Fujairah: Husband being too much affectionate - UAE woman seeks divorce


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Fujairah, Aug 23: Sharia court in Fujairah witnessed a strange divorce case, in which, the wife sought divorce because the husband loves her a lot and never argues with her. Reportedly, the husband loves his wife passionately and he also does all the house chores such as cooking, cleaning and sweeping. The wife, on the other hand, felt it as too much of affection and now wants to divorce him. 

As per Khaleej Times report, the wife filed divorce in the court stating that his love was too much for her to bear. 

The woman, a Gulf national, told the court that her husband never yelled at her or turned her down. "I was choked by extreme love and affection. He even helped me clean the house. He sometimes cooked for me and there were no disputes in our year-long marriage,” she said, as per Khaleej Times. 


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In the complaint she stated that she expected a dispute at least for a day, but that was impossible for her husband who always forgave her and showered her with gifts. 

While referring her life to be a ‘hell’ because of his over-kindness, the woman said, "I need a real discussion, even an argument, not this hassle-free life of obedience," 

Meanwhile, the husband said he did not do anything wrong and wished to be a perfect and kind husband. 

The man said he even reduced his weight when she complained about it. For that, he went through a strict diet and exercised to get back in shape that even caused a fracture in the leg. He also requested the court to ask his wife to withdraw the case. 

The court, by giving the couple a chance at reconciliation, ordered the adjournment of the case by stating that it is not fair to judge a marriage from the first year. 

  

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  • Sunil Pinto, Dubai/ Udupi

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    There is more to it than meets the eye....both are not stupid....Maybe husband and wife were not having regular conjugal relationship and he was replacing it with overwhelming kindness and obedience to her...thinking she will forgive him for not fulfilling his husband duties...

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  • Evans C. Sumitra, Udupi/ New York, USA.

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    This woman is the most stupid of stupidest woman on earth. She must be having something else in her idiotic mind to divorce such a home loving husband.

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  • habeeb, UDUPI

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Its common in Arab culture. The wife feel like slave, The money does everything they wish. Nothing else.

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  • MM, Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Why you scared of posting your comments on genuine ID H. Almeida., Bendur/Andheri .

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  • Kumari, Karkala

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Lady must be born & bought up in a abused family so she thinks thats the way of lifel and she must be got adjusted to that. she never experienced a lovabale family life. Strange

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  • Dan M, Dubai / Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Our Lady on effects of abuses and how to overcome them

    July 14, 2019

    Message to Enoch.

    Pray with my Holy Rosary for all the sexually abused minors in the world

    "My Beloved Little Children, may the Peace of my Lord inundate your hearts and my Motherly Love and Protection, accompany you always.

    Little children, child abuse is on the rise, my children are being sexually abused, from their most tender age. Many heartless parents, stepfathers and family members are the ones who abuse in greater number; the spirit of impurity of sexual abuse of minors is destroying the innocence and the dreams of my infants, leaving traumas for life in them.

    A sexually abused minor turns tomorrow into another abuser, or sexual impure: homosexual, lesbian, or prostitute. The abused minors lose their self-esteem, their confidence and grow with hatred, resentment and vengeance, against the person or the people who abused them. A sexually abused minor falls into depression, into doubt, fear, anxiety, into isolation and identity crisis, which can take him to (commit) suicide. The trauma from sexual abuse is only healed with forgiveness and with the prayer of inner healing. The adults who have been sexually abused in their childhood must take refuge in my Immaculate Heart and must consecrate themselves to It, so that they can find peace and healing. My Holy Rosary in the Sorrowful Mysteries and the Rosary of the Most Precious Blood and Wounds of my Son, are powerful remedies to free the wounded and battered heart of my abused minors.

    Little children, pray with my Holy Rosary for all the sexually abused minors in the world; seek my Holy Intercession for them, so that they may forgive, forgive themselves, and thus heal themselves from their trauma. Little children, who have been abused, ask Me to heal you interiorly; pray my Rosary of Inner Healing, with the Luminous Mysteries and ask for the healing of the trauma of sexual abuse, which is in the child within you. If you do it with faith and perseverance, you will attain healing. Consecrate yourselves to my Immaculate Heart, my abused children, and you will find in it, refuge, peace and consolation, for your tormented heart.

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  • Krishna, Udupi

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    umbena suru aand marre....

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  • Dan M, Dubai / Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Our Lady on secrets of many solutions to mankind's woes, specially marriage so to avoid natural disasters.

    January 1, 2019

    Solemnity of Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of God

    The Blessed Virgin Mary says: "Praise be to Jesus."

    "Dear children, today, I invite you to spend the New Year united to God's Will by living in Holy Love. Do not allow the passage of time to be your enemy. Use the present moment as your pulpit to spread the Message of Holy Love."

    "The coming year holds both victory and defeat. The war against righteous morals will wage on. Marriage will continue to be under attack. Gender will continue as a focal point of contention. More and more, moral issues will be the battleground of Satan's choice. Expect the unexpected in Church and world politics, as Satan's influence spreads in the deceit of many hearts. The disrespect for life from conception to natural death will continue to cause violence and the depletion of God's choicest creations, which would have held the secrets of many solutions to mankind's woes."

    "My rosary is the weapon of choice against all evil. It is by merit of the rosary much that is hidden in hearts will be brought to light."

    "You can expect unprecedented natural disasters in unprecedented places. People will continue to overlook God's Grace as a solution and will continue to trust only in human effort."

    "In the midst of all I am describing to you is My Motherly Call to come into My Immaculate Heart, for guidance and protection await you herein. You can find My Heart accessible by virtue of the Holy Love in your own heart."

    "I will defend good and destroy Satan's agenda if you stay close to Me through the rosary. Dear children, be careful how you walk. Pray for wisdom."

    Read Ephesians 5:15-17+

    Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise men but as wise, making the most of the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Will of the Lord is.

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  • Raj Shetty, Mangalore/Dubai

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    @Krishna..u r so funny.. andh ye.. ini kode copy-paste malthunda kelsa aand.. aven follow malthijindala malleji..:D

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  • Dan M, Dubai / Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    God The Father on why messages and disobedience.

    February 15, 2019
    Public


    Once again, I (Maureen) see a Great Flame that I have come to know as the Heart of God the Father. He says: "Children, each time I come to you with these Messages,* I come in My Omnipotence with every good and all My Power. I come to teach, to guide and to love all My children. I am the Father of all generations. I am the source of all miracles. I can transform the ordinary into the miraculous. I use the natural world to display My Power and My Presence."

    "I choose these times to speak to this generation through the Flame of My Heart. I come to burn away evil where it lies hidden and to conquer disbelief. I come to bring light to darkness."

    "Because of the show of My Strength, there is much persecution against this Mission,** this site*** and these Messages. Friends have turned foe. Challenges are always present. But, if you believe in My Power, you will be stronger than any enemy. You must forgive your enemies. Do not dwell on their attacks, for then the enemy still holds power over you. I come to assist all of you in being consumed in Holy Love. I come to burn away all iniquity. I am the Eternal Flame of Divine Love. I am the Light."

    * The Messages of Holy and Divine Love at Maranatha Spring and Shrine.
    ** The ecumenical Mission of Holy and Divine Love at Maranatha Spring and Shrine.
    ** The apparition site of Maranatha Spring and Shrine.

    Read Ephesians 5:6-13+ on disobedience.

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  • Dan M, Dubai / Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    PRAYER OF INTERIOR HEALING, TO HEAL TRAUMAS OF CHILDHOOD CAUSED BY ABUSES.

    Given by Our Lady to Enoch.
    July 14, 2019


    OH Mary Help of Christians, in your Heart my Beloved Mother, I place my tormented heart. Give me the Grace, My Mother, to forgive those who hurt me in my childhood adolescence and youth. (Names of people to forgive) Deliver me from myself and help me forgive myself, so that I may receive the Grace of your Inner Healing. Amen.

    Prayer of Consecration to the Virgin

    Oh my Lady! Oh my Mother! I offer myself entirely to You. And in proof of my filial affection, I consecrate to thee on this day, my eyes, my ears, my tongue, my heart; in a word my whole being. Since I am all yours Oh Mother of goodness, keep me and defend me as your belonging and possession. Amen.

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  • Mann, Bangalore

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Somebody told me that we live in post truth and post humanity era . This kind of lady should be given divorce and handed over to some rowdy who can make her understand meaning of life . It is beyond ridiculous.
    I guess they should reconcile and this guy should slap her every morning then she would have no further complaints.

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  • Kevin Fernandes, Mumbai

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Saab tappad se darr nahi lagta. Pyaar se Darr lagta hai...

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  • Vishu, Udupi

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Too much is too bad !

    Back fired .....

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  • Rita, Germany

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    She must have got bored from only one way traffic.she couldnt even argue with him.Naturally he loved her from his way,not hers. In such cases better go apart. Both should be a bit matured enough to lead a married life.

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  • Vishu, Udupi

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Exactly madam....

    Read some time back some where in Switzerland people use to suicide only because they do not have any tensions, nothing to bother etc - I don't know for what extent that news was true !

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    The word "nothing" itself tension and boredom for them Vishnu... If no tension how the thought of suicide erupts tell me. There are so so many things around you to do... Only should have the concern for one another and humanity should prevail in them to do so... Nothing is zero...

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  • Sylvester Rego, Madanthyar/Dubai

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    As a rule man is a fool ! When it is cold he wants it hot !!
    And when it is hot he wants it cold !!!

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Really a stupid lady... Instead of worshipping him like a god... He forgives her everytime and helps her.. loves her unconditionally... Great person ...big salute for him.. She needs disputes/discussions/arguments/good figure and now divorce... Shame on this egoistic woman... Instead of making the house a "heaven"...she made it a hell.. Stupid lady got fed up just within a year!!! Oops.. I don't understand why brain function in this way... In this modern world good things difficult to obtain and good things happen, we kick them...what has happened to our generation??

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  • Evans C. Sumitra, Udupi/ New York, USA.

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Cynthia Kirem, What a mind-blowing comment which I hope most women will understand.

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  • Sunil K, Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    "worshipping him like a god" eh ? isn't that a bit too far ?

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Yes... For sure... We worship unseen god.. When god's qualities are seen in a human being I mean in a person with whom you have to spend your whole life... why can't look after him like god?? "ಪತಿ ದೇವರು" God's own image he is!

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Sunil, Yes, it is. Let us assume as patidev.

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  • H. Almeida., Bendur/Andheri

    Fri, Aug 23 2019

    I am neither shocked nor surprised, by this strange episode, portrayed by a Middle Eastern lady...... In the Arabic world, Polygamy is accepted as unconditionally, permissible in Islam !!!!! Women are ingrained, in visualizing their husband, with multiple wives, concubines and even sex slaves !!!!! This Arab man, showering love, affection and loyalty, must have unsettled her medieval upbringing and upset her sensibilities.... Her husband antics, were weird and eccentric, he was not worthy, of being a normal man, in their society...... In our nation too, many individuals, try and inculcate, their beliefs, customs and values... hence their insane, opposition to the recent, Anti Talak legislation in Parliament !!!!!!

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  • MM, Mangalore

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Looks you have made PhD over concocted stories against your enemies.

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  • Dan M, Dubai / Mangalore

    Fri, Aug 23 2019

    Marriage is a union, adjustment not confrontment. Usually God puts just opposite attitudes to judge how good are you at or deal with your lifetime partner. If one is weak in one area their partner usually strong in that area, so there is a balance. One will have to make the marriage and not to break it.

    Now in this case who passed and who failed in the life's exam ?

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  • AMAR NATHAL, MANGALORE

    Fri, Aug 23 2019

    We have heard many cases about nuts. This is where its all loose.

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  • netizen, Mangaluru

    Fri, Aug 23 2019

    Her screws, nuts and bolts need to be tightened.

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  • Ahmed K. C., Mangalore

    Fri, Aug 23 2019

    It's always bad to be too good.

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, India

    Fri, Aug 23 2019

    A very weird reason to go for divorce . She might not be thinking fit together with so much kind , caring and loving husband , because he is far better than her . She may be in inferiority complex ,which has led her to divorce . Anyways ,this is a subject to study . It's explores the new avenues for research

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  • Bharat, Mulki

    Fri, Aug 23 2019

    Being too much orthodox reason behind it hurt womens the most. Such people always revolve around contents in Holy Book and try to apply in there day to day life. Modern womens like straight forward nature person very much and not dramabazi.Unnatural behaviour nobody likes it. Give freedom and responsibilty to others and dont interfere in it. It's not called showering of love...but some sort of disease of afraidness.

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  • Ahmed, Bangalore

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    You first learn what is love, affectionate and kindness. Since you may not be doing it or doesn't know what it is doesn't mean you point fingers at others. The lady is unworthy to such a man, the man deserves the best. There are so many other women who die to have such husband. By the way just to inform you, the lady didn't complain that her husband is orthodox or religious. Simply don't bring any negativity for each and every comment of yours.

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  • Roshan, Hubli

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    Where is the subject of holy book and orthodox came here? Looks like you have a built-in negative feeling toward a particular religion.

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, India

    Fri, Aug 23 2019

    A very weird reason to go for divorce . She might not be thinking fit together with so much kind , caring and loving husband , because he is far better than her . She may be in inferiority complex ,which has led her to divorce . Anyways ,this is a subject to study . It's explores the new avenues for research

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Nashville

    Fri, Aug 23 2019

    He should have Abandoned ...

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  • Shankar, Mangaluru

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    He loves his wife unlike you.

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  • Krishna, Udupi

    Sat, Aug 24 2019

    i heard some people send their daughter to USA for study and they Abandoned there after use....

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