41 years after being adopted, woman returns from Sweden to see biological mother


Mumbai, Jun 14 (PTI): It was an emotional moment for Nilakshi Elizabeth Jorendal, the India-born Swedish national, as she met her ailing biological mother in Yavatmal.

Nilakshi (44), who was adopted by a Swedish couple when she was a three-year-old, had managed to trace her biological mother through Anjali Pawar of Pune-based NGO - Against Child Trafficking.

"It was an emotional reunion on Saturday at the government hospital in Yavatmal. The mother-daughter duo broke into tears," Pawar told PTI.

"Nilakshi, who was on a mission to trace her biological parents, had met her mother briefly earlier but this was a more elaborate, public reunion," she said.

Nilakshi's biological father, a farm labourer, had committed suicide in 1973, the year she was born at Pandita Ramabai Mukti Missions shelter-and-adoption home in Kedgaon near Pune.

Nilakshi's mother had left her there and later remarried and has a son and daughter from the second marriage. They too were present at the hospital on Saturday, Pawar said.

The centre gave Nilakshi in adoption to a Swedish couple in 1976.

"Nilakshi had been visiting India since 1990 to trace her biological mother. She visited India six times for this," Pawar said.

Both the mother and daughter suffer from thalassemia, she said, adding, "During the meeting on Saturday, she assured her biological mothers kin of all help in her treatment."

  

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  • G M Hegde, Udupi

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    Mutts and religious institutions with millions and millions of dollars at their disposal and we have to give away our children to foriegners for adoption. Even government draws millions of rupees from temples through muzurai department. Shame on us. At least let the govt. form military orphanages and schools where parents can give up their children for the country and orphans can grow up to serve the country and motherland. What a shame. Sometimes i am ashamed of the form of democracy we follow.

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  • Beowulf, mangalore

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    G M Hegde,

    What an idiotic comment. What is wrong with orphans being adopted by foreigners? Such type of thinking is why I despise nationalist.

    Let me ask you, how many orphans have you adopted? If the answer is none then you are a hypocrite. You yourself cant practice what you preach and then you blame govt and temples for not taking care of orphans.

    Dont you think that Nilakshi has a better life now than she would have ever had if she was left in an orphanage?

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  • kevin fernandes, MUMBAI

    Sat, Jun 17 2017

    Very correct Mr Beowolf. Neelakshi has bright future now.

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  • Vantage Point, Mangalore

    Wed, Jun 14 2017

    Be grateful to your Swedish caretaker... Your real mother had abandoned you

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  • John Tauro, M'luru / Kwt

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    Real mother did not abandon her. Circumstances forced her to handover her child to the NGO following the tragic death of her husband and her inability to look after her daughter.

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  • Gintoki Sakata, Japan

    Wed, Jun 14 2017

    There are two kinds of people. One who seeks revenge and one who moves on. The child was of the latter and some, like you are are of the former. Its all in ones perspective of how one sees things.
    Situations make us do things which we would never dream of.
    What if you were the mother of the child and were facing that very similar situation as she had?
    Moreover, this was in 1970s when the Indian Economy was in pathetic condition.
    What she did on that situation would have been the most sensible thing. Giving up her daughter for adoption and giving that daughter a new life. This was the time when single mothers were judged harshly and India was extremely orthodox in nature(Which has significantly reduced now compared to the 70s)
    Before using the term "Abandoned" try to get a feel of the stiuation and the circumstances. I really dont think NOT MARRYING would have been an option back then and if my assumption is right, she would have been a burden to her own family members and the family of the one who commited suicide must have been debt ridden to take that extreme step which only leads to remarriage.
    This part is just a hypothesis. The hypothesis needs verification. Hypothesis is on the fact that her First husband was a "Farm LABOURER" and not someone who owns a farm land :)

    Assuming she had that child with her post remarriage, do you think it would have been any better?
    What if her prospective husband was partial towards that child? There would have been high chances of a failed marriage and an abusive husband.
    Sometimes you just have to do what seems right to you even if the public at large has a different view than yourself. Afterall, even if millions support stupidity doesnt necessarily mean that you have to follow them :)

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  • Wilson K B, Kundapura Hanglauru

    Wed, Jun 14 2017

    May bless this woman who is looking after mother

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Wed, Jun 14 2017

    After a long time I felt nice ...

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  • Chris, Tel Aviv

    Wed, Jun 14 2017

    Drama overdose , this lady should be grateful to those Swedish couple for giving her a new life ,when her own biological mother abandoned her. In my view she is no longer her mother .

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  • Alfred Dsouza, Bendur MANAGALORE

    Wed, Jun 14 2017

    It was never said that her mother abandoned her. She was offered to the orphanage - perhaps the mother had no means of earning; By all means she should be grateful to Swedish adoptive parents. I AM SURE SHE IS.

    Let's not jump to conclusion and make a different story. What we should see here is the Daughter wanted to see her biological mother; and the biological mother did not refuse to see her. This could be the testimony that she did not abandon her intentionally.

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  • Indian, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    Daughter knows how she feels from within and she doesn't have to bother about what people of the X-gen think.

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  • Vinod, Mangalore

    Thu, Jun 15 2017

    A mother is a mother. How would we know the void in the child having separated from her biological mother. We cannot measure it. How do we know the psychological trauma she might have gone through when she was a kid. Did she say she is not blessed to have her Swedish foster parents? How can we be judgmental. We just should be thankful that all are safe.

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  • VM, Udupi

    Wed, Jun 14 2017

    Eyes are wet here.

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  • Shankara, udupi

    Wed, Jun 14 2017

    Karchip boda...

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  • suhana safar, Belampalli/Nandikoor

    Wed, Jun 14 2017

    whatever the poverty..children's feel safe and happy in the hands of there own parents. here also at last nilakshi felt the same.
    by money nobody going to buy anything.
    swiss caretakers provided information is one more plus point and NGO who sort out the matter should be appreciated.
    mother- daughter duo's happines of meeting cannot be justified at all.
    kitne yug beeth gaye hai..god bless them..

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