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Udupi: Insulted by girlfriend's father, lover commits suicide

  •   Mon, Sep 17 2018 10:05:46 PM

Harshini Brahmavar

Daijiworld Media Network – Udupi (EP)

Udupi, Sep 17: Reprimanded and slapped by his girlfriend's father and smarting under the insult, a 22-year-old youth, who allegedly committed suicide near Vishnumoorthi temple, Kemthooru two days ago, died at KMC hospital, Manipal, on Monday, September 17.

Sooraj Suvarna (22) resident of Puttur was in love with the daughter of Viroopaksha for the last one year. Viroopaksha, who opposed the love affair of his daughter, had come to Curtain Paradise shop, Lions Circle here on August 15 last month where Sooraj was employed. Viroopaksha had hurled expletives at Sooraj and even slapped him with his footwear.

Sooraj, who was dejected due to the insult, consumed rat poison near Vishnumoorthi temple, Kemthooru on September 15. Manoj Suvarna, Sooraj’s elder brother in a complaint to Udupi town police station stated that Sooraj died at 5.45 am on September 17 at Manipal KMC hospital without responding to treatment.

A case has been registered at Udupi town police station.
  

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  • RAJ, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    May his soul rest in peace..... but the sad incident took place on 15 the September after the insulting incident took place on 15th August.... Is there any conspiracy ???

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  • Geralyn Pinto, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Poor young man. If only he hadn't taken his life and sought assistance instead. Perhaps, he could have been talked out of it. Or at the very least, a counsellor could have attempted to do so. Now we will never know what factor deep down in his psyche prompted him to take a completely irreversible step. May his soul Rest in Peace and, as many have said, may his family be granted the grace to come to terms with their loss.

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  • JNB, Mangalore-Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    In Canada after 16 years age no one can interfere with your love or you privacy neither Father or Father-in-law would be!

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  • CHRISTINE PINTO, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Why he did not remember his lover while committing suicide. If his lover is with him why to worry.

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  • mak, Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    First of all RIP and may almighty give patience to his family to bear this huge loss. I would say he has taken a very wrong step. He should have fight back with the girl father. Literally most of the girl's parents become villain in love matters so the guy become victim and take such steps with his precious life.

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Girl's Father lost innocent ,handsome would be son in law..What was boy's mistake ? He loved his daughter ..Was it a Big Mistake..? He should have been happy that some kindhearted guy loved his daughter...Now face legal battle...Run from Police station to Lawyer to Court.......one day, you are so fed up after running behind them that you slap yourself with same old Chappal..

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    @ Cynthia, Mangalore

    Experience speaks better than knowledge.
    Every second person cannot comeout of love trap.
    Very few can achieve and end successfully.

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  • Cynthia, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Yes, very true Flavian. Life is very precious...some cannot handle the failure.. Purely depends upon their mental stability. Health of mind is very important.

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Cynthia, Mangalore
    That is true.
    I have passed that stage but my experience in such matter never let me down. All good memories are lingering in my mind. Few can have success at the end and Bhandarkar, is one of them. (from his comments)

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    One by one, love guidelines are pouring out from some experienced guys.

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  • JNB, Mangalore-Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    before venturing in to love some basic techniques should be learnt.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Wed, Sep 19 2018

    JNB Mangalore ,as you say before before venturing in love one has to learn basic technic .One doesnt venture in love but you fall simply fall in love without much efforts .No big technics are needed.Not when it is a real one.Here for girls father,he was not a prestigious enough or a rich one?Anyway he shouldnt have indulged in such a act with a adult,and would be son in law.some simply raise their hands before utter a word.respecting others is a quite unknown word to some indians.Even politicians.Boy too shouldnt have taken it as scandal but fight for his lover and show him he can also a normal respectful person who earns his own money.But some take it so as disgrace.sad may his soul rest in peace.

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  • sameer, Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Looks like father has RSS ideology and its all well planned murder. CBI inquiry should be given and RSS people should be arrested ASAP

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Do not take love seriously...................? (is that your personal experience ?
    Love comes and it is not imposed by force.
    Only the experienced guys know better.

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  • NR, mangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    VERY SAD NEWS.

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  • Dam, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    My Advice to friends Pls don't take Love too seriously...

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  • Ramesh, udupi

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Agree. There is very very few in world actually 100% happy with Love/marriage etc

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  • Lionel Dsouza, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    GIVE LIFE IMPRISONMENT TO GIRLS FATHER.....
    IF HE HAD PROBLEM, HE SHOULD FILE A FIR......WHO GAVE HIM RIGHT TO SLAP, WITH CHAPPAL, IN WORK PLACE....

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    R Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    This boy should have taken your advise atleast.
    Not a courages boy at all. Else he would havae eloped and fulfilled his herts wish.

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  • Cynthia, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Flavian,
    No one was aware till now about the sad stories of Bhandarkarji till today.. Even Suraj for sure.
    Now at least some of the readers will get encouraged by the performance of bhandarkarji.. May god protect us all

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  • Af,,, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Idiots they do not think about parents struggle to bring them up. weak minded people commit suicide.

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    When you are in love with girl or boy, then you have to "Expect & Accept" all these things like slapping,beating, insult from opposite party members..Otherwise, you have to keep yourself away from Love business..Here, boy did mistake..He is young, He should have proved girl's father wrong by achieving his goal or reaching big milestone in his life.. but he opted for suicide..Very bad..RIP..

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  • Shoan D Souza, Sacheripet

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    My heart is really aching. ...!
    Regarding girl's father, it's nothing wrong to avoid his daughter from love? Infatuation with her boyfriend. As a good father he could have taken that step. ...!
    Whatever it may be , boy couldn't committed suicide, didn't thought of his parents and siblings.
    He could be ready for any consequences to prove his love with his girlfriend.
    He forgot EVERYTHING IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR...!

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  • vidisha, Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    What the girl's father did was absolutely wrong. He should first correct his own daughter. The concerned girl and boy are not minors, they can decide for themselves. It is not a crime to fall in love. The girl's father has no right to go and slap the boy with his slipper. If the same was done to his son would he have accepted it. No. He would have felt insulted. The same with Sooraj, he also had self respect. I feel the girl's father should be severely punished.

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  • Vincent Rodrigues, Katapadi/Bangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Quite sensitive issue to be handled with care and caution.

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  • Loverboy, Kudla

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    He is a nut indeed.

    I was beaten up black and blue by hired goons and the cops as well. Of course police hit me because her parents gave a false complaint.

    But now we are happily married for 20 years and yes we are still very much madly in love.

    Coward boy, ran away from reality.

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  • Hegde, AE

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Everybody is not thomas alva edison dear loverboy. Godforbidden if your spouse dies you may not be strong enough to bear the loss and you may be alcoholic or go under depression with suicidal thoughtslike my father who is an exarmy officer . So please don't judge and comment easily. Wishing you couple a happy life of togetherness with lots of love.

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  • Cynthia, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Love boy,
    Everyone is unique in their personalities and emotions All are not bold and daring.. You are lucky and more blessed.. Suraj didn't even think of his parents before taking up such a big step.. Let's pray for his soul and family...

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  • Loverboy, Kudla

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Hegde bro and Cynthia, thanks for your reply. I was just trying to imply that he shouldn't have just done what he did. If he really loved the girl then he should have faced the consequences proved it to the father that he is capable to take care of the girl. We don't know if he discussed the incident with the girl or his own family.

    God knows the kind of difficulties his parents went through to raise him and educate him. Like you said Cynthia, he just could have spoken to his parents. But he just went away. That's not love.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Viroopaksha is a Villain & should not let off ...

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    I know only Chaddi's will support a Villain ...

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  • Kannadiga, Karnataka

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    and when CM Ibrahim aborted his daughter all chaddiless supported......

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  • Ramesh, udupi

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Really sad,,,,That is nowadys people stick to smart phone..They is smart way of living.
    Only in the mind whatsup, facebooks,,patayeri,,,,patayeri. not really understanding the life,

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  • R Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Love is not for the weak hearted.
    What does suicide achieve ?
    Sad yes but then everybody forgets.Waste of life.
    Like that I should have committed suicide so many times.
    Love Life first before venturing into anything.It's most precious.

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  • Cynthia, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Bhandarkarji,
    Amidst of this sad news your comment made me to smile...several times love failure??? Hope and pray god bless you abundantly always..
    Anyway good comment.. Especially last sentence of yours... encouraging words.. Stay blessed..

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Then what dear Cynthi?
    How many times.! Once or twice would have been Ok!
    Girl's father only drove out once.
    Once another girl's mother said ..Age difference...
    So many silly reasons...
    Like you said once,we did not meet then! What to do?
    Now wife says...All were lucky that they escaped from my clutches...
    Life's like that... Is it not?
    You have face everything...

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    You have to face everything...
    Please read as..Ok?
    Otherwise one Ratna from Bangalore will be behind me saying ..What kind of English ....and what have you written ... and all that.
    Kaheen Gelyaari Sonnaath Cynthi>>>>

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  • Cynthia, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Yes Bhadarkarji,
    Past is history now.. Still people involved in your tragic Life are still remembered by you... Don't worry life is like that... Kaheen gelyari sukh samadaan na..
    your eve is simply teasing you... Take it positively.. She meant to say is, she wanted to meet you in the beginning itself.. Not after those two incidents love her understand her more... In return you will get it double... Go ahead... God bless

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  • Mark Dcruz, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Coward .. He should've slapped his girl friend father from his old Bata chappal..

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  • Abdul jabbar, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    i wont say girls' father is wrong.Its very common to thrash boys after finding out about lovestories. But the boy should have shown some courage.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Pyaar Kiya To Darna Kya ???
    RIP Sooraj ...

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  • Fayaz, Mangalore /Dubai

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Dear parents let your children's choose there own life partner it's there life
    And world is changing try to change as per that
    But try to guide your children from begening
    And see that this do not happen with you and your loved once

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  • prem, moodbidri

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Brother Sooraj, you had an opportunity to prove your worth to your lover's father. You could have consoled yourselves and moved on... but, now only can say RIP

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  • Cynthia, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 17 2018

    Rest in peace Suraj.. For some one's sake who is totally unknown to you, you took this grievous step and left your own family in darkness... May god grant strength and courage to bear the loss of your absence dear... Very sad.

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  • Langoolacharya, Belman / Washington,DC

    Mon, Sep 17 2018

    Sooraj, RIP brother...

    I dedicate this song to you...

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FFW6dBHPcTo

    ...JH...

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  • Coman man, Udupi

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    This is because of neglect, ignorance and over pride of girls parents. In present generation girls parents let their girl child go free on the soceity, they can do anything they want, can go anywhere they want, can go out anytime they want.. no culture, no norms, no repect, nothing... Girls minds filled with WE ARE FROM HIGHER OR MIDDLE CLASS WITH MODERN APPROACH TO LIFE. if some mistakes happend every one will defend girl. But everyone forget the truth that "IMPOSSIBLE CLAP WITH ONE HAND

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  • Langoolacharya, Belman / Washington,DC

    Tue, Sep 18 2018

    Sounded like male Chauvinist ....

    ...JH...

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