Pope's marriage recipe: 'Please, thanks, sorry'


Vatican City, Feb 15 (AP): Pope Francis offered some Valentine's Day advice Friday for a lasting marriage, telling 25,000 lovebirds that the recipe for success lies in saying three simple words: "Please, thanks and sorry."

Francis told fiancés gathered in St Peter's Square for a special papal date that expressions of courtesy, gratitude and contrition go a long way toward conserving and enhancing love over time.

"Never finish the day without making peace!" he begged them. "Because if you end the day without making peace, what you have inside becomes hard and cold and it becomes harder to make peace the following day."

Francis has on several occasions met with young couples to give them advice before embarking on marriage. The need for such church counseling, both before and after the wedding, is a theme he's expected to elaborate on at a major Vatican meeting on the family in October.

Francis has often lamented how many marriages end in divorce and has blamed such failed relationships on today's prevailing "provisional culture" that makes people unwilling to make lifelong commitments.

Originally the audience was due to be held inside a Vatican auditorium. But the response from soon-to-wed couples to Francis' invitation for a Valentine's Day date was so great, Vatican officials said 25,000 people from 30 countries showed up, that the event was held in the piazza on a perfect, sunny afternoon after weeks of rain.

Francis joked that we all make mistakes and that no one is perfect, "The perfect family doesn't exist, nor the perfect husband nor wife. Let's not even talk about the perfect mother-in-law!"

  

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  • Valerian Dsouza, Udupi/Mumbai

    Sun, Feb 16 2014

    We may think these words are so common and simple.
    But they do have lot of impact.
    Even the simple and easy to say words disappear from our daily life,if we ignore its importance. Pope is aware, so he has reminded us again.
    Thank you dear Pope Francis. Like these simple words, there is great wisdom in your simplicity.

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  • Francis Fernnades, Mangalore/UAE

    Sun, Feb 16 2014

    Pope message if followed then there
    will be no divorce at all.
    Most of the problems will get solved saying ..Please..Thanks ..and sorry.. I agree with papal message. Long live our pope Francis.

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  • Peter Pereira, Nagoya, Japan

    Sat, Feb 15 2014

    Thank you Lord for giving us a very simple, humble, wise, loving and caring Pope.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mapusa

    Sat, Feb 15 2014

    "The perfect family doesn't exist, nor the perfect husband nor wife. Let's not even talk about the perfect mother-in-law!"
    Papa you have hit the nail on the head...

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Sat, Feb 15 2014

    Good Jossu. Good! You should listen
    to Papa often,like all. Then even you will understand.Who says -Miracles don't happen?

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  • Langoolacharya, Belman/Washington,DC

    Sun, Feb 16 2014

    Our buddy Jossey sounded like philosopher....good going...

    ...JH...

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  • Vincent Rodrigues, Katapadi/Bangalore

    Sat, Feb 15 2014

    Really worth to follow the cardinal principles for successful marriage suggested by our Pope.'Please,Thanks and Sorry'.Let us all accept it as a thought for our life and use this recipe for a successful marriage.All the best.Thanq.

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