Mangalore: 12 Beary Couples Enter Wedlock in Mass Marriage


Daijiworld Media Network – Mangalore (NR)
Pics by Ahmed Anwar

Mangalore, Jan 21: The wedding of twelve couples belonging to under-privileged families was solemnised as per Muslim traditions at a mass marriage ceremony organized by the Beary's Welfare Forum (BWF), Abu Dhabi at Shaadi Mahal here on Sunday, January 20.





Giving a brief background about the forum, BWF president Mohammed Ali Uchil informed that BWF is an association of the Beary community originally hailing from coastal Karnataka, though now most of them have settled in Abu Dhabi. The forum undertakes projects aimed at uplifting the community in the region of its origin.

Condemning the dowry system as a bane on society, Uchil said that due to the dowry system which is still widely prevalent in  society, many poor parents were unable to find worthy suitors for their daughters. In this context, he promised that the Beary association would do its best to assist such families to get their daughters married.  






According to Uchil, their aim was to eradicate the menace of dowry system from the Beary community. "By organizing this mass marriage function, we would like to set an example for the rest of our community", he declared staunchly. He also said that they have taken it up as a challenge to erase this custom that has crept into  the community. "The girls who were married off on Sunday were either destitute or from extremely poor families," he pointed out.   

In order to control the marriage budget, the marriage expenses and the menu were kept simple. However, the badam milk, ghee rice, mutton curry and dal made the feast quite delectable. Each couple was allowed to invite a maximum of 100 guests.  “We wanted to minimise expenses and save money for the couples. They have been gifted with some money and gold ornaments,” Uchil informed.

Former Kannur University chancellor Prof M Abdul Rehman, president of Kendra Beary Sahitya Parishat (KBSP) M B Abdul Rehman, former MLA K M Ibrahim, former Ullal MLA U T Khader, B Ibrahim, and Ahmed Moideen were present at the mass marriage function.

  

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  • Abdulla Madumoole, General Secretary, BWF, Abu Dhabi

    Thu, Jan 24 2008

    First of all I thank, on behalf of BWF,the entire Daijiworld team for the beautiful coverage of our Mass Marriage program.Also, I thank all the readers who have expressed their appreciation and take note of their suggestions.

    I am afraid, the message we wanted to convey to the society through our mass marriage program has not been passed on properly.Therefore,I would like to list the purposes of our program below:

    1.Of course, helping poor and aged girls
    2.Opposing dowry system and encouraging simple marriages
    3.Encouraging rich people to undertake similar programs to help under priviliged sections of our society 4.Fulfilling our social responsibilty as mandated by the Quran and guided by our Prophet (PBUH) and also alerting the Muslim society that evey one has social obligations, for all the social problems society is also responsible. Thanks again. - Abdulla Madumoole

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  • Siddick, Kaup

    Tue, Jan 22 2008

    Best Coverage

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  • Uppinangadi Rasheed, Uppinangadi

    Tue, Jan 22 2008

    I really appreciate BWF's efforts and request to utilize its resources to do some more creative steps to dispel myths and misperceptions about Muslims as extremists especially in coastal media outlets and liberate Muslims from their misery and uplift them socially, educationally and economically.

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  • Abdul Sathar, Uchil-Mangalore/Abu Dhabi

    Tue, Jan 22 2008

    Congratulations…., on the gracious occasion organized by Bearys Welfare Forum - Abu Dhabi. Dowry system is a social menace which can be eradicated by collective efforts. Nowadays marriage has become a show of wealth for riches and burden for the poor.

    In this juncture BWF took a challenge which unveiled chord of humanity and set an example against social stigma like dowry system. I would like to congratulate office bearers of the forum who work hard and contributors who support generously to make this event successful. God bless all of them and encourage more people to conduct such events.

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  • ASHRAF ALI, JUBAIL/UJIRE

    Tue, Jan 22 2008

    Dowry is a real menace to the society. And for every Muslim Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of God be upon him) is the example and he should be our model. The prophet (peace and blessings of God be upon him) taught us that a man should give bridal money to the girl’s parent at the time of marriage and here in our community the custom prevails over religion.

    If every Muslim understands his religion properly and follows it then there is no need for any organizations to conduct such ceremony. The Holy Qur’an clearly says: “And give to the women (whom you marry) their Mahr (obligatory bridal-money given by the husband to his wife at the time of marriage) with a good heart, but if they, of their own good pleasure, remit any part of it to you, take it, and enjoy it without fear of any harm (as God has made it lawful)” (Qur’an 4:4).

    This bridal money is to be given to one’s wife at the time of marriage, of which the girl would give to her parents who have brought her up. I hope the evil practice of dowry system which continues existing in our society will be eradicated by the educated young generation.

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  • Raja mohamed, Abu Dhabi

    Mon, Jan 21 2008

    Congratulations & well done.

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  • P.A.Shanu, Mangalore

    Tue, Jan 22 2008

    It was indeed a grand venture , The association from Abu Dhabi worked so immensely and sincerely for the underprevilaged of the community. Hats off to them and wishing them every success in the future. May God bless them and provide them more dtrength and courage for many more such activities.

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