Udupi: 29-year-old Gulf returnee Arnold D’ Souza commits suicide


Daijiworld Media Network – Udupi (HB/EP)

Udupi, Jun 27: Arnold D’ Souza (29), a resident of Elloor village, Maniyoor reportedly ended his life by hanging at his residence.

He had returned from the Gulf about one year and four months ago, leaving his job and was employed in a canteen in Kaup.

Since lockdown, he was working in a nearby farm.

He went to his bedroom at night on June 26 at 9.30 pm after dinner and was found hanging from the ceiling fan of his room. A case under section 174 CRCP is registered at Padubidri police station in this connection.

 

 

  

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  • John, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Rest In Peace.

    Many suicides due to lack of thought control, self negative thoughts or hopelessness feelings. Simply need to love one's negative or any other worrying thoughts whether financial, relational or of guilt to bring up positivity and surrending them to God. Over the time one is able to overcome them or God would show one way or the other as God is Love - 1 john 4:8 also couple of chapters or more of Bible or Holy Scriptures brings down the anxiety levels also might get new inspirations with regards to the one's problems as divine word itself is God John 1:1

    Suffering, ups and downs are part of life. If one overcomes shame, guilt, depression by doing good things, hardwork and slowly build up anew, it is a greatest achievement in life and in the end one will have satisfaction in life.

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  • Musta AUH, Belthangady

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Dear Modi pls increase the rope prices like fuel hike - may be can save some lives...

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  • Sadiq, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Suicide is not a solution he should listen Mann Ki Bath regularly....

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  • sharon, mlore

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Mann will be in darkness in those stage So mann ki baath will not Work But only God ki bath will Work...Cuz god is our Perfect guider...n as we seek him So will he speak.......

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  • SULEMAN ABDULHAMEED, Al Jubail

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Very sad to hear this news. Communities and friends should be alert in their surrounding to help and look out for such people. God bless all these helpless people.

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  • Antony, Padil

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Smiling face contest conducted by our diocese is good but jobs are not given to our own youngsters. Counselling, seminars and motivational talks are of no help. Feed the hungry or atleast give them jobs.

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  • Wilfred J. Lewis, Matpady-Brahmavar/ New York, USA

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Heartfelt condolences to his beloved family.

    As per the information I have, few religions (faiths) do allow 'Atma-Dahana' (suicide) as ultimum measure to end their life.

    For people of "The Book" viz: Jews, Christians and Muslims suicide is forbidden. Christian etiquette does not permit death by suicide.

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  • G M Hegde, Udupi

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    These r indeed most trying times made worse by pressure of our ambitions & dreams. Appeal to all to just hang in there. Our priority for next 4-6 months has to be getting 3 meals a day & staying protected from COVID. If we can achieve this in itself is a huge achievement. All can give shape to their dreams after 6 months, it is never too late. Just hang in there, you may be more luckier than many others.

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  • Edward, Mumbai

    Mon, Jun 29 2020

    Fully agree with your comments. Our expectation and aim till cure and protection is found is to just be cool, survive without thinking anything.

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  • Victor Alvares, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    High time to have counselling centres or at least a help line. Who knows the intensity of the storms in the victim's mind?

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  • sharon, mlore

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Everything is available just seek God all things will follow............................there is paid also free.......more than counsellors they have to counsell to bring him closer to god that will be better,,,n there is already available ......now many have arised to do selfless works for Jesus just be a part of it n u will have a victory..............amen

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  • Royston Roche, Surathkal

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    May his soul rest in peace. My request to all the youngsters is that there are still a lot of opportunities. When one door closes another opens. The situation is not rosy but at the same time, it is not that bad that this is the end. Please remember your loved ones. Spend time with them. Let us focus on the positive side of our life. Every person is carrying their own cross.  Have faith in god. Let us work together in making this place a better one.

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  • Irene Mendonca, Udupi

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Very sad. May his soul rest in peace peace.

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  • Charles Dsouza, Mudaranagadi/Dubai

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Heartfelt condolence to the family, May his soul rest in peace.

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  • Shan, Udupi

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Depression is the main causes for this type of action. When person is depressed than their family support is make lot of difference but some will blame the depressed person than no option.

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  • H. Almeida., Bendur/Andheri

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    The world is reeling under the spell of Covid19 pandemic, leading to an unprecedented recession !!! Expatriates especially from the middle east nations, are feeling the heat of retrenchment... Dakshin Kannada district has absolutely NIL source of any employment opportunities. Savings gets evaporated leading to despair, depression sets in... The end results are invariably tragic !!!! Arnold rest in eternal peace !!!!!

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  • Moshu, Managlore

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Middle class people hitting the worst due to both sinking economy and covid19.

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  • James Fernandes, Barkur/USA

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    I hope some community leaders, religious leaders, or educationists, hold some seminars, or guidance etc, on how to cope with depression from joblessness caused by corona lockdowns.

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  • Sajaan, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    First of all please dont encourage suicide death and give much publicity to it. It's nothing but a shaitan act. People who do not associate much with god and are alone are doing the same much. It will happen either with person who hold good name and reputation in the society jump into river or person who gained prestige in his acting career and holding sufficient wealth or a person from weaker section who dont want to do hardship to earn money. All are wrong...in respective way. Just ignore them and not to give much importance to it. Otherwise other's also follow the same. After death of actor recently more than 3-4 youngsters taken there life. At least they have think of there family members once...how they live there after. Government should ban news of suicide in social media. Some need publicity even in there death.

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    🙊🙊🙊🙊.....see the disagrees 🙊🙊🙊

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  • sharon, mlore

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Rightly said Sajan.....To honour Lord is to Hate the Evil.......So suicide news must be said like this He has decieved Himself n God,,,or else ppl r getting emotions n doing it atleast to call them innocent after death.....

    We shud say them a Judas followers,,,,,,,even I had strong tendency of suicide now I came out by knowing God more n more...cuz He is Life ..as it is written "Man shall not live by bread alone but by every Word proceed from the mouth of God"....
    So we have to listen n apply words of god for our daily life then everything will be alright.......

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  • Nancy pinto, Katapady

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Dear Vittu Martha voni Sandra Bryan n entire D’souza Fly.

    Our heartfelt condolences to u all and pray the almighty god give u all strength n courage to bear the loss.
    May he Rest In Peace.

    All of us from PINTO FLY.

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  • Rajesh. D., Manglore, Dubai.

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    RIP Arnold

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  • Rita, Germany

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    So hard and sad to hear young man committed suecide.He was I am sure very much depressive because of no proper job and income.One should not let his head hanging .Problems come to humans,and one should atleast confine someone your problems to comeout of your problems.Noone profit from your suecide but parents and family suffer more from it.One should always think one day will come and be better.Pray to God to help you.Dont throw your life simply so.Heartfelt sympathy to his family.Corona has brought more problems to familys.May his soul rest in peace.

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  • SUNNY DSOUZA, MARNIMIKATTE MANGALORE

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    So sad
    Rest in Peace

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  • Prasad, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Second time, please put Deppresion helpline for such news

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  • Prakash, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Rest in peace Arnold, Condolences to his family members.
    Sucide is not a solution. It's difficult to achieve all our dreams but we need to be happy what ever achieved in life.

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  • Ivan, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Whatever is going wrong needs to be dealt with as a society. There is a definitely room for change. Now is the time to pay attention to human experiences (what is going on with a person) rather than what society demands. Social media, ease of communication needs to be used extensively to bring change....Lets do it together.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Sat, Jun 27 2020

    All along I was saying something is terribly going wrong.
    Rest in Peace Arnold ...

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Sat, Jun 27 2020

    May the departed soul of Arnold rest in peace... Amen. Condolences to his bereaved family...

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  • Sajaan, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Terribly going wrong once should visit hospitals where in how people struggling day and night to survive and try to live on this earth for few more days. Many are even successful after there much efforts. Arnold was just 29. Blaming on surroundings every time will not be helpful. Determination in mind should be there even during pain period. Always look poor people how they live..each and every day.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Sajaan, Mangalore
    Unplanned Demonetization, GST & Lockdown has crippled the Nation.
    I'm not blaming anybody because only the Educated can be Blamed ...

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  • Shankar, Mangaluru

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    I totally agree with you.
    Dreams should be big. Patience and hard work are the main capital to realize the dreams. But one should not live a life of his dreams until he achieves it.That leads to disaster.
    Rest in peace Arnold. May your family members garner enough strength to bear with the loss.

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Sajaaan.... Very true... It makes sense...

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Bangalore

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Sajaan
    What you said is okay for a person who is in a normal condition. But, depression affects the ability to feel, think, and handle daily activities. The man who is in depression feels a heavy load on his head which he cannot carry. He is passing through sleepless nights and feels something in himself which he cannot describe. Though women feel more prone to suicide under these condition, statistics show men are dying more by suicide because they use more lethal methods.

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  • Rathan, Mangalore

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Jossy
    Why you forgot to tell the year in which something is terribly wrong started?

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  • Ronald D, Udupi

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Bhakthas used to supporting the wrong despite being majority! And blaming great grandpa for all today's misery.

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  • Chandu, Karla

    Sun, Jun 28 2020

    Here one young life is lost for the reasons unknown and family is in mourning .........what year you are talking about...is it some one's birth year....????
    Stop cooking your political food.......!!! Remember what you give comes back to you.

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