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Friday, July 12, 2013 9:34:01 AM (IST)  

Puttur: Facebook affair leaves youth broke and broken-hearted

Puttur: Facebook affair leaves youth broke and broken-hearted

Daijiworld Media Network – Puttur (SP)

Puttur, Jul 12: Ravi is a youth from Nelamangala near Bangalore, and his habit of chatting on facebook has proved to be a lifetime curse for him. He is skilled at doing electrician’s work, and owns a truck, which has been hired to a friend.

Ravi, who chatted on facebook during spare time, came across a girl who said she was from Puttur, working for a private firm at Bommanahalli near Bangalore, about three years back.  Although they never saw each other, the relationship between them was cemented as they chatted over weeks and months. Ravi, it is said, grew a strong affinity towards her, and over time, felt it impossible to live without her. Having been too fond of her, he also remitted money to her account as when she requested. During the period since he got to know this girl through facebook, Ravi claims, he has remitted nearly Rs 14 lac to her account.

Ravi, who tried to commit suicide by the roadside at Nelyady in the taluk a few days ago, was admitted into a hospital in Puttur. Seeing his condition, someone had called 108 ambulance service, which in turn, brought him to the hospital here. When questioned about the reason for ending his life, he said he is unemployed now, and had failed to bag a job. “I had visited Mangalore and stayed in a friend’s room. But there too I did not get a proper job. I boarded a bus to Bangalore. When I got down at Uppinangady, the bus went away. I did not have money to go home, and therefore decided to commit suicide,” he explained.

When asked as to whether he had come here to search for the girl he came to know on facebook, Ravi concurred that is also a reason. “I spent lot of money for her, even neglected to look after my own mother during her old age. I also lost a decent job I had. Even now I am not sure as to where the girl hails from. The girl succeeded in mesmerizing me through her sweet words and make me spend whatever I had. Now, I find my life unbearable. Because of this, I made an effort to end my life. No one should fall in love with someone introduction on facebook,” Ravi said with tears rolling down his eyes.

Ravi is out of danger now. But his painful experience has come as a warning bell to those who are proceeding on this path, to restrain themselves from falling into this trap. While social websites do provide fun and new friends, their advantages end once you go beyond and emotions, empathy, love, etc make you blind and numb your brain.



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Comments on this article
Evans Christopher Sumitra, Udupi/Dubai/New York,USA.
Sunday, July 14, 2013

Ravi, you are the most stupid and foolish man on earth to get friendly to an unknown girl on Facebook and remitting in lakhs to her account. A dumb idea and you deserve it. I could only say you are girl crazy. Even now you can track her down through the bank account. Sometimes I feel your story is not true.

Tom, Dubai
Saturday, July 13, 2013

Face book is really a "F.A.K.E B.O.O.K". Guys do not waste your precious time on face book you won't get any thing. Do some charity work, spend time with your loved ones, concentrate on routine work. The friendship that on face book is not real. Many people do not know who is his face book friend. Hence do not believe it, as it is only show off.

Ayes P., Mangalore/KSA
Saturday, July 13, 2013

Just we can call him only FOOL thats it no other words for him. Readers do not show any sympathy towards him. 'uppu tindavanu neeru kudiyale beku' This is the lesson for others

Pinto, Mlore
Saturday, July 13, 2013

ADAM HAD NO CHOICE...
LATER ADAM HAD NO VOICE.
HE SAW EVE FACE TO FACE
SO LIFE WAS NOT A DISGRACE.

Rita, Germany
Saturday, July 13, 2013

they say every dog has its day and its with us also the same however careful youare oneday you willbe cheated or Forget your Prinzip. mostly when its one falls in love. and there are People wait for such chances when they come to know you can get some from this Person and they try till he gets bankrott.there are cases they even take credit and Finanz them at last to know that it was not a Girl/ Boy but a nigarian Connection or a Person calls through Callcenter who you never come to see the face.last it Ends like this Young man.very sad hope he learnt a lesson and fall in love with asincere Girl.

jaya, doha
Saturday, July 13, 2013

Master minded girl, according to bank account number, he can find her with police help ... i hope bank will keep her all details, it will be very easy to reach her.

R.Bhandarkar, M'lore
Friday, July 12, 2013

'Mone Tojpaavande EEth!'
Bokadaa Yenle!!
Onthe 'Kashtaa' Aapuja??

sundari ashoknagar, Mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

Ravi panda Surya. Ratri toothina guveld pagelid boorde. Bajii badda.
Appena dukha boda? Nana buddi barad.

jeetendra hegde, mumbai
Friday, July 12, 2013

poor guy..,he should file a case against Facebook for making him Rs 14 lakhs poorer....hheheh

Blaan Mendonca, USA
Friday, July 12, 2013

Internet love is not real but it is virtual as people who fall in love through internet cannot love in real life but they can only love on internet.

ummar, udupi / dubai
Friday, July 12, 2013

he is not only a stupid he is big idiot too. there are lot of cheaters in this world.
Beware to making friends through social media

Jacobnelson, Bejai
Friday, July 12, 2013

Abdu, Mangalore/Doha

Not strange Girl.
Stray....

Let him go to bank and find out whose account he transferred funds?

Mohammed Nadeem, UDUPI / IRAQ
Friday, July 12, 2013

"LOVE IS BLIND" This guy totally proved it. Ranjhanaa movie line(Ek ladki ke chakkar me mare gaye).

Abdu, Mangalore/Doha
Friday, July 12, 2013

“I spent lot of money for her, even neglected to look after my own mother during her old age. You should get this punishment for ignoring your own mother for the sake of one strange girl

Mr bean,
Friday, July 12, 2013

Man who did not look after her mother deserve nothing but death.. he is mental guy making stories..

Wilson DSouza, Moodbidri
Friday, July 12, 2013

In Internet World, it is easy to make (or even break) relations...

oswald, mangalre
Friday, July 12, 2013

How can a person will remit money without knowing a person he is totally mental. no sympathy for him

Ajith , Bangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

How he gave 14lacs, is it thr bank or gift...whichever mode...he should be able to trace her......whatever he is Babkra number 1

Royal, Dubai / Mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

Facebook is artificial,same face book love also artificial,without knowing a girl sending money to her big mistake, met beautiful girl immediately forgotten mother biggest mistake so he deserve to suffer but death is not in your hand Ravi. Don't die leave and take care of your mother and marry good girl all the best.

Bryan, Bahrain
Friday, July 12, 2013

People who don't have FaceBook account, I assume they don't have a face to show,only kidding.

sarika, mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

Rakesh shetty
you forgot to mention 2014 in ur comments

ROBIN STEEVAN, KUDLA
Friday, July 12, 2013

2014 is not good for Rakesh & Nagesh.... because congress once again will come into power....sachchai kadvi hothi hai aur....face book mein ek account open karo Sarika.

MANJAUANTH, QATAR
Friday, July 12, 2013

Now, Allahbad Court will be notice to all bachelor ban to use mobile phone & face book.

Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah
Friday, July 12, 2013

Last week i received a mail from "BBC group"..informing me that i won 5lac Pounds..! every week we get mail or sms as winner..please contact so and so..This facebook girl also is part of that cheating group..HATS OFF TO THIS MAN WHO SPENT RS.14LACS WITHOUT SEEING HER !! How he earned Rs.14 lacs ? million $ question.

ROBIN STEEVAN, KUDLA
Friday, July 12, 2013

ONE OLD SAYING IN TULU " YENNEDHA LABHA......."

Rakesh shetty, mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

FACEBOOK TURNED INTO FAKEBOOK. ALL SOCIAL NETWORKING SITE MUST BE BLOCKED IN INDIA.

EVERYONE MUST SUPPORT SOCIAL GROUPS, INDIAN CULTURE ACTIVITY. HOPE INDIA WILL BECOME SAFER IN COMING DAYS. JAI HO INDIA.

Sheik M, Mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

which social groups I must join Rakeshanna, BD or Rama sene?

Gabriel Francis ( Gabbu), Mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

Socializing with strangers over internet can prove disastrous - Ravi's case proves it, though it it is tip of an iceberg !! Lot of rogues n criminal minded people search for gullible folks n trap them in chakravyuha which will have only entry but all exit routes will be blocked for the victim. Many times, these rogues on social sites are powerful people with lot of money n high contacts, which will keep these rogues safe from law. Sweet buttering words from strangers will end up in misery for innocent people. Blackmail tactics will be employed by these rogues once they succeed in breaking through your confidence. Cyber world is the most unreliable imaginative world - nothing is real. Beware of your happiness n dont trust too much.

Gabriel Francis ( Gabbu), Mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

Couples who are blind have more trust n faith despite not having sight, than fools who have gift of sight but fail to make use of it. Love can be blind but actions/behaviors cant be blind.

sarika, mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

I have no facebook account why to put myself in trouble i can live without that so u dnt worry

Bollu urf.....urf..bb, Mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

Don't ever give your correct information in any of social networking sites..!!
It's nothing but total risk..anybody take chance to ruin you completely..
Always play safe..

ROBIN STEEVAN, KUDLA
Friday, July 12, 2013

BOLLU YEH NAAM BHI ASLI NAHIN....KABHI VICKY MALHOTRA AUR KABHI KUCH AUR....ABHI BOLLU BANKE LOGONOKO ULLU MATHH BANA PYARE...!!

Bollu, Mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

Robin..
sahi kaha...
Jab Tak Chand-sitare Hai Is Duniya Mein..naam Raaz rahegee..
Shayad Qayamaat ke din pata chal jayega..
Naam Se Kya Rakha Hai Dost..
After all Identity which counts the most..!!

damian, bijai
Friday, July 12, 2013

facebook turned into FACECROOK

Sarika, padil mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

Baning facebook for what ,it is his stupidty to spend so huge amount for a imaginary girl,.who knows it may be a boy ..with fake id...

HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain
Friday, July 12, 2013

By the way what's your face book ID Sarikaji.

kudhkeynayak, managalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

fake ID made him mad where he has never spoken2her.
Here all people are blaming the girl.
Unnecessarily girl's name is spoiled.
Lot of men have fake girls id n chat with guys who doesnt even spoken to any girl in their entire life....suddenly fall in love and they think nobody else other than these surprise girls love is everything4them.

Allen, Mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

If this boy Ravi files a case against this girl (or could be a boy in a fake profile),police can trace the culprit easily through the bank account used for the transaction. Rupees 14 lacs is not a small amount to forget.

Hussain, Karkala
Friday, July 12, 2013

"Yeh Jawani Hai Deewaani"

Aadil Khan, Kasaragod, Saudi Arabia
Friday, July 12, 2013

This is the height of stupidity. Shelling out 14 lakhs of rupees for an imaginary girl!

The girl is smart and knows how to squeeze and take out what she wants. It is now time for Ravi to look for legal action against the girl. But again, under what offence girl can be booked is question mark.

Pinto, Mlore
Friday, July 12, 2013

Aadil khan,
THERE ARE MANY SECTIONS IN IPC Under which such person can be booked.
I generalise the term to mean either sex or no sex.
Start when enticing,
False promises, alluding to part with money by giving false info,impersonating,
Fraud,cheating , 420 etc...

Lavin Noronha, Paladka
Friday, July 12, 2013

Sometime people learn the lessons the hard way. In this materialistic world love, care, respect takes the backseat. Deceit, rudeness, ungratefulness are means of the day.

geoffrey, hat hill
Friday, July 12, 2013

Apt anticlimax to this story would be the 'heroine' turning out to be a boy in reality in the end.

HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain
Friday, July 12, 2013

Beware of this kind of girls/Face Book criminals.

AMAR NATHAL, MANGALORE
Friday, July 12, 2013

Leave alone meeting them on facebook, even if you meet them face to face, don't spend a single paise on them!

Charles D'Mello, Pangala
Friday, July 12, 2013

He must be a idiot.

RIVIN CRASTA, MANGALORE
Friday, July 12, 2013

BAN FACEBOOK PLEASE

Anwar, Padil,Mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

Dinesh,When u fall in love,u will experience what happened to Ravi.It is a dangerous pain.He is not fool, love made him blind.

Dinesh Poojary, Kundapura/Bengaluru
Friday, July 12, 2013

Anwar, Padil,Mangalore

Till now, I have never fallen in love. I hope this will continue till I get married :-)

Now coming to the matter, many people have fallen in love, got married and living healthier life. Not everyone got fooled. If fooled, not to THIS MUCH EXTENT of 14 Lakhs :-) (Ravi would have thought 14 lakhs is zero infront of love). He spent this much amount to an ONLINE friend, which made him to go OFFLINE in life.

We should call this guy RAVI a big fool because he did not realize that he was being made fool till he lost 14 Lakhs Rupees.

Bollu, Mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

Anwar..
Ravi is not only fool but big fool..
Pyaar mein hosh ko gaya..apne 'Maa' ke bhi khyal nahin kiya..!!
Jo ho gaya acchha ho gaya..

Manoj, Bolar
Friday, July 12, 2013

Ravi,
Don't worry about that. Please file a case on her. This case is not only for your money, This will be a good Lesson for every Cheating girls.

Dinesh Poojary, Kundapura/Bengaluru
Friday, July 12, 2013

He spent 14 lakhs Rs to learn a lesson now. I call him big fool...

Now let him create a FB account in the name of the girl, start chatting with boys to get 14 Lakhs Rs back.... Ha ha...

vicky, manglore
Saturday, July 13, 2013

i confirmed now u member of sanga parivaar

S.M. Nawaz Kukkikatte, udupi
Friday, July 12, 2013

Am sorry to say Ravi for his presently situation, But he totally blinded in his "love words" because of his "believes of love". We understand "fall of trust" but this is a lesson for him for his future life. Finally Suicide not a solution, be a gentleman and open your eyes there you see lot of others options for lives. God Bless You,

Aloka Nath, Bengaluru
Friday, July 12, 2013

It is easy to get fooled by others or by self if one cannot balance ones thoughts and emotions with relations to others. A short encounter with strangers either in a bus, train or flight may lead to good relationship but may also be exploitive.

Felix Gonsalves, Mangalore
Friday, July 12, 2013

Side effect of "facebook"

Ad.pinto, Mlore
Friday, July 12, 2013

Ravi why worry,
File an FIR in nearest police station
Easy to trace through cyber crime in RAM bhavan
Forget the girl at least get your money back
BOOK THR GIRL LET, HER FACE THE MUSIC.

 
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