    Thu, Nov 05 2009

    Heartbreaking story. May Almighy God Bless all, especially to this Mother. But it is disappointing & disgusting to see some of Reader's remarks. Again caste etc etc. If you can help or just shut up. Please dont pull religion here. Let us all help thme.

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  • Mushta, Riyadh

    Thu, Nov 05 2009

    Our social responsibility is provoked by this report. It's time for So called Hindu protectors to show their Hindu developmental program or Hindu support activities to the general public. We are all having mis conception of these Hindu groups as they are anti-peace elements. Instead of fighting for fake things focus your activities into finishing off dowry system, caste system etc..

    Millions of people in our surroundings needs help from the society. Someone may in need of Medicine, Someone may in need of money to pay his debt, some others waiting for their children to be get married and list continues. A great determination from your organisation can change life of millions.

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  • afsal m, mangalore

    Thu, Nov 05 2009

    Perhapes so called BD have to enroll themselves in these kinda community works rather than dictating people how to live thier life ..Hats of to mom .may allah bless the family and bestow all the happiness .

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  • ANITHA, MANGALORE / DUBAI

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    Maa, I pray God to give you good health & strength to look after your children. When I am coming to India I will definetly meet you & I will help you whatever I can.

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  • saveen kumar salian, HOSABETTU/DUBAI

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    HATS OFF YOU "MAA"...YOU ARE THE REAL MOTHER LIKE MY MOM,WHEN I GO VACATION DEFINATELY I WILL COME TO MEET YOU AND TOUCH YOUR FEET...

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  • abdul rahama sulaiman, riyadh/euromarche

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    really very sad.i expect some of orgnisations will help them.also i request daiji readers including me help this mother to maintain the sitiuation. this is what called mother.

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  • Royston, Mangalore/Mumbai

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    Kindly provide the IFSC code if known. I was able to find the following branch details. Kindly verify whether this is correct. Branch ID: 000187 Branch Name: MANGALORE ASHOK NAGAR Branch Address: SRI NIWAS,7-4-461 MATADAKANI ROAD,MANGALORE,,DAKSHINA KANNADA,KARNATAKA,575 006 IFSC code: SYNB0000187

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  • Raghavendra, Manjeshwar / Hyderabad

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    May God give all his strengths to this mother..... She deserves it... Lets help her in all pssible ways we can....

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  • Prashanth, Mangalore/ US

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    Thank you Daijiworld for covering this story and also providing the account numbers fr quick transfers. This is what media should do and Kudos to Daijiworld team and the reporters. I also have a suggestion. I saw a couple of articles like this before but I cannot find it now. If all these kind of articles were grouped into a quick link that would be helpful. And also followups on how these people have been helped of the financial problems if they indeed were would be great too.

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  • naveen, kundapur

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    God bless this family I love them all I thing blessings are good.But should help this family by wealth also how we can help this family thats important I belive through funding them now I have to see how many people are come forward for this.

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  • Sunil Randolf S, Mangalore / Dubai

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    Blessed are you Mother,and thank you Daiji,walty and team.It is now us, mangaloreans' resposibility to take care of our two brothers and two sisters.Let us also not forget this new family of ours after the first initial help.let us remember our new families name in our hearts,so that they will have a better life than this.It is POSSIBLE.

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  • Vijay Deeraj, Bantakal... U.A.E

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    A suburban mother's role is to deliver children obstetrically once, and by care forever after. I Love this Mom..& I am going to meet her..

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  • nelson, mangalore/kuwait

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    Thanx Daiji for bringing forth the plight of this family. God bless you Jayakirana/Prakash.Anyone with a heart will surely help them in any way they possibly can.

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  • Diljyoti,Allahabad,Kinnigoly, Kinnigoly

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    Dear daijiworld kindly publish the IFSC code of Syndicate Bank,Ashoknagar Branch.

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  • Khalil , Bhatkal/Dubai

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    Thanks Daiji.Great!If anybody has a heart he/she should immediately help them.What a brave lady.She deserves the BRAVERY AWARD. Really a sorry state of affair.

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  • jayakirana, bejai

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    thanks to prakash pandeshwar, prop of jayakirana,sir thanks lot for publishing this issue in paper & showed it to dk people. and greatful for donating a rice which survives. as u are coming by making many help for the people who are in difficulties and, poor

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  • godwin, banglore

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    may god bless thier family......

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  • ANAM FIRDAUS, Dubai / Mangalore

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    TAAYIYE DEVARU......AMMA UR PLACERESERVED IN HEAVEN.

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  • madav nayak, udupi

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    It will be dramatic if tears dont roll as you go throught what daiji has published.Hats off guys!!!!! This lady has to be bowed at. A true MOTHER. God bless you always and may God give you a long life cause your children need you.

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  • Rizwan, Mangalore/UAE

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    your a great mother... I heartily salute you madam..

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  • Rahman, Mangalore,Pune

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    This mother reminds me the great Mother Teresa. Please stop sending comments on each other/Sangh Parivar, this is the time to prove ourself by helping this mother. So I request with my dear people to come forward and help her.

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  • Roven DSouza, Mangalore/Abu Dhabi

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    Dear Daijiworld team, Thanks to you good people for putting forward the needs of people in dire situations.This picture is worth a thousand words,as it expresses the sorrow in this poor mother. It is the duty of every human being irrespective of caste,religion or creed to help the widows,orphans & the needy & in doing this we are blessed more.

    Words of consolation can help only through monetary contribution to needy causes such as these. Let us all do our bit & make this world a better place to live in & coexist as one people.

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  • Uday Kumar Kateel , Kateel

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    Dear Mother , It is you who showed the world the Power of Love.. It is your care and blessings which the whole world is enjoying today..

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  • Roweena, Dubai

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    This woman must be blessed with God's grace and patience! Can Daiji World give me the address and contact number for this lady. I would like to visit the family.

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  • Abdul Razak, Panja/Abu Dhabi

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    Very sad story, I appreciate the mother for courage and patience. It is the responsibility of every citizen to help them what ever they can. Instead of fighting each other let all the religious and political people get together to help these ill-fated people.

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  • Dolly Sequeira , Niddle

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    Dear Walty and team! Thank you for bringing forward the needs and facts of people in and around Mangalore. I must salute you all for doing so much for the society. Truly a worthy cause and deserve to be praised. Pictures say more than words!

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  • Ragini Murthy, Mangalore / Mangalore

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    Where are the Bajrang Dal and Sri Ram Sene now? You guys are fit for nothing. You only know to hamper the peace around. If you are a man enough, help these people from our hindu community.

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  • Santosh, India/ dubai

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    Dear Sarojini Maa, you are the real maa,real women,mother of earth, You create and you save the life, Hats up to you,. You living life. Your eyes are saying "I dont want any sympaty,I am doing my duty and im happy with that." ohh you are really great. I will do some small aid from my side, dont leave hope GOD with us.

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  • sudarshan shetty, ganjimut/dubai

    Wed, Nov 04 2009

    Please help upcourse i have already taken the initiative from my side.

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  • Jenifer, Mangalore

    Tue, Nov 03 2009

    Dear BJD Members, I appreciate your efforts to protect the Hindu Religion by stopping conversion but your primary attention is needed here. Without adequate protection, anybody can subject these mentally challenged members of your community to indecent abuse. Once the old monther perishes, they may have to live out of begging.

    Reserve your labour to protect them than wasting away your energy/resources towards those who are able enough to choose the way of life they want to live. Nevertheless, my heartiest sympathies are with the aging mother.

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  • bharath shetty, Kateel-USA

    Tue, Nov 03 2009

    Helping these people equals to service of god...Hope she will get enough strength to sail through

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  • saveen kumar salian, HOSABETTU/DUBAI

    Tue, Nov 03 2009

    Dear all please please help this poor women please...just think about her life that hw she is living with these disabled childrens..

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  • Majindadzi, Zimbabwe

    Tue, Nov 03 2009

    May God bless this old woman.I know and understand the challenges of bringing up people with disablities.

    My heart is with them.If I had the means I would surely help.My heart asks God to find a surrogate mother to these disadvantged people.God is great someone may take over and save these souls.

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